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Confucius said, "Look at what it is, look at what it is, and look at its safety." .
When I returned to my hometown during the Spring Festival, I met friends, classmates and relatives I hadn't seen for many years ... After working hard outside for many years, I was "wandering" and had a different life and a different "three views". Meet and greet, have tea and eat, and talk about their respective States. We can roughly judge who can have deep communication, who can nod and say hello, and who can work together to do something in the future. ...
"Let it be", in the process of processing, see what it is doing.
"Look at what it is", in the process of dealing with it, look at what it is for.
"Check their safety", in the process of dealing with them, see what is the purpose of doing things.
By understanding his behavior and lifestyle from these three angles, we can probably judge whether his values are consistent with his own, so as to judge whether we can associate with him.
Confucius said, "those who benefit have three friends, and those who are straightforward, tolerant and knowledgeable are beneficial." .
Three kinds of people can be mentors: the first kind can directly point out what I can't do, what I need to improve, and what I need to pay attention to for my future growth ... such people can be outspoken to me; The second kind of person, if there is a dispute or friction between us and some unpleasant emotions arise, the latter can choose to forgive each other and forget the past; The third kind of person is a person who has a lot of knowledge and can bring me more knowledge, more knowledge and more cognition. Associating with these three kinds of people is beneficial to life and growth.
Confucius said, "A gentleman cares about Tao but not poverty." .
When we get together to discuss who has money, buy villas, buy luxury cars, marry people with money and status, and how to make more money, I don't feel anxious, depressed or excited. Confucius said that a gentleman will look at the problem from a higher pattern and moral level, see the greater value of life, and will not feel uneasy because of the embarrassment in front of him. Therefore, a gentleman is not worried about poverty.
For 3 consecutive days, choose 9 sentences suitable for the Spring Festival for your reference.
I wish you all a happy Spring Festival! Happy family!