First, a slight "gram".
After the two of them got along, their words were at odds and conflicts arose. You looked at me, I looked at you, but you didn’t like me. Men couldn’t do anything. Family conflicts intensified and deepened, and they gradually moved towards the edge of divorce. This situation is mostly when the injured official is minor, the official star is weak and powerless, or the injured official is a taboo god, and the official killing is a taboo god. Most of them fall into this category. This adjustment method is relatively simple. Once you know yourself If numerology is against your husband, you can avoid the intensification and occurrence of conflicts by changing your personality and not being particularly forceful, and maintain family harmony as much as possible.
Method: Change personalities, accommodate each other, provide reasonable guidance, stay on track, and move forward step by step. Don't expect too much, set your goals low, and live a simple life, which can alleviate the conflicts caused by this difference. In addition, choose children who have a mediating role. Have a child that will help both of you as a couple. The birth of a child will definitely improve the overall fortune of the family and resolve family conflicts. In addition, if you know your numerology, you can use home feng shui to suppress your Shangguan star, so that the effect of your Shangguan star will be weakened, which can also play a certain role in resolving family harmony.
Second, moderate "gram".
Before getting married, my husband was lucky and in good health. After getting married, his health gradually deteriorated to the point where he was exhausted, feeling dizzy, weak, and suffering from diseases every day. In some cases, after getting married, the husband did not follow the right path and cheated. , eating, drinking, prostitution, gambling, doing all kinds of evil, and going to a dead end. In this case, most of the time, the Shangguan star is relatively strong, and the Shangguan star is a taboo god, which is relatively powerful, and has a strong power against the Husband star. In this case, the distance between the two can be appropriately increased. Generally, The methods are:
1. Age distance, find a girl with a big age difference, find an older woman as her husband, and find an older woman as her husband.
2. Living distance, for example, they are not in the same area, and the couple does not live together for a long time, which is what people often call holiday couples. Some are even couples who meet several times within a year, so It can resolve conflicts between husband and wife.
3. Differential marriage, for example, if an unmarried person finds a divorced person, a person with children, or someone with a relatively large gap in industry, interests and hobbies, some of this can be resolved.
Of course, for this degree of mutual restraint, you can also adjust the home feng shui and use changes in the home aura to suppress the power of "corruption".
Third, severe "gram".
After marriage, the husband becomes disabled due to an accident and loses the ability to work, or dies due to illness or accident. In most cases, this is because the God of Injury and Jealousy is particularly strong, and the person has a horoscope of no marriage. It can also be said that the zodiac sign is a monk or nun. There is really no better way to resolve this situation. If I marry you, the above situation will inevitably occur, but this is not entirely your fault. Of course, there are also some men who are born with the sign of premature death and short-lived life. Therefore, in marriage, there must be a corresponding female sign with the information of "concubine". The husband's death was only destined by his own fate, but the woman inadvertently became the conductor of this cause and effect.
The way to resolve this situation is to know that your numerology is a serious numerology, so you can just live together, not get married, and spend a while with whoever you like, and you won’t be happy anymore. Just break up. This way you can live a comfortable life and avoid the fate of your husband, which is also a good choice. Maybe everyone will criticize this, but in reality there is such a relatively extreme fate. Folks often say that "fate is hard to defeat the husband". The above-mentioned methods are also impossible, and it is better than being alone all year round.
Fourth, review the couple’s room to see if there are any Feng Shui taboos.
For example, if the mirror faces the bed, it is easy to cause the couple to worry about each other and become sensitive; the room is irregular and multi-angular, which can easily lead to the couple not being open to each other and weird things happening; the direction of the head of the bed is not in line with fate. If you like to use the room, you are likely to have troubles, dreams and false alarms, which is reflected in your lack of patience in marriage. It is not good for couples to have a room that is too small or too big. If it is too small, it will easily lead to a narrow-minded couple, and if it is too big, it will easily lead to a weak relationship between the couple;
There are beams on the bed, which can easily lead to a dull and depressing couple's life; the light in the couple's room is too dark, which can easily lead to confusion and mutual suspicion between the couple; the mess of wires outside the window of the couple's room can easily lead to a subtle relationship and random thoughts; the door of the couple's room is opposite. If you sit in the bathroom, abnormal symptoms may occur, resulting in poor relationship between husband and wife, emotional discord, etc. If you encounter these situations, try to change them. Sometimes, if you feel that your marriage is not going well while living in the same room, you might as well change rooms, maybe it will improve.
Fifth, review the birth dates of both spouses to see if there are any conflicts.
