It's a happy thing to have a bridal chamber. Many people have had similar experiences or learned something from TV dramas. Generally speaking, the description of the noisy bridal chamber in film and television dramas is basically accurate, but with the progress of the times, the traditional noisy bridal chamber has gradually become civilized and orderly, and the time has been greatly shortened. Except for a few areas, the bridal chamber can basically maintain civilization and elegance, so that newcomers can spend a wonderful night.
China has a vast territory and a long history and civilization, which is reflected incisively and vividly in folk customs. "In fact, three miles are different, and ten miles are different." Regional customs not only affect our production and life, but also have a certain impact on weddings, funerals and weddings. For example, the custom of having a bridal chamber is very different from place to place. In terms of time, method and content, each region seems to have its own characteristics. The relationship between the bridal chamber and the land is the biggest. According to the planning of the ancients, "southern rice is north", southern rice is north, and noodles are north. This is the natural boundary divided according to traditional farming. If you make bridal chamber according to this, don't be surprised.
In many areas in the south, the bride and groom will wait for a "happy meal" in the bridal chamber. In fact, it is a wooden bucket of glutinous rice mixed with dates, longan, walnuts and peanuts. The taste is mainly sweet. You can use honey or sugar, and press it with wooden boards to make the bride and groom eat a bowl. When eating, the groom should feed the bride with a spoon, and when the bride eats the last bite, she should feed the groom mouth to mouth, reflecting the meaning of happiness. Pasta is the main food in the north, so it is natural to use flour to make a fuss. The couple rested for half an hour after the banquet, and the friends also used this time to prepare a bag of white flour. When the couple saw the white flour, they would be confused: What is this for?
Don't worry, it's not to let you eat the flour raw. The mystery is actually at the bottom of the flour bag. There will be a bowl there. The groom needs to take it out by hand. If he can't take it out, he will be punished. The way of punishment is generally singing, truth or dare, squatting on the bride's back; If you don't like these manual labor, you'll have to fight for alcohol. Even if you dry three glasses of white wine, it will pass. In addition to the above two local customs, the bride and groom can also "chew the apple" when making trouble in the bridal chamber, and hang the apple in the air with a red rope until the bride and groom finish eating it. It seems that the custom of making bridal chamber varies greatly from place to place. I wonder where there are other interesting things in your place.