If it is a double spring leap month, then this month is very suitable for marriage, so this year, many people get married, and many people hope to have a good omen, so they will choose this year. On the contrary, if there is no beginning of spring this year, we in Sichuan will call this year a dumb year, which is unlucky. We also call it the year of blindness, and the blind are all blind this year. Then this year is not good, that is, there is no beginning of spring, no twelfth lunar month in the first month, and no solar terms in beginning of spring this year. Then I felt unlucky and avoided it in the ghost month.
If there is a ghost month, China usually has three months, so it is July, March and September. Among them, July is the most important. We have Tomb-Sweeping Day in July and March, but September is not very particular. It is usually the Double Ninth Festival. However, it is generally not suitable for holding happy events in July, so we basically don't see anyone getting married in July. As for March or July, almost no one gets married. In other words, traditional festivals think that these three months are ghost months. If it is a ghost month, it is not suitable for co-hosting a happy event and getting married.
The second is to choose the date, there are three evil spirits. This San Niang attaches great importance to the wedding date, which means that she thinks that the matchmaker or the moon will never lead the red line these days, and even if she is married, she is not happy. Therefore, these days generally mean that the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of a month are the lunar calendar, and they are not suitable for marriage. There is another one, that is, the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. Everyone should know the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. Because there was once a man named Yang Gong, who was not the founder of Feng Shui. He has 65,438+03 sons. Because he has many sons, he often tells others that even if he encounters any disaster, I will not be afraid. He said that there are only 12 months in a year. Even if one son dies in one month, the other son will die for me.
Unfortunately, there is a plague and a leap month this year, so there is an extra month. So this Yang Gong is thirteen sons, all dead, leaving him alone in his later years, very lonely. Therefore, the time when the 13 sons died is called the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. This is also very unlucky. The number 13 is also considered unlucky by China people. 13, spread out, spread out. And let's put it another way, that is, 13 should be scattered, which means scattered and separated, so it is generally considered that 13 is also unlucky. In other words, couples generally do not choose the anniversary of their ancestors' death. For example, their grandmother died on the fifth day of the twelfth lunar month, so they can't get married on the fifth day of the twelfth lunar month. This must be taken seriously. We can ignore the previous generation, but your previous generation must. These are just to popularize our concern about the folk custom of choosing a day.
But regarding the date of marriage, in fact, we pay more attention to these things as a reference, not as a main one. For example, if there is no beginning of spring this year, why not get married? Many people get married, maybe a little less, but there will still be marriage. You can't say that all married people are unhappy. You can't say that. We often see many marriages in Grade 37. Folk customs can only be blamed on folk customs, which can't be taken into account in the study of Yi. The so-called folk custom is a custom of our common people, which has a lot to do with the region. We are talking about different winds and customs, so what do we mean? Let's just say that we may be so particular about this folk custom in this village and so particular about that village. So is there any good or bad influence on this attention? It has no centralized influence. This is called custom. As for custom, we shouldn't take it too seriously.