The popularity of men is like a geomantic metaphysics. In the eyes of others, women with excellent conditions in all aspects are not pursued by many men. However, people think that men should not like many women, but they are especially loved by everyone. It turns out that a person's marriage is not positively related to appearance, but also related to personal habits. It is difficult for a woman to get married if she has this habit physically. You don't like to tidy yourself up, and you've been untidy. As the saying goes, Buddha needs a good horse and saddle. If you don't tidy yourself up at all, others will certainly not find your beauty easily.
But when I say I don't like cleaning myself up, it's not that I don't like dressing up, but that I don't like cleanliness, and my cleaning habits are poor. My classmate told me a short story, which belonged to her former high school classmate. She said that girls often stay in bed, eat and drink at the bedside, and cover their beds with curtain cloth for a long time. That girl doesn't like cleanliness very much. She hasn't bathed for a long time, and the smell is very strong. Roommate asked her to take a bath, and she would refuse all scientific and reasonable suggestions, because it was a personal matter.
Therefore, the students in her dormitory are very relaxed, but it is not easy to force her, so they can only "settle down separately". One day, a classmate came to see her and thought the hospital bed was her friend's. She accidentally pulled open the curtain cloth and flashed a picture that she couldn't get over. She saw that the bedside was full of used paper towels, and all kinds of garbage on the bedside were pooled together, and a bad smell came to her face. Think about it, which man would like a woman who can't even wash herself and still smells?
When you meet such a woman, you must discuss it quietly behind your back. Who can like it? It's not ancient now. As a woman, the most basic environmental sanitation still needs to be improved. Even if a man is attracted by his beautiful appearance, he may avoid it because he fully understands that he can't stand women's untidiness in the future. Reject all social media and shut yourself down. Don't be attractive just because you look good, and don't be too cold and arrogant. If you don't communicate with others, others won't dare to touch you. There was a beautiful woman in our former class. Her face value is not only the kind that men like, but even all women will feel beautiful.
But it is puzzling that no one in the class pursues her, and most of them just discuss it behind her back. Because he is really too introverted to associate with other students, even her roommate thinks that he has never said two or three words to her. I usually see her when I walk on the road. He also walks alone with headphones. Everyone once suspected that she was introverted. This is the character that determines the social circle. If you are not too closed, others can't get in if they want to. The feeling of others is that this person is really hard to touch, so he doesn't want to take the initiative to get along.