It depends on whether the marriage palaces of the couple are in conflict or square. For example, in a male's horoscope, the Sun branch is Hai, and in a female's horoscope, the Sun branch is Si, which is called a conflicting marriage palace; in a male's horoscope, the Sun branch is Xu, and in a female's horoscope, the Sun branch is Chou, which is called a marriage palace. Phase punishment. When the marriage palaces are in opposition and square, it generally means that there is no external reason, but the husband and wife are irrational to each other, cannot handle the relationship between the husband and wife correctly, and even the relationship between the husband and wife is tense because of trivial family matters. This problem is easy to solve. As long as both husband and wife realize this problem and avoid it themselves, the relationship between husband and wife can be effectively improved. If the marriage palaces of both spouses are opposed and squared by other earthly branches in the horoscope, such as the moon, hour and earthly branches opposing and squared by the day branch, this will cause discord between the couple and even divorce due to other external factors. This situation can be solved through the Five Elements Zodiac Resolution Method. However, people who don’t understand the five elements of numerology don’t know how to do it and need to ask a Feng Shui expert for guidance.
It is important for both husband and wife to understand the problems faced by couples that year, so as to attract attention, and not to do anything to ignite conflicts or say anything that increases conflicts. The tension in the relationship caused by this situation is at best a time war. Generally, it will be fine after that year or stage.
If the conflict between husband and wife is caused by numerology factors, it is generally resolved according to the following methods:
1. Go to a place that suits your own destiny and five elements. This is called positional Feng Shui resolution. Law. For example, the five elements of the Ming Gua belong to wood and develop in the east; the five elements of the Ming Gua belong to fire and develop in the south; the five elements of the Ming Gua belong to earth and develop in the southwest or central part; the five elements of the Ming Gua belong to gold and develop in the west; the five elements of the Ming Gua belong to water and develop in the west. Go to the north to develop.
2. Living in an environment that is suitable for your own destiny and five elements is called home Feng Shui solution.
3. Arrange the Feng Shui array of Wangming Gua, which is called the Feng Shui array object solution method.
4. By combining the horoscopes of both parties, the horoscopes of both men and women are combined. This is called the method of resolving popularity and feng shui.
5. Maintain a good attitude and use your own thoughts to resolve conflicts between husband and wife. This is called psychological Feng Shui resolution method.
6. By wearing accessories, you can enhance or resolve mutually reinforcing energies to avoid conflicts.
Sixth, choose a good wedding date to avoid unnecessary damage to the relationship between husband and wife.
1. It is advisable to choose the year of "Run Yue". Chinese people pay attention to the selection of wedding date, but they do not pay attention to "Run Yue". It is best to choose a wedding day in a year with a moist moon, as it will bring good omens. Of course, if there is no "moon month year", there is no need to force it.
2. Avoid March, July, and September of the lunar calendar. It is best to avoid March, July, and September of the lunar calendar when choosing a wedding date, because these three months coincide with "Qingming" and "Yu" respectively. "Lan" and "Chonggong" are both traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for weddings.
3. Avoid the evil day of Sanniang and the death anniversary of Yang Gong. According to legend, Yue Lao did not hold a red string for Sanniang, so that she could not get married. Out of revenge, Sanniang went against Yue Lao and specially destroyed the couple's marriage. It is a happy event, so the Sanniang evil days of each month, namely the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of the month, are not suitable for marriage. In daily life, people have taboo customs, that is, saying auspicious words and not saying unlucky words. There is also a saying that "good things don't work but ugly things do."
In taboo customs, it is especially taboo to say or use the number "Thirteen". The thirteenth day of the lunar calendar is not used in any marriage.
4. The date selection should be based on the woman. One principle of choosing the date is to focus on the bride’s birth date, and refer to the birth dates of the man and others. As the saying goes: "When a son is born, a girl is married." This shows the importance of the woman's date selection. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to marital problems and should not be underestimated.
5. Parents’ birthdays must be avoided. In traditional numerology, parents’ birthdays should not be the same as the wedding day, that is, it is not suitable to get married on the day of parents’ birthdays. Otherwise, it will be quite detrimental to the couple.
6. Registration and wedding ceremony dates If you decide to separate the registration (the date you go to the marriage registration office to apply for a marriage certificate) and the wedding ceremony date, it is best to choose a date on these two days. If you have to choose, the day of the traditional ceremony of welcoming the bride and setting up the banquet should prevail, and it should be held on an auspicious day. Because Chinese tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day. In addition, many people put the wedding date and holidays together, which is also a good way to add happiness to happiness. In short, through the change of Feng Shui environment and the resolution of the eight characters and five elements, the relationship between husband and wife can be effectively improved. There is nothing terrible about being jealous of your husband and your wife, as long as you use the right method to resolve it!