I'm not sure about other places, but in our place, the clothes of the dead are usually burned. Everyone is very taboo about this, thinking that if these things are not kept well, they may attract evil spirits to their homes, so they usually choose to burn them. Some people are immoral and litter, for example, in mountains, rivers and so on. It's terrible for others to see it.
Another reason is that these are commonly used by the deceased before his death. Since people are gone, we should burn them to him and let him use them in other places. At the same time, I am also worried that my relatives will be sad when they often see it. It is better to tidy up a little better, so as not to think about things.
I know that in some places, there is a special collection of this kind of clothes, that is, collecting and cleaning, and selling them at a low price if they are slightly newer. The kind that looks older will be recycled and reprocessed and made into other things for secondary use. But we didn't. We just burned them. Of course, there are no people or businesses who specialize in collecting this kind of clothes. How did you handle it there?
Here is a custom question. In our case, the clothes of the deceased need to be treated in different categories:
The first category is clothes buried with him. Except for the shroud specially bought from the shroud store, all the clothes of the deceased should be taken to the coffin for selection. The first thing is to get rid of clothes with fur and skin, such as sweaters, trousers and fur coats-these things can't be stuffed into coffins. The older generation pays attention to being buried with hairy things, and they will become hairy creatures in the next life. So you can't be buried with him. Pick out the qualified clothes and stuff them into the coffin with the dead. It's full of stuff. Prevent the body from moving and bumping in the coffin during the funeral.
The rest of the clothes buried with him were thrown into the garbage except that others took what they needed carelessly. And shoes, in our local pronunciation and "harm", no one wants them no matter how good they are. So I threw it all away; The hat is the same, no one picks it up, no one wants it-the reason is equally absurd: whoever picks up the thrown hat and wears it is a "dutiful son hat"! To hinder the elders of the family!
I wonder where these crooked ways come from! But you don't believe it, others do. So, sometimes, we have to follow people's habits. Otherwise, many people will give you trouble-they will bring all kinds of disappointments in their lives to "inappropriate" places in the process of burying their ancestors. Mixed with something that doesn't exist, such as Feng Shui. Blame everything on this. How ignorant!
In addition to clothes, the bedding of the deceased should be taken out and put on the toilet or on the pig or sheepfold. After drying, it should be thrown away or cleaned. This pillow, the night before the funeral, was cut and burned. The used bowl was dropped by her daughter on the road outside the courtyard door during the funeral.
In rural areas, these customs or superstitions are numerous. There are funerals that are far more exquisite than anything else.
After death, people usually put new clothes in coffins and bury them with the deceased, and the rest of the clothes are basically burned or thrown away in one place. Afraid of seeing things and thinking about people, I usually throw away clothes and bedding except photos.
When some old people die, the quilt will be called the "back quilt" of the next generation. I don't know what it means, but it should be good, otherwise none will be left.
Most of the abnormal deaths of young people are burned or thrown away. A woman in her twenties jumped from a building in our neighborhood. After her death, her mother-in-law threw away everything she used, including several mobile phones, clothes and quilts, and children's toys. Everyone in the community knew that she was afraid to take them. All the waste collectors outside have taken it away. The main reason is that the woman is too young to jump down from such a high building.
Some people don't care about good or bad. Everything is the same. My mother has been dead for almost 20 years. In my hometown, I can still see things used by my mother everywhere. May be bad for others, don't want to touch things used by the dead. Taboos are normal. After all, I don't feel much about outsiders, but my family will be very kind when they see it, just like their relatives are still around.
This is in accordance with local customs! And it varies from person to person! My mother-in-law died of cancer in May at the age of 52. Her clothes, bedding and relics are reluctant to burn to her, saying that clothes should be kept for her daughter to grow up. When I was cremated, I said I would burn bedding for her. He totally said, what should I use when I burn it? So I didn't burn any of them. ....................................................................................................................................................................... has been a husband and wife for more than 30 years, and I feel very cold and unreasonable? The problem is that my in-laws are all civil servants and their units are good. Not that I have no money. My father-in-law has money and his salary is high. .........
