I don't know how you will feel when you see these two words. I feel sad that such a person has become what others call a "shameless girl".
What if my friends speak ill of me behind my back?
Let's see how my first friend did it first.
Lulu, study hard, grow up well, be popular and have a good heart. You are a good girl after all. Not long ago, she was isolated by her roommate, but she didn't know why others did this to her. Although this person can live a good life, it is a bit embarrassing to go back to the dormitory and see other people playing chatting and playing mobile phones silently. As the saying goes, "Out of sight is clean", Lulu temporarily moved out of the dormitory.
Later, the dormitory was divided again. You know, when girls are together, many beautiful things always happen. ), a girl said to Lulu privately, "I'll tell you who said you love to hook up with boys, especially melodramatic, a Bai Lianhua, pretending to be the Virgin." Lulu was only sad to hear this, but she didn't blame anyone. She knew her image in the eyes of others, and she was influenced.
Lulu laughed and couldn't believe what those people said to herself. She began to keep her distance from the group.
"The tables have turned," the girl who spoke ill of Lulu told Lulu. "I'll tell you whose hands and feet are dirty. I lost a lot of my things. I guess it's her. …………"
"Don't steal from others, only steal from you. Do you have any proof that she stole? Do you feel happy to slander others like this? I want to go to my house and find someone to talk to you. I know, I've met many girls like you, just to find the United front. How about I tell that person what you said to me? " Lulu said.
Here, I want to applaud Lulu. You're really not Bai Lianhua. Isn't Bai Lianhua the kind of "I will forgive you no matter what you do"? Master? Lulu has been hurt like that, and she doesn't want anyone to be hurt like herself. Because she knows the pain of that feeling.
Lulu is waiting for the right time to expose those who speak ill of their friends behind their backs.
The solution to this kind of thing for my second friend is much more direct.
Xiaohe, I like to call her a refined girl, because her mood is too difficult to guess, just like acting. So, be careful with her.
This is what happened to Xiaohe. One day, the girl was trying to meet the exam when her cell phone rang. At first glance, it was a message sent by a strange friend. "I heard Li Xiao say that he would hit you. Please pay attention." This kind of kind reminder made Xiaohe a little confused and scared. I don't blame anyone, and I don't know this Li Xiao.
Xiaohei replied, "Why did you hit me?"
My friend sent me a screenshot of me chatting with Li Xiao. Blackie finally understood that it was "that bitch slept with my boyfriend before breaking up with me." Xiao He flew into a rage. Why did he have sex? He has never done it himself.
Homework can't go on. She picked up her mobile phone and looked at it. Suddenly, she found that she seemed to have seen this Li Xiao, and she was a little impressed.
So I picked up my cell phone and called my friend. "Did you grow up in Li Xiao?"
"Yes, why?"
"Nothing, you give me her phone number, I have something to ask her."
Xiao He called Li Xiao as soon as he got the number.
Are you Li Xiao?
"Well, I am. Who are you? "
"I am ho. I heard someone tried to hit me. Who is it? "
Hesitant on the phone, not talking. Blackie turned off her cell phone and went directly to Li Xiao's classroom. Call Li Xiao out.
"Did I sleep with your infatuated ex-boyfriend?"
"……"
"I heard you were going to hit me?"
"……"
"I tell you, nothing happened with him, we are together because we like each other, and he broke up with you because you are not suitable. Nobody robbed anyone. Love needs to be robbed, so you need to go to bed to have love. Then you see that he is too dirty. "
For this kind of thing, Xiaohei is more calm than fear. She went to Li Xiao to make it clear face to face, tell each other the real situation, and said that if Li Xiao made another move, she would definitely pay the price. Before, I thought this method was generally feasible, as long as it was implemented.
So why do some people like to speak ill of others behind their backs? I think there are two reasons: jealousy and laziness.
Therefore, if you also love to speak ill of others and want to control yourself, you can start to change from these two aspects.