There are several consequences that women's strength brings to the family. Each of us has a different life, but not all of us live the life we yearn for. In life, we will always encounter all kinds of problems. The following are some consequences of women's strength on the family.
Several consequences brought by a strong woman to the family 1 1. A strong woman makes her husband lose face outside, and is also said to be a hen-pecked wife, who listens to women in everything she says. Husband can't control his head outside, and his heart will inevitably be depressed, irritable, in a bad mood, and family relations will certainly not be harmonious.
2. A strong woman is prone to conflict with her parents-in-law. If she refuses to give in, the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will escalate. If it continues for a long time, it will make her husband have a headache, which may eventually affect the feelings of the two couples, affect the marriage and lead to divorce.
3. A strong woman is too strong for her children, making them afraid, making it difficult for them to feel the love from their mothers, the tenderness from their mothers, and being scared every day, which is not conducive to their mental health and healthy growth.
4. When children grow up, they generally won't tolerate a strong mother any more, but generally leave a strong mother and live their own lives independently, because no one likes to live in the shadow of others. If the husband also leaves, in the end, the strong woman is likely to be alone, and there will inevitably be a feeling of desolation in her heart.
There are strong women at home, and most relatives and friends don't want to go to his house, because it's useless to talk to men. Going to his house will feel very depressed, and they are afraid that their wives will be unhappy and drive themselves away, so they generally don't want to stay longer. Therefore, there will be fewer and fewer friends, worse contacts and narrower roads.
6. A strong woman will make her neighbors afraid, unwilling to associate with her, and unwilling to associate with her family, which will make her family unpopular around, which is not good for her family.
7, a strong woman, there is no room for everything, unwilling to tolerate, a little thing is very clear, which will lead to constant family friction, disharmony in family relations, it is difficult for everyone to feel happy, and the relationship between husband and wife is also prone to problems.
8. A strong woman has a very big temper. She doesn't know how to control her temper, doesn't know how to control her emotions, has a bad temper and is easily angry. If you have any emotions, let them out first. She doesn't care about other people's feelings, only about her own pain.
9. A strong woman must listen to her own demands and follow her own wishes. She is always right, and so are others. I am also unwilling to reason and communicate, which makes other family members have a headache.
10, a strong woman, originally some small problems, because they are too strong, unwilling to communicate, unwilling to tolerate, gradually become big problems, and finally can not be solved, such things are more and more, and finally the family is full of chicken feathers.
1 1, a strong woman, comfortable for herself, but suffering from family.
12. Home is a harbor, a place for family members to rest and grow up, and a place to pour out their feelings, affection and tolerance. If someone is too strong, then the family will become very cold, and it will become lack of warmth and affection.
13, it is not good for women to be too strong, but it would be better to be gentle.
The strength of women brings to the family. There are several consequences. First, it destroys the temperature of the family.
In my hometown, there is a couple in the next village. By this year, the old couple are almost 60 years old.
It is no exaggeration to say that a husband doesn't even have basic human rights at home, and he has to act according to his wife's face everywhere, especially in front of outsiders, which is even more aggressive and can degrade him to nothing.
Domineering at home, monopolizing political power, not allowing anyone to refute his decision, not a word.
Even if the husband doesn't make a mistake unintentionally, the wife can point at her nose and scold for more than an hour. She is the kind of person who has a firm attitude and wants to be sentenced to death directly.
The husband endured all his life, being passive and cautious about Nuo Nuo, and seemed to maintain the integrity of the family. Is the family really complete? Of course not. In fact, the feelings between husband and wife have long disappeared invisibly, all because of her husband's forbearance.
In other words, it is not love that supports this family, but the husband's compromise. As the saying goes, grievances are all, and they are never all.
So once there is a strong woman in the family, it seems to be peaceful on the surface, but in fact it has buried various crises, but it lacks a flashpoint.
Marriage depends not on enduring for a lifetime, but on loving for a lifetime. People's patience is limited, and there is always a time when they can't stand it.
Moreover, such a woman can easily force a man into the arms of other women. The stronger a woman is, the weaker her husband is, with no opinion and no thought.
So in the end, such a woman not only makes others suffer, but also makes herself suffer. No one can be happy in such a marriage.
Second, destroy the son's family.
It's also about this couple. They only have one son, and they are all similar in character and temper to their father.
Weak personality, no opinion, no matter how small things are, I dare not make my own decisions. And this mother-in-law is used to being strong all her life. Even if her son already has a small family of his own, she will get involved in his family affairs.
One year, my son bought an air conditioner without telling his mother and wife.
A man in his thirties was later scolded and cried by his mother because of this air conditioning. Therefore, in the future, no matter how small the family is, the son will first think about discussing with his mother, and he will dare to do it when his mother agrees.
As a result, the son and wife often quarrel, and even the wife and mother-in-law have many contradictions, which make a lot of trouble.
If a family can't unite, how can it be harmonious and blessed? Ruined his own marriage and ruined his son's marriage.
Many times, because the middle son is really hard to do and can't stand such torture, he has committed suicide.
Third, ruin your old age.
What is the greatest happiness when people get old? Husband and wife love each other, and their children and grandchildren are full of happiness.
However, the life of a strong woman in her later years is generally miserable. No one cares, no one asks, and she is left to fend for herself. The wind and water turn, people will always be old, thirty years east, thirty years west.