I feel sorry for your loss!
After all, dust to dust, dirt to dirt. Life will not bring, and death will not take away.
Sorting out the dead relics is very sad. If it still works, keep it, such as mobile phones and electronic products. It's a pity to throw it away, and it's a pity to stay. Everyone has feelings. You can't leave the tea cold. And at least these are valuable. Why not throw away the family heirloom? Because it's valuable.
Don't delete photos. Maybe at first, you will feel sad and painful when you see them. After all, everyone is gone. But the dead are gone, and the living are like husbands. In the future, you will feel how correct the saved photos are.
Other daily necessities, such as towels and toothbrushes, should be disposed of. According to local customs, beds, quilts and clothes are mostly lit. Let it go.
After dealing with all the things, no matter how much pain, time will dilute everything, and what remains can be mourned. Living relatives work hard and live a good life, and the deceased can rest in peace.
After people die, clothes are thrown away, and some places are burned, but we throw them away and don't burn them.
I remember when my grandmother died, all my children put some relics and clothes in big bags and threw them away. Leaving only some relics as a souvenir. People are dead, and it's no use keeping clothes. And there are many mice in my hometown, so I keep clothes to make nests for them. Therefore, whenever someone dies in my hometown, my children will start to pack the clothes and bedding of the deceased and throw them away in big bags after the funeral.
If a very young person dies, relatives will not throw them all away. They will only keep some and throw away some old ones. What is left is not for relatives to wear, but because there is a superstition here. The villagers think that young people will often return to their homes, because they died young and their souls still care about the world. They just want some relatively new clothes so that the souls of the dead can see them and have something to wear.
This is the superstition of the villagers. I was scared when I was a child, and I am very touched now, at least I respect the young deceased. As the saying goes, there is no letter, but whether there is a ghost or not, every deceased person should be respected by our descendants.
In our countryside, the clothes of the dead are burned, leaving nothing behind.
When a person dies, the clothes he wore before his death are relics. For relics, they will be handled according to local traditional customs. For example, valuable and useful ones will be given to children, and meaningful ones will be left to think about. However, things like clothes, straw mats and quilts are all set on fire along the "spirit room".
Grandma is 95 years old and grandpa is 97 years old. My grandparents live a long life. Grandma left first last year, and grandpa followed in her footsteps in June this year. After grandpa was cremated, we sent his ashes to the columbarium. Grandparents have been working together for 80 years, leaving first and then arriving.
In our country, it was still cremation at that time. Grandparents prepared a coffin for themselves at the age of 70, and later they were cremated. This coffin has lost its use, but grandparents are still alive, and this coffin can't be disposed of in advance, so it has been placed in a wooden house behind the house. Our own people are not afraid to see it, but our neighbors are afraid every time they pass by. She told us this herself.
Last year and this year, when grandparents left, we took the coffin out directly, poured some oil on it, and then burned all the clothes used by the old man before his death with the coffin.
Burning paper money and paper houses In our local funeral custom, a kind of paper is specially burned during the funeral. The old man in the village said that this is burning two kinds of paper, one is paying off debts, because people owe a lot of debts at birth and make many mistakes in their lives. Now that people are gone, one kind of paper is to pay off debts, so that we can get on the road. There is also a kind of paper that is the money of the underworld. The paper we burn here is the money used by the elderly in the underworld.
The funeral system in different places will definitely be very different, but generally speaking, we will take off the clothes of the deceased. In our country, it was burned. What should we do in your country?
How to deal with clothes after death? I think this problem has been handled well in the countryside.
After people died in the countryside. Except the shroud you should wear, if you have good clothes. Put them in the coffin together, if there are poor families in the village who need these clothes. You can also give it to them.
The rest of the clothes and quilts. Burn it together. All of them were given to the deceased, leaving only the portrait of the deceased at home. Everything else is reduced to ashes.
