So you have to adjust yourself:
1. Less desire,
2. Less,
3. psychological balance point,
4. contentment is always happy.
Change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed, and don't lose yourself.
6. Live according to your own ability, and don't let other people's living conditions affect your mood.
Question 2: There are always people who say that their fate is bad. How to comfort them? Many people have it in many books.
I think this person also understands these comforts.
The point is, nine times out of ten,
Seeing others' apparent satisfaction does not mean happiness in life, let alone happiness.
The important thing is that others have the courage to face life.
Have the wisdom to overcome difficulties and the determination to work hard for your own life. Be your own master.
People are born with eight characters, so everyone's life is different. But luck can be hard.
You can earn eight or nine hundred dollars. If you work harder, you can jump to one thousand dollars.
There will be a degree of difference if you work hard.
Some people lack hands and feet, and even give them more hardships. He still faced it bravely.
Are you really unlucky or facing life negatively?
You don't cherish what you have now, and you are not sure what you can work for.
You can continue to sigh and think that your fate is not good and that God is unfair to you.
You can also work hard, study more and accumulate your own strengths. Opportunities are for those who are ready.
First half: don't hesitate; The second half of life: Do you want to regret it?
How to change your mind is up to you.
Question 3: She said that she had bad luck recently. How can I comfort her? She'll be fine.
Question 4: My girlfriend has had bad luck recently. How can I comfort her by asking for advice? Words will do. There are limits to what you can do, and you can't force what you can't do. Be sure to keep an optimistic and peaceful attitude, don't compare with others, and those who are satisfied will always be happy. In addition, everything has a gradual process, haste makes waste.
Question 5: How can I comfort my boyfriend if he is unlucky? Life always has its ups and downs. Always be prepared and work hard for the next opportunity. I believe you, husband. I'm here, come on!
Question 6: How to comfort your luck? I'll give you some luck.
good opportunity, favorable geographical location and support from the people
The most important thing is people and peace.
Try to get on well with everyone.
Question 7: My boyfriend has had bad luck recently, and everything goes wrong. How can I comfort him about the reasons why his life is not smooth?
Everyone has good luck and bad luck in his life. The quality of luck in life is like the twists and turns of the road. There is no road that is always smooth, and there is no road that is always bumpy. The reasons for bad luck can be summarized as follows.
The first is the unfavorable factors of fleeting time. That is to say, it's destiny takes a hand's luck in recent years. This situation is easy to see through the eight characters. In this case, we can only focus on defense and maintain our previous achievements.
Second, life is in the wrong direction. For example, it is most suitable for developing in the east direction and most taboo for developing in the southernmost direction. In fact, the choice is due south. In other words, I didn't go in a better direction, but in a direction that is least suitable for my development. If this happens, even if you are lucky, you can only get twice the result with half the effort.
The third is the choice of industry. As the saying goes, men are afraid of choosing the wrong line. In fact, everyone is like this. Some people are naturally suitable for the technical industry, but in reality they are engaged in administrative work due to family and other factors. As a result, everything went wrong, and in the end, he was a section chief at most, and it took a lot of effort to get to the next level. If you are engaged in technology, you can certainly succeed easily.
Fourth, it is the reason of feng shui. Some unlucky people came to me for a test. After playing a special game corresponding to the eight characters, I found that I had good luck in recent years, but the reality was that I hit a wall everywhere, and later I learned that it was because of Feng Shui.
Fifth, it is the factor of good and evil. There must be Qing Yu in the Palace of Charity. People who do good deeds often have unexpected gains. This is also one of the reasons why a person's life is inaccurate. Once a 33-year-old man came to me to predict when he would have a boy. I said that if you do more good deeds, it will be difficult to have a boy. At this time, the other party asked me: What does this have to do with doing good deeds? It's really hard for such a man to have a boy.
It can be seen from the above points that when you are lucky, you can get twice the result with half the effort and succeed easily by going to the place that suits you and doing the industry that suits you best, and then paying attention to the environment and doing good deeds.
Question 8: What should you do if you have been unlucky and in a bad mood? I feel that heaven is unfair. What you want is nothing. How to comfort yourself? This is just an opportunity for you to hone. Life is like an electrocardiogram. Life is full of ups and downs. After this hurdle, you will be greeted with a bright tomorrow.
Question 9: My girlfriend told me that her fate was bad. How can I comfort myself by accepting my fate? I should reflect on whether I have done something bad to disappoint her. At the same time, it would be better to find out why she said so and enlighten her. Don't be influenced by yourself, be positive and optimistic, encourage her, comfort her and enlighten her.
Question 10: My friend said that he had bad luck recently. How can I comfort him? For example, others are worse than him. She is very lucky.