Why is the husband and wife not harmonious?

A social psychologist investigated the psychological causes of the disharmony between husband and wife, and found that the husband's dissatisfaction with his wife and husband mainly includes the following aspects: the husband's psychological dissatisfaction: First, the wife's nagging. No matter big or small, no matter when and where, they always talk nonstop. Second, the lack of * * * and the taste of life. Like-minded people, they can't enjoy the fun of life together, and even contradict each other. Third, selfish and inconsiderate, which is the last thing a husband can tolerate. Fourth, complain and interfere with your hobbies. Almost every man has his own hobby, which is an essential psychological balance factor in men's life. They absolutely don't allow others to interfere with their hobbies. Five, the clothes are not neat, which means losing her husband's dignity and humiliating her husband. Sixth, quick temper. Any man wants his wife to be gentle and lovely, and impatience is an important factor leading to the breakdown of marriage. Seven, hinder him from disciplining women. Many families belong to the "strict father loving mother" type, but if one is too strict and the other is too kind, conflicts will naturally arise. Eight, blow your own horn, bluff. This problem is common among men, and once the wife is found to have this quality, it will be very annoying. Nine, emotional fragility. Mature women are emotionally stable, and men generally want their wives to be mature. The fragile "little girl" wife has made her husband unacceptable for a long time. Ten, narrow-minded, jealous. 11. Neglect housework. Whatever the reason, it is unfavorable to neglect housework. Twelve, argumentative, picky, simply at a loss. Arguing irrationally, whitewashing peace. The wife's psychological dissatisfaction: First, the husband's selfishness and inconsideration. Women also need the warmth of men, and selfishness is the number one enemy of love. Second, there is no outstanding achievement in career. Women always want their husbands to get ahead, or at least make a difference. Third, she likes to complain and doesn't understand her taste. If a husband doesn't like his wife, he'd better not complain too much. 4. Unwilling to discuss things openly. 5. Lack of interest in children and weak family values. Sixth, if you are too strict with your child, you will take it out on your child if you are unhappy. Seven, regardless of the family, put friends above everything else, and the family serves itself and its own group. Eight, rude, not elegant, no manners. Nine, lack of self-motivation, muddle along, lack of male desire for success, mediocre and dull. Ten, grumpy and impatient. Being above the family, you can't treat others equally, and you are easy to get angry and unbearable. Eleven, love to criticize people, lack of man's generosity, talkative, like to find fault with small things.