Sometimes there is a big generation gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are differences in lifestyle and behavior habits. Getting along with each other will inevitably lead to some contradictions. As a husband, you should take care of your wife first, because he is your favorite person, and you should also take care of your mother's feelings, because he has done everything for you, so you should adjust the relationship between your wife and mother. After encountering contradictions, we must solve them in time and never expand them.
There is no problem that a family can't solve, so it's best not to live with her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which can also avoid many unnecessary contradictions. Some children are really filial and like to live at home with their parents, and this behavior is likely to annoy their wives, so the best way is to buy another house nearby and let their parents live in it, so that the two sides can keep in touch frequently when they are close, which can not only maintain good family relations, but also prevent their wives from living together.
No matter what kind of contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, no matter whether the daughter-in-law is right or not, the daughter-in-law should not beat her mother-in-law with violence. After all, the mother-in-law belongs to the elders, so as a daughter-in-law, we must first learn to respect her. If the mother-in-law does have many problems, then she should tell her husband, let him communicate with her mother-in-law, avoid confrontation between them, and ease the tense relationship between them.