Because no one likes to get along with powerful and overbearing people and is afraid to avoid them.
Even his lover has been oppressed for a lifetime, and his feelings are long gone. As for his children, they all have their own families in the future, all of which are centered on their own families.
Of course, they will also appear when they really need it, but in normal times, they certainly don't want to go home often.
People are animals that seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and always like positive and optimistic approaches, not negative ones. Moreover, after having a family, children will care about the feelings and thoughts of their loved ones.
As for children's children, grandchildren and the like, children are simpler, and I'm afraid telling the truth will make you more sad.
Generally speaking, once a woman is strong, the consequences are nothing more than the above three.
In marriage, women really should not be too strong, and the relationship between husband and wife is equal. Even if a person loves you again, he still has his own dignity, thoughts and feelings.
The position of "boss" in the family is not won by oneself, but is respected by others from the heart.
A truly capable person can run his family with more and more love and warmth.
A woman is the soul of a family. You should escort that family with your generosity, kindness, accommodation and understanding. Only in this way can you go further and further and be more stable.
Several consequences that a strong woman brings to the family. 3 What harm does it do to have a strong woman at home? The following three points are the most deadly.
First, destroy the harmony of your family.
In my hometown, a couple and an old couple in the same village have been together for decades, and now they are all people in their sixties.
It is no exaggeration to say that my husband has no position at home. No matter big or small, he must act according to his wife's face. Especially in the outside, his wife doesn't give her husband any face and demotes him to nothing.
The wife is the king of the family, monopolizing the economic lifeline of the family, and will not tolerate any opinions from others, not at all!
Even if her husband just smiles, she will point at his nose and scold him. There is no room at all. She couldn't wait to send him to be shot the next second.
In order to save the family, the husband put down his self-esteem and obeyed Nuo Nuo. To outsiders, it is a harmonious family, with no quarrels or bickering. But is this family really harmonious? Of course not. The husband has grievances in his heart. He has no feelings for this family, just to avoid the separation of his wife and children and be wronged everywhere.
In other words, it is not love that supports this family, but the husband's attitude of pursuing perfection. The so-called compromise for perfection and selling one's personality for perfection will never be complete.
Therefore, if a family has a strong woman, it is either fragmented or supported by one person. Such a family is empty and soulless.
The mansion of marriage is not built by one person's tolerance, but by the love of two people. People's patience is always limited, and the day when they can't stand it is the day when this building collapses.
Women always think that they can win the respect of others by their own strength. As we all know, men's patience is only to save this family. When this man realized one day that the family he was defending was not the family he wanted at all, it was this man who was the first to destroy this family.
Such a strong woman not only can't keep a man's heart, but also often pushes him into the arms of another woman, because a man is lonely in this world and he also needs a gentle country. The more women bully him, the more he escapes. In the end, it is not only men but also women themselves who suffer. No one can be happy in such a marriage.
Second, destroy the harmony of the son's family.
This story is also related to this couple. As the saying goes, fish begins to stink at the head, a disharmonious family is bound to harm several generations.
It is said that the couple have a son with the same personality as his father, which is due to his powerful mother.
The child is introverted and cowardly, and has no opinion. He has asked his mother to arrange everything for him since he was a child. His mother, who was in charge of her son's life when he was alone, still didn't want him to go after marriage.
One summer, my son and daughter-in-law discussed installing air conditioners. This decision was made without his mother's permission.
A man in his early 30 s was scolded and cried by his mother because of this. After all, the daughter-in-law is an outsider. What can she do? She can't protest, nor dare she protest.
This leads to frequent quarrels between the son and his wife, often clamoring for divorce and marrying a man who has no autonomy in life. What can we talk about happiness?
Third, ruin your life.
A strong woman will grow old one day. No matter how pretentious she is when she is young, she can't control herself when she is old.
A strong woman's old age will be very painful. Because they have been separated from their families, their children and grandchildren have avoided it and have no affection at all.
No one likes to get along with powerful and overbearing people, even the closest people have already overdrawn the little love left. As for children, not to mention, under this powerful means all the year round, I have long wanted to escape.
It must not be love that binds them together, but a cold blood relationship.
Man is an animal that pursues advantages and avoids disadvantages, pursuing happiness and avoiding sadness. Moreover, when I can hold my head high and regain control of the family power one day, it is inevitable that I will not have the idea of settling accounts after the autumn.
As for grandchildren, intergenerational relations are even more so. You don't love them, they don't even care about blood relationship.
Generally speaking, the dangers brought by women's strength are nothing more than the above three.
Here, I want to advise all women that in marriage, there is really no one better than anyone else. The marriage building that you * * * jointly built needs you two * * * to maintain and help each other. Don't breed superiority. In family relationships, money cannot be measured. Whoever has the ability to earn more money will build the marriage building higher and better.
A man who loves you again has his own dignity, thoughts and feelings. A man will love you, which is the accumulated capital you pay for this family, but it can't be the capital you can hide in the future.
The position of the "boss" in the family was not robbed by your own strength, but was given to you by the heartfelt respect of others.
A truly capable woman can be the core cohesion of this family, and she can build this family into an indestructible castle.
There is no denying that a woman is the soul of a family, so you should escort this family with your tolerance, generosity, kindness, tolerance and understanding. Only in this way can this big ship carrying love ride the wind and waves and become more and more stable.