As Schopenhauer said, "Life is not easy. We marched slowly in the years, swallowed many tears and hid many pains, just to let ourselves and the people around us live a proper life. "
Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. After the ups and downs of life, we finally understand that we don't have to be arrogant when we win, and we don't have to be discouraged when we lose. No matter how hard it is, it will pass, and no matter how beautiful it is, it will require people to come down.
The geomantic omen in the world will always turn. No matter what happens, you can face and embrace life with a calm heart.
Middle age is a state of silence. The more powerful a woman is, the more she knows this.
I have met many really rich women, most of whom are peaceful and low-key, and gentle to everyone; I have also met some women who are born with beauty and good looks. Most of them are powerful, cautious, modest and low-key.
These two kinds of women, speaking and doing things quietly, have high-profile capital, but choose a low profile rationally.
Don't underestimate a low-key woman. Many things don't mean you can't, many things don't mean you can't. When people reach middle age, being strong is the background color that a woman should have.
When people reach middle age, they are no longer children. Don't be hysterical when you meet something, just want to shout at the world.
For a woman of this age, calmness is more important than anything else.
Sister Xianglin is sympathetic, but also annoying. The best protection for middle-aged women is not to uncover the scars easily, but to lick the wounds alone in the dead of night and get up the next day to live seriously.
After all, life is like drinking water, and it is not easy for everyone. Don't feel wronged, and don't feel that fate is unfair to you.
What life gives you, you should follow it carefully, be strong and brave, and try to live a good life. Time will not treat you badly.
Some women haven't learned how to control their temper until they are old. Smart middle-aged women are different. They never lose their temper easily, but no one dares to disrespect him.
As Ms. Yang Lan said, "You may not succeed, but you must not fail to grow."
One of the signs of a woman's maturity is that she has learned to forbear and treat others gently. Even if something goes wrong, she can laugh it off.
There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: "People are born weak and die strong. The life of plants and trees is soft and fragile, and their death is withered. " Many times, the softer things are, the more vigorous and lasting their vitality is, just like when people get old, all their teeth are lost, but their soft tongues are still there.
Toughness can't solve the problem. On the contrary, forbearance, restraint and gentleness can effectively resolve contradictions and achieve a person's inner strength.
Lv Junjie's first and second wives were quiet, forbearing and wise, while the other was furious and noisy. There is no doubt that the former is more popular, liked and lived longer in the play.
A clever woman knows how to be decent and dignified. Live high and don't lose her temper, but in her sober and rational mind, she sees everything around her, takes timely action, and is not rude or impulsive.
Don't take it out on others at will. Whether you are happy or not, you can treat others with a mentality. A woman who always has her own name in her heart is "calm" in dealing with people, but it is even more admirable.
Educator Xie Xueya once said: "People with a little knowledge are not modest, and those with knowledge and ability must be modest."
By the same token, a truly powerful woman doesn't like to make public, and she won't compete with others everywhere to show off. Those women who show off their children today, show off their husbands tomorrow and talk about the RV the day after tomorrow are just a few things.
As we all know, a really smart and connotative woman, because she suffered some losses when she was young, knows that showing off can't bring any help or even trouble, so she knows that she can make a fortune without showing it.
Because I know how many abilities and skills I have, I don't need to look for a sense of existence from others' praise and recognition, and I won't feel inferior more or less because of vanity, and even disdain to compare and show off.
Writer Bai Luomei once said: "In this noisy world, we all need a place suitable for ourselves to put our souls."
This place, besides home and family, is our heart. Only when a woman loves and recognizes herself from the bottom of her heart can she really live calmly, frankly and happily.
When people reach middle age, the more quietly a woman is, the more she actually has. Those superficial years, quiet, uncontroversial, and not robbing, can also make them better protect what they have. Those women who keep silent are often winners in life.
A middle-aged girl around me likes to be alone and looks a bit "unsociable". She seldom attends parties between acquaintances. She thought she was cold at first, but when she asked, she was really moved.
Under her ugly appearance, this sister not only trained both her children to be 985, but her husband's company also takes care of her family with an annual salary of tens of millions. Her own amateur painting and calligraphy class is an expired member and has been well received.
In addition to being busy with housework and painting and calligraphy classes, this sister especially likes to be alone, away from the noise and disturbance of the outside world, reading books and drinking tea. She said: She likes to enjoy her peace and quiet.
Perhaps, it is in this loneliness that she has settled herself better, so that she has been running her family and career "quietly" in recent years.
Middle-aged people, probably those strong women, have achieved stable happiness through silent efforts.
Don't talk too much about the shortcomings of yourself or other people's parents, don't be aggressive and noisy, just listen quietly, cultivate your inner tolerance, quietly precipitate and shine, and wait patiently for flowers to bloom.
Lin Yutang, a famous writer, said: "For us, the most important thing is not to care about truth, gain and loss, fame and fortune, dignity and wealth, but how to live happily and find the poetry of life from it."
Everything in the world is interlocking, and sometimes life is so magical. You have a good life and everything around you seems to be developing in a better direction.
When people reach middle age, I hope we can all be quiet women, collect good things and live happily for the rest of our lives.
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This article is very reasonable. I suggest you send it to all middle-aged and old friends around you!
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