How to deal with a bad mother-in-law and then save her husband's heart?

Whether it is to save her husband's heart or to be happy, we must be tolerant. Keep an open mind. My husband's mother is definitely not close to her own mother, so think about us. But think about it. If you are a mother-in-law and you are in her position, do you think you will be happy if your son and daughter-in-law disagree? Not to mention those grandiose words, daughter-in-law and mother-in-law basically belong to the relationship that sheepskin can't stick to dogs, just for their own home and for your husband! Be generous and open-minded. What you give up will be gained. Some things are destined to be fought for by you or robbed by you. Give up this, maybe there will be greater gains in the future! In short, my opinion is not to care, because it will not have any good results for the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, or it is said on TV that the son-in-law doesn't care about his parents (in fact, who knows), and now the relationship between husband and wife is broken. You don't use either result. Forget it.