He said: I heard that there are five kinds of ominous things in the world, and the eastward expansion of houses is not one of them.
What is ominous?
"It is ominous to harm others and benefit themselves; Abandoning the old and taking care of the young is ominous at home; The release of virtue and its use are unscrupulous, and the country is ominous; Old people don't teach, young people don't learn, vulgar and ominous; Sages hide, fools are good at power, and the world is ominous. "
"It is ominous to harm others for self-interest", that is, harming others for self-interest will bring misfortune to yourself.
"Abandoning the old and taking care of the young is ominous for the family", giving up the old people's lack of support, care and care, and putting all the care on the children, this family is unlucky.
This sentence gives us a great reminder. Why not be auspicious? Some people use a big tree to compare the relationship between parents and children. The fruit of this tree is children, the trunk is children's parents, and the roots are children's grandparents. If we want this tree to be full of fruits and lush, where should we water the water and nutrients? We should water the roots with water and nutrients.
But now, what most of our parents do is to pour the water and nutrients directly on the fruit. As a result, the fruit can't accept these nutrients and will rot. This is the crux of our children's education problem now.
So some people say, "The so-called' dutiful son' was called' dutiful son' in ancient times. In modern times, the meaning of this word has changed. What is a' dutiful son'? Filial piety is called' filial son'. "
Others are even more ridiculous. He said, "Now some people become children when they have children, and grandchildren when they have grandchildren." How can this educate children? With a son, you are both a father and a mother; With grandchildren, you will be grandparents. You didn't follow the path of grandparents and parents, but followed the path of children and grandchildren. The path is wrong, upside down. How can we teach children well?
Parents' example is better than words and deeds. At home, you can speak kindly and respectfully to your parents. Your children will do these things naturally without telling them.
A story also inspired us a lot, saying that a father was too old to work. His son is particularly bad to him, either beating or scolding, often scolding. However, his children scolded him, and he also scolded him. His children beat him, and he also told him to go back. The whole family was anxious. This will not solve the problem.
Once, he went to visit an old man and said to him, "My children beat me and scolded me. They are so unfilial to me that I live a miserable life. What should I do? "
The old man said to him, "I ask you a question, and you must answer me truthfully before I can help you."
He said, "OK, I promise you, and I will answer you truthfully."
The old man asked him, "What's your attitude towards your parents?"
When he asked, the man was ashamed. He said: "I treat my parents as my son treats me now, beating and cursing."
The reason is found! So the old man said, "It is because you are unfilial to your parents that your son is unfilial today. If it is, if it is, no one can blame others. From now on, you go home. If your son scolds you again, don't scold him, you have to bear it. If he hits you, let him hit you, don't fight back. "
This father is rare and obedient. When he got home, his son scolded him again, and he honestly stopped cursing his son. His son beat him again, but he was willing to bear it, and he looked ashamed.
His son felt very strange when he saw it. One day, he asked him, "I used to scold you for hitting you, and you scolded me for hitting me." Why don't you fight back when I hit you now, and you don't talk back when I scold you? "
Father said, "Because I used to beat and scold my parents, I was attracted by a son like you. He was unfilial to me and beat and scold me. This is the result I should bear. " Now that it's over, I won't scold you or fight you. "
His son is also very smart. After hearing this, he immediately knelt on the ground and apologized to his father and said, "I was wrong." I will never treat you like this again! " "You see, how do the children treat us? Let's reflect. Is this how we treat our parents?
The third ominous thing is that "it is ominous for the country to let the good use the bad." It is the misfortune of the country to let all the sages be unconstrained and appoint all the black sheep.
The fourth ominous thing is that "old people don't teach, young people don't learn, and it's rude and ominous." Old people are unwilling to teach young people, and young people are arrogant and unwilling to ask for their advice. This is unlucky in custom.
The fifth ominous sign is "the sage hides, the fool is good at power, and the world is ominous." Sages, wise men and sages all live in seclusion.
Why? Because they were not reused and valued, their suggestions were not adopted. These people don't seek fame or gain, live in seclusion and don't go out to work. It is unlucky in the world that stupid people take away power.
Therefore, real bad luck does not mean that your feng shui is not good. The ancients in China said: "The rich live in a blessed land, and the blessed live in a blessed land." This place used to be a place with bad feng shui. When people with money go to live for a period of time, feng shui will change and become very auspicious.
If this place used to have a good feng shui, but an unscrupulous person lived there for a while, it would also worsen the feng shui. So the key is not to find someone to see Feng Shui, but to cultivate our heartfelt filial piety and gratitude to our parents.
The pictures in this article come from the Internet.