It's not the cause of feng shui, it's the cause of karma, it's the cause of previous lives. All family members should reflect on themselves and correct themselves. The quarrel is because you are not good. The people and things you meet are your own mirrors, which reflect who you are.
Just because of me, I met such parents;
Just because of me, I met such a spouse;
Because of me, I met such children, friends, subordinates, bosses and strangers;
It is because of me that I met such a person, such a thing, such a thing.