Question 5: What can I do to motivate him? Instead, he inspired me? Why are we so attractive, but when we are together, we have to quarrel? Why do you feel nothing when you know the right conditions? Why the feeling I once had is gone now? Question 6: Are we soul mates? Can it last forever? Are we soul mates? Second, the basic principles of comparison First of all, just as Zhouyi must emphasize the harmony of Yin and Yang, when two people compare, the most important thing is the interaction of the basic elements (fire, earth and feng shui). Harmonious energy fields can nourish each other. If there is disharmony, both sides will experience frustration, running-in difficulties and energy consumption. Of course, if two people can pursue growth, disharmony may bring greater gains. The most difficult thing is not disharmony, but that there is no phase between them and the energy field can't be related, so these two people can't have any deep psychological influence. It doesn't matter if two people don't care The sun, the moon and the rising energy are difficult to adjust. Therefore, if two people are in harmony in these aspects, they can have a sense of harmony at that time. This sense of harmony will inspire them to truly love and blend when they are themselves and each other, and bring them a sense of identity and joy. This comparison reflects instant, full and smooth acceptance and interaction, so it is very common in intimate relationships such as marriage. For example, the harmony between the sun and the moon often means caring for each other and being close to each other, and the rising and closing of the moon means opening your heart and so on. Without these harmonious interactions, it is not ideal to have the purest energy display and instant integration. Of course, it is enough to be friends with Mercury, Jupiter and Venus. If there is disharmony, even in other aspects, such as the sexual attraction of gold and fire, it is very hard and frustrating to maintain a long-term relationship. There must be a dialectical point of view, completely good is not necessarily good; There must be disharmony to adjust, otherwise, it will be lazy and boring if it is too harmonious. If it's not in the relationship, it's external and easier to fall apart. The lessons brought by a disaster like Saturn are inseparable if its energy can be properly introduced. It has great responsibilities and obligations in it, so it is very common in family relationships. Third, the comparative case problem: marriage needs the harmony of day, month and rise. If these elements are not harmonious, what about other elements? Please look at this case as follows. Case: The sun and moon energy of both sides activate each other's golden fire (love and sexual energy), and both of them rise to Cancer (appropriate). However, because they are pure earth images and wind images, one side will think that it is most important to earn money in a down-to-earth manner, and the other side will think that communication and fun between friends are the most important. Although they like each other in many ways, their love and sexual energy are also stimulated, but they gradually find that in this relationship, no matter how hard they try, they can't be themselves. ! ! ), unable to share the deepest things. Question: If we don't talk about long-term marriage, but only talk about temporary attraction, what is at work? Case: Many stars can play a temporary attraction role, just like "taking part in accidental amusement" and "being temporarily confused". Including Golden Fire, Kin ki, Fire Ghost, Golden Sky, Golden Ocean, Moon Sky and so on. For example, although there are few aspects such as personal planets, and the deep feelings of lovers have not been intensified, if there are the above aspects, it is not excluded that they will be intensified in love or sex. We can see the driving force of this relationship from the specific planets that produce interactive phases, such as the struggle and abnormal love of Saturn and Pluto to prove their existence and authority, or the unrealistic romantic fantasy of golden ocean and golden sky or the sudden disregard of calls. According to Jennifer's observation, golden ocean and golden sky are the most common phases of extramarital affairs. Question: Some people are very excited, but they will quarrel at first sight, or they will be exhausted in short. Why? Some of them are too attractive to toss about. There have been such examples, on the one hand, the sun shooter and the moon lion, on the other hand, the sun Gemini and the moon Aquarius. The two sides are running around day after day and month after month, and they are not attracted to each other. When two people are together for a long time, they will be exhausted, because these two positive forces (archers, lions, fire elephants and Gemini water bottles) are like raging fires, with the help of the wind. If they sleep in the same bed for a long time, this excessive energy fusion and collision will even damage each other's health. Fourth, the importance of this astrolabe Even if it is so important, a person's birth astrolabe has already reflected more problems. Problem: someone's own life chart energy is not commensurate, so when compared with anyone, such a problem can't be avoided. Case: If a man's moon falls in Cancer, Venus falls in Libra, and the moon is punished by gold, then he will be attracted to a woman with Libra characteristics, but at the same time he will be attracted to a woman with Libra characteristics, which symbolizes his deeper emotional desire, because he feels as if he saw the other half, so he married a woman with Cancer characteristics, and at the same time, Venus needs are not met. If the moon and Venus can't be satisfied at the same time, you can't have both. When his deepest security needs, self-feeling and social image (the moon) are satisfied, his emotional desire for romance (Venus) is frustrated, and vice versa. If you know such a man, you need to understand that his emotional internal friction is too great, so he can't give you complete love. Question: Why are some people confused about their love life? Case: Some people are too indifferent or too playboy, or both. This chart has long been clearly written. The reason may be that the ego is too strong, and I just use a series of relationships to set off the illusory ego, such as a palace that is too strong and rising day by day; Or because the ego is too weak, the boundaries are unclear and there is no ego, such as Japanese Pisces, Golden Pisces, 7 houses are too strong, 12 houses are strong, the soil is weak, and the overall pattern is weak. Because everyone else is self-mapping, there is a problem that the other half is hard to find, and so on. Jennifer showed it to two people entrusted by Ocean before introspection. Every day is Liuhe, every day is Liuhe. The woman's personality is really strong (the sun, the moon, the fire and the earth are all positive energy, the moon and the scale are harmonious, the fire and the sky are harmonious, and the moon lion and the earth are harmonious. This means that even if everyone listens to me, they have to look at me, so this character should not be very pleasing. Male and Japanese Sagittarius combine Neptune, Pisces and the seventh house of the moon, making selfless contributions. Compared with the positive contrast of the disk (Gemini Leo Libra Sagittarius), the combination of the two sides is the water triangle, the sun, gold, Scorpio arch, Pisces arch wood, which is very good. Moonfire alloy cow is a little hot, but it's not a big problem. I really want to persuade this girl that you are fine. Jennifer thinks she is the most emotional. See what people can understand. Look at your most confused self. Don't doctors treat themselves? Alas. . . . .