No.1 There are three things not to say
1. Don’t say hurtful words.
As the saying goes: A good word will warm you in the winter, but a bad word will hurt you in the cold months
In order to speak quickly, you will hurt others, regardless of other people's dignity and feelings, just open your mouth and say it . You must know that the mouth is an ax to hurt, and words are a knife to cut the tongue. Your inappropriate words are like a sharp knife, which deeply hurts and hurts others' hearts.
2. Don’t say any gossip.
There is not so much right and wrong in life, but many ordinary little things become right and wrong when they are changed by some people with ulterior motives. This kind of person has bad intentions. He is afraid that others will be at peace and the world will not be chaotic. He will be happy when others are in trouble. This kind of person thinks he is very smart. In fact, everyone knows what is right and wrong. Those who say right and wrong must be right and wrong. Once they know your temper and your virtue, everyone will stay away from you, because you are a place of right and wrong.
3. Don’t talk nonsense.
Be low-key. If a person always brags, talks arrogantly, and talks nonsense, then disaster is not far away from him. As the saying goes, misfortune comes from the mouth. Your unbridled words will always make people angry, and some people will come to settle accounts with you after your words.
No.2 There are three things not to do
1. Don’t do things that are unkind to your heart.
Don’t do anything bad, and don’t be afraid of ghosts calling the door. Never do anything that is harmful to your heart, otherwise you will regret it if you do. To do something bad is to do something that goes against one's conscience. If you do something unconscionable, even if others don't know about it and don't condemn you, you won't let yourself go and will blame yourself endlessly. You will never be able to find peace in your heart, and you may even suffer for the rest of your life. , don't do anything wrong, the punishment is too severe.
2. Don’t do things that harm others.
The ending of those who harm others is often to "begin by harming others and end by harming themselves."
There is such a fable:
In ancient times, there was a washer in the capital. His shop was doing very well, but his neighbor was a potter, and the potter's business was poor. Very depressed. The potter thought that the washer's shop had affected the feng shui of his own shop, so he wanted to harm others. He asked to see the king and said that the washer had ancestral skills and could wash black elephants into white elephants. The king was very happy because there were only black elephants in the country, and white elephants were regarded as a symbol of good luck and a harbinger of prosperity, so he ordered the washer to wash the black elephants into white elephants. The washerman did not dare to resist the order. After returning home, he kept sighing. His wife asked him why and gave him an idea. The next day, the washerman went to see the king and said: "My washbasin is too small to hold an elephant. Please order a pottery basin that can hold an elephant first." So the king ordered the potter to make a pottery basin on the third day. Within a day, a pottery basin large enough to hold an elephant was built. The potter was dumbfounded and was eventually executed by the king because he could not make it.
Harming others is equal to harming yourself, so never harm others. Those who harm others are the most stupid.
3. Don’t do things that are unreliable
Live in a moderate manner, do things in a reasonable way, and don’t do things that are unreliable. Some people are itchy when they hear that others have made a fortune, and they try it regardless of whether it is reliable or not. In the end, they end up bankrupting their fortune or even losing their lives. It is so sad! Haidong, a man from Hubei, went to Hangzhou to work and accidentally joined a pyramid scheme. Because the boss thought he was "dishonest", he was beaten and beaten to death. The Tonglu police spent 14 days cutting through mountains to find the body. This incident caused a sensation. . Is it reliable to get rich through MLM? So don’t get involved with unreliable things.
No.3 There are three things people don’t make friends with
1. Don’t make friends with people who are ungrateful.
A drop of kindness is repaid by a spring. People should be grateful to society, relatives and friends. Some people are unkind and unjust and do not know how to be grateful. They take other people's help for granted, and even If you don't help him, he will curse, hate and retaliate against others. Such people are not to be dealt with. It's a matter of affection for others to help you, but it's their duty not to help you. If you don't understand this, it's a waste of human life.
2. Don’t be friends with unreasonable people.
The ancients told us that a person should not only know the books but also be reasonable. In fact, it is okay not to know the books. Being unreasonable is unacceptable. Some people are so unreasonable that all the principles they hold are irrelevant to them. Such people are unable to communicate and are looked down upon.
3. Don’t make friends with people who are dishonest.
Confucius said: "If a person has no faith, he does not know what he is capable of."
That is to say, a person must be reliable in what he says and does. He cannot be three at one time and four at another. People are at a loss.
In life, it is a nightmare to have sex with people who do not keep their promises, and it is a waste of life to have hope in people who make promises lightly. They are changing all the time. What they said in the morning will change in the afternoon. What they decided yesterday is a piece of paper today. Being in a relationship with them is like getting on a ship that they don't know where they are going.
People who are dishonest have no credibility. They will not implement the things they promise, and some even delay other people's important things. If you can't do it, you don't have to agree. You have to do what you promised. If you don't do it well, you can do it. Explain to others that what a dishonest person has promised is the same as not agreeing. To put it seriously, it is a kind of fraud on others. Such people are disappointing and are not tolerated by society. Now the country is gradually improving personal and The corporate credit reporting system, which is despised by society, has reached its end and will definitely be eliminated in the end.
If it is dishonest, the gods will not accept it, and the country will not tolerate it, so we will not pay it forward.