However, not many people really understand. Especially when I was just teaching myself, someone always came down to "it's all fate."
In fact, only the weak believe in "fate", and the strong always fight against "fate". In life, we often hear men who fail in love say, "I tried so hard and still failed, which only shows that my life is not good."
Liang Ning said, "What everyone presents now is the superposition of all his past experiences." Yes, everything happens for a reason. The so-called "unlucky" men all have these three characteristics, and they are no exception.
First, humble love
Zhang Ailing said that she was humble to the dust for love and still blossomed there. In feelings, women are like this, and men are not too much. Once some men like a woman, they will completely lose their minds.
They blindly advocate the belief that "women are used to keep pets", do whatever women say, and don't distinguish right from wrong at all. At last I realized that in this world, what is easy to get is the least cherished. Because of your love, it's too cheap to cherish at all.
Second, forget about love
Some people say that in a man's life, career is bone and blood, family is flesh, and love is like hair. Lovelorn, although life is not so perfect, has no substantial impact on his life.
Although this statement is biased, it does have some truth. If one of the three must be abandoned, I believe it is not difficult for men to make a choice. Career is the capital for a man to settle down. Once a man forgets love and regards love as his whole, a woman may be moved for a while, but she will definitely leave you in the end.
Because no matter how sacred and sincere love is, it will eventually return to bread. How many women in this world are willing to fall in love with you on an empty stomach?
Third, love yourself.
"I only need an apple, but you gave me a basket of bananas." I don't know how many women's helplessness this sentence reveals.
There are always men who are unwilling after breaking up and think that I am good enough for you and have given you everything I think is the best. What else do you need? What they don't understand is that love needs the tacit understanding of "sneaking into the night with the wind and moistening things silently", not so simple and rude.
What you think is good, others do not necessarily need it. If you really love her, at least be careful and know what she needs. If you judge each other's preferences only by your own likes and dislikes, it will inevitably contribute. Losing love is only a matter of time.
Ceng Zi said: I save myself three times a day. Being a man is like this, and so are feelings.
No matter what happens, first look at whether you have not done enough. Don't complain about "bad luck" "Life" is just the concrete result of all your experiences overlapping. There may be accidents, but most of the results are inevitable.