Do couples pay attention to their sleeping positions? This sleeping position has continued from ancient times to modern times.

Do couples pay attention to their sleeping position? In our rural hometown, couples are really particular about sleeping, and even care about how to put the bed. Between husband and wife, men sleep outside and women sleep inside. There are two versions. One is that men are the head of the family, men are outside and women are inside. Another way of saying it, in the countryside, was superstitious at that time. There was a saying that women were afraid to sleep outside, and the old population said that women were less angry? Afraid of unclean things.

This sleeping position has continued from ancient times to modern times, and now there is not much emphasis between husband and wife, which may mean equality between men and women. Modern lovers have broken the traditional concept, and their sleeping position is based on their own comfort, and they will not be bound by the traditional concept. No matter men or women, they can sleep there if they want.

Of course, there are also some modern couples, especially men with serious male chauvinism. Generally, such men like to sleep outside, and some particularly powerful women also like to sleep outside.

In my opinion, there is no need to be so particular about where couples sleep. It is most important for a husband to protect his wife.

I sleep inside, that is, on the right, next to the window, and she sleeps on the left, that is, outside the bed.

In fact, she slept on the left side for the convenience of getting on and off the bed. At first I wanted to sleep on the left, but I just didn't argue with her.

Because the right side is next to the window, sleeping on the right side is responsible for opening and closing the window.

In order to sleep on the left, she is always complacent. When she is happy, there will naturally be a lot less mother-in-law. It's really good for men to let women order.

In fact, how to sleep between husband and wife is not big, as long as they feel comfortable.

When we got married, she was 19 years old and I was 22 years old. In fact, women 18 years old, men 20 years old is enough. I am a man, and I am naturally protective. My wife is three years younger and shorter than me 10 cm. She was born in an innocent girl. So when we sleep, my wife sleeps with my right arm in her arms. It hasn't changed in decades. If we are not used to being apart, my wife will feel helpless and uneasy, and I will feel that no one is insecure in my arms.

Because I sleep in my right arm with my wife, I feel very tired and comfortable. My wife likes sleeping on the right side as much as I do most of the time. This is not only a comfortable problem, but also healthy, because the left heart will not be oppressed by itself.

In fact, sharing a bed with husband and wife will definitely deepen their feelings and make them more loving. Sometimes there will be contradictions and quarrels during the day, but once you lie in bed, the gas that is difficult to dissipate during the day will disappear like a punctured balloon. Even if Bai Tian secretly vowed never to talk to her (him) again, she must have started talking as soon as she went to bed, and she had not completely laid down. This is our decades of experience. Try it if you don't believe me.

My wife and I didn't deliberately sleep on the left and who slept on the right. When we first got married, we still lived in the countryside. I slept in the bed and she slept outside. Because I have no habit of getting up at night, it is more convenient for her to sleep outside and get up at night. Besides, she usually gets up earlier than me and cooks breakfast in the morning. If she sleeps like this, getting up and getting out of bed won't affect me.

After having a daughter, I changed to sleep in her bed, and I slept outside, so that I could wait on her mother. I have to get up several times at night to make milk powder, pour water and get diapers for my children. It is really inconvenient to sleep in bed.

Later, we bought a house in the city. I was near the bedroom door when I slept, and she slept in it. Because I think a cool breeze will blow in as soon as I open the door, so I can sleep outside to shelter her from the wind. In fact, this is the psychological effect, there is no cool air indoors.

I've heard people talk about the sleeping position of men and women, and all the old people in the village love to talk about it. They think that a man is the head of the family, and his position in the family is naturally higher than that of a woman, and even sleeping should highlight this position.

Lin Xiangru's position in "General Xiang He" is higher than that of Lian Po, and it is written on the right side of Lian Po? . The ancients put the east first and the right respected, so when the older generation in the village slept, the men were on the right and the women were on the left. This is actually the feudal thought that men are superior to women.

Now people's sleeping position is related to their personal habits. People who like drinking water sleep near the bedside table. People who like to play mobile phones sleep near the power supply. There is no need to distinguish between sleeping positions, and convenience is the best.