Because people think. Only when it turns to ashes can the dead take it away. Take it to another world to enjoy.
Just like Tomb-Sweeping Day's ancestor worship and grave sweeping. We came to the grave to offer flowers, kowtow and burn paper. Burning paper is to give money to the dead.
Still chanting at the grave. General content. Is to tell them to take care of themselves in heaven. Don't be stingy, learn to spend.
Willing to spend. Ask them to keep their families safe and healthy. His descendants have a smooth job and a happy life.
It has been 20 years since I left my hometown. Every night in Tomb-Sweeping Day. I always look at my hometown. Burn a bundle of paper. Light some incense. Express one's yearning for an old friend.
I also want to take my family to this kind of activity. Let my children feel this atmosphere for themselves.
Let them respect their ancestors. Now cities advocate civilized sacrifice. Instead of burning paper and incense, we offer flowers online in a fashionable way to worship our ancestors. Sacrifice words to express feelings of missing.
The disposal of clothes after death in the city is not so elegant. I don't mean everywhere. But the community we live in.
As long as someone dies in that building. A day or two later, next to the trash can. I left behind the clothes and quilts of countless dead people.
Supplies, as well as sofas, beds and cabinets. This is a great disrespect for the dead. Some were picked up by scavengers. Some materials were picked up by scavengers and then sold at stalls.
Can you believe it? I cann't believe someone bought it Most old people died of illness. His clothes and belongings are infected with germs to some extent.
Centralized disinfection and destruction should be carried out. Reduce the spread of diseases.
To show respect for the dead. The clothes of the deceased should be handled carefully, and don't throw them away at will. what do you think?
What will you do with your clothes after you die? This is actually very simple. If it is expensive clothes, relatives can wear it, which is nothing, but if they are unhappy or disgusted, most of the clothes are burned or thrown away. Anyway, nobody wants it. After my old father died, I saw one of his shirts. It's not very good, but I can wear it to work. At that time, I was poor and had nothing to burn. Until I wear it out, I sometimes joke. I often say that my father died and I fell in love with a big blouse. But now, it's really a pity to burn clothes. Some of them are temporary newcomers and have no upper body. I can't help it. No one is short of clothes. Besides, most of them are disgusted and can only be burned!
What will you do with your clothes after you die? Some places in northern Anhui do this. People always wear clothes when they are alive. Food, clothing, housing and transportation are the first. Wear clothes, whether high-grade or low-grade; Whether it's a suit, a Chinese costume or a Tang suit. Change into single clothes, double clothes and cotton-padded clothes according to the season all year round. Especially now that living conditions are good, everyone should have enough clothes to wear.
With so many clothes, it is easy for people to live: wear whatever they can, donate whatever they can't, or sell it to street vendors to buy second-hand clothes.
What if people die? What should I do with the clothes left behind? In some places in northern Anhui, this is usually the case.
One way is to burn it. The night before the funeral, cleaning the shop means burning the clothes worn by the dead. The reason why people burn clothes is because people think that after death, they should live in the underworld like the dead and wear clothes. Burning the clothes they wore before their death is to prevent them from being naked in the underworld. This is about the same as burning paper. In fact, people still have an idea that they always feel unclean when they see these clothes, especially those of people who have been ill in bed for a long time, even though they are their relatives. It is better to burn the fire without affecting the living.
Another way is to leave a few pieces for the children. No matter how many clothes the dead have, they can't burn out. He always leaves a few clothes that have not been worn, or have not been worn a few times. A child leaves one or two as souvenirs, that is, souvenirs. Take it out on holidays, or miss the dead, it is also a matter of seeing things and thinking about people!
Say something more. Many years ago, no one had much money. If someone dies, in order to earn a few pennies, family members often burn some money-saving clothes of the deceased and sell others to small vendors, who collect old clothes from door to door.
These small traders washed the old clothes they received, and then took them to the rural market to sell them, from which they earned profits. It is said that these old clothes can't be sold, but some people can't do anything for money.
Fortunately, it's gone now.