1. If the square table is sitting outside, the East is the elder; If it sits inside, the elder just faces the door. The round table is similar;
2. Pour wine is generally divided into two types:
2. 1. For example, at a wedding reception, the bride and groom and a relative who can drink too much (usually a father or a peer) will toast at the table;
2.2. If it is white wine (someone dies), the dutiful son will toast at the table;
3. In the arrangement of accompanying elders, a table of grandparents (such as grandma and grandma's house) is accompanied by a respected person in this room, and other guests are analogized; For example, young people should accompany their elders, and they should also pay dividends and liquor. For red wine, the bride and groom (or the owner's owner) will accompany the oldest ancestor, and for white wine, the dutiful son will accompany the oldest ancestor.
When I say the oldest ancestor, I mean that the family members of my grandmother (even my great-grandmother) are the highest elders under any circumstances. Others, such as the husband's family, have a lower seniority, but they also have a high seniority and need to be accompanied by quite a few people.
The above is what I learned from an old man in my hometown who is in charge of this deployment. I wonder if I can help.
By the way, I am from Hunan, and other customs may be slightly different, but I don't think it is very big.