Is there really a saying that goes against this word in this world? How to get rid of this psychological shadow?

Yes The so-called "unlucky" means unlucky because of bad luck. The "son" here refers to the date of birth. The so-called birthday is the year, month, day and hour of someone's birth, which are expressed by a word "heavenly stem" and a word "earthly branch" respectively, such as "Jiazi" and "Heart has", and * * * adds up to eight words. According to superstition, the fate of a person's life is determined by the eight characters. In the old days, "criticizing the eight characters" was a mystery to solve and predict the fate of life in a superstitious way. For example, a pair of young men and women who are getting engaged have to go through a test to see whether they can get married, whether their married life is beautiful or not, and whether their families are rich or not. This seems to be determined by the eight characters of both parties. According to this superstitious conclusion, fate has long been decided. "People can't fight for their lives", so they have to "accept their fate". It seems that only resignation, drift and inaction is the right way in the world-in fact, this is pure nonsense! If Tianjin people are in a bad situation and work badly, they will say that they are "not good at words" or "not good at words". In fact, "people have joys and sorrows, and the moon is full of rain and shine." You can't get everything you want in this world. When encountering twists and turns, difficulties, and failure, they are disheartened and complain about their fate. This is the negative mentality of losers and cowards. Tianjin people say "breaking their word", which is sometimes a humorous statement of self-mockery. For example, in the factory workshop, a Tianjin buddy was late for work on Monday. He said, "Hi! People who are unlucky are given cold water-I went shopping with my daughter-in-law on Saturday night and lost 100. I bought two Jin of sea crabs in the market on Sunday to honor my father-in-law. It stinks. Are you ready today? The bicycle fell off the chain and fell six times along the way. I can't find a repair stand. I walked from Wandezhuang cart to Dinggu. Get up early but catch up late-isn't this' memorizing words'? " This made everyone laugh, and all the troubles of the young man were thrown to the country of claw depression. In fact, the course of life is the interaction of ups and downs, and fortunes depend on each other. You have been "reciting" these two days, and it will be fine after a while. Tianjin people with optimistic and humorous temperament can survive-ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi; Lost in the east corner, harvested mulberries; The wind and water turn, excellent. When people are in adversity, you must never be depressed and complain; On the contrary, we should make up our minds, strengthen our efforts, stand up from time to time and focus on the future. As long as we tide over the difficulties, we can reach the new realm of "another village with a bright future". Relax, my friend.