It is not good for the mother-in-law's family and the mother-in-law's family to visit the grave of a married daughter.
When a married daughter returns to her natal family to visit her grave, it will have a bad impact on her natal family’s reputation. A good Feng Shui practice is that when a daughter returns to her parents’ home to visit her parents’ grave, she will hold hands with her parents’ parents’ grave. Secondly, when a daughter returns to her parents' home to visit her grave, outsiders will feel that her parents' family has no successors. Therefore, in general, a daughter's visits to her mother's grave will have the greatest impact on her parents' family.
On Qingming Festival, married daughters can only visit the graves at their husband’s house and cannot go back to their parents’ house to worship their ancestors. In some places among the people, old people believe that if their married daughter returns to her parents' home to visit their ancestors' graves during the Qingming Festival, they will take away their good luck and bring ruin to their parents' family.
So in some places, married daughters are not allowed to come back to visit their ancestors’ graves. It would be detrimental to your father-in-law if you return to your parents' home during the Qingming Festival. However, this statement is quite superstitious. In fact, modern people no longer have so many taboos.
The importance of married women visiting graves
1. First of all, according to the customs of some places, only unmarried daughters can visit graves. For example, in Guangdong, China, as long as the daughters are not married, they can visit graves. You can go to the graves to worship your ancestors. So if the daughter is already married and returns to her natal family to visit her grave, it may have a negative impact on her natal family's fortune and reputation.
2. In some places, daughters are supported to go home to visit the grave, but there is a point. For example, if parents pass away, you have to choose to go home to visit the grave on a single day. If your parents have passed away, you have to choose an even-numbered day to go home and visit the grave. Depending on the place, there may be other explanations. You can ask the local elders for details.
The above content needs to be combined with the actual situation and is for reference only.