In other words, don't go too far, master the scale, forgive others without losing your own interests, and don't let the other side lose face.
What do you mean by being measured?
There are standards in doing things.
What do you mean by being measured?
Measurement (fēn inches). Appropriate limits of speaking or doing things. "I have a sense of proportion" means: I don't think about the situation and I won't talk or do anything casually.
What does it mean to be rude to others?
There is no discretion in dealing with people, which shows that this person has rules in doing things, rules in doing things and rules in speaking.
What to do, what not to do, what to do, what not to do,
There are rules about what can and cannot be said.
For example, someone in another family died, and you can't laugh there on the day of burial. This is the rule.
And discretion is that you are good at grasping this degree.
Can you understand?
What do you mean by caution?
Term size
Pinyin fēn cün
Basic explanation
Appropriate standards or restrictions for speaking or doing things.
Self-discipline means that you can grasp the standards or limits of speaking or doing things without doing too much and talking too much.
Why do people have to be measured in doing things?
To be a man, you have your own principles and discretion. The so-called low-key life is invincible because you have good judgment and are not easily envied. Such as Tang Guo Ziyi and Ming Tanghe. When you do things, you should also be measured. The same thing, handled by different people, will have completely different results. For example, in the dispute between Chu and Han, Liu Bang and Xiang Yu have completely different views on failure.
A man said I was sensible and measured. What do you mean, beg?
It means you can't communicate with him. If you are not sensible, you will be said to be mentally young. When you grow up, you mature.
How to do things with proper limits?
Think more, sort things out, consider the consequences, and synthesize your own environment at that time. If you think it over, then make a speech or make a decision. It's very important: if people feel uncertain about doing things at ordinary times, you can try to pretend to be calm. Too much pretending will become natural, and people's feelings will change. There is a saying that if you don't do it, you don't have to do it first. If you don't have an S, you will be a winner, anything.
You said that a person has no discretion, and there is no discretion. How do you understand the meaning of discretion?
Established degrees or regulations, etc.