Since the relationship with Liu was made public, malice has surged, but she used her high emotional intelligence to resolve them one by one.
During the interview, someone deliberately asked me, "How much pocket money does Liu Dongqiang give every month?"
She smiled indifferently: "No, Brother Dong is very accommodating at home."
Two sentences quietly resolved the difficulty and sprinkled dog food by the way.
After the divorce, she studied in Britain and was questioned by netizens who cared about eating, drinking and having fun. She replied softly, "I was studying when I didn't send photos."
No sharp words, but convincing and fascinating. No wonder her popularity has continued.
Degang Guo's son Guo Qilin was also the winner of a talk.
When I was a guest in Super Brain, I was questioned about "low education", "being superior to my father" and "imitating my father". He solved all the crises in one sentence: "I'm really not imitating, it's genes."
He has a glib tongue and has won the love of many old-timers Even when Zhou Xun first met him, he bluntly said, "I don't know you, but I just like you."
Speaking well is really our plus point. It also reveals a hidden rule in the workplace: your mouth is your feng shui.
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My classmate once shared with me something that happened to her:
When she graduated from college, she went to a company for an interview with her roommate Xiaohong.
When introducing herself, she thought that she had practiced many times in her senior year. She said confidently:
Originally full of ambition, I didn't expect the interviewer to be merciless after listening: "You don't have any key points. What do you want to say? "
A pot of cold water was poured on her head, and she was embarrassed and embarrassed to the extreme!
When it was her roommate Xiaohong's turn:
The classmate said that as soon as Xiaohong spoke, she was dismayed to find that the interviewer showed her a completely different expression and gave Xiaohong a focused look and an appreciative smile.
At that moment, she knew she had lost.
In this way, she took a fancy to Xiaohong, and when she entered the company, she was one level higher than her position.
Moreover, Xiaohong sent such a circle of friends in the second month of her employment:
"The first thing to enter the workplace is: people need clothes and speak with packaging."
Seeing this circle of friends, even if I have been friends for many years, my heart is still a little sour, but I have to admit that people who can talk make money as soon as they open their mouths!
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Later, I thought, it doesn't matter if the interview is not good, the work still depends on the specific ability!
I didn't expect to be hit in the face again.
At a multi-department meeting, the leader suddenly asked us to report on our quarterly work.
I panicked at once, and said hesitantly, "Well ... I didn't do any big projects this quarter, just a few things ... first ... then ..."
After chatting for less than a while, I was directly interrupted by the supervisor: "You haven't done anything yet, so don't ramble and waste everyone's time."
I feel very wronged. During that time, I worked overtime late every day, but I gave the impression that I was doing nothing.
When it was Xiaohong's turn, the supervisor was still rude: "Why did our sales drop so much last month? ! "
I secretly worried about Xiaohong, but I didn't think she was in no hurry:
"Yes, the last sales did drop. According to statistics, it was at 5%. "
I think there are three main reasons:
In view of these three points, my solution is:
Admit the problem, analyze the reason, give the solution, three steps, Xiaohong once again pressed me to the ground and rubbed it hard!
The most uncomfortable thing is that I want these reasons and solutions! But why can't I say it right away?
I have to admit that people who are good at talking are more popular than those who work hard! Obviously, I only did two or three things, which sounds like ten things!
Soon after the post adjustment, she became my direct supervisor, and I collapsed again after knowing the result.
Obviously, we have done the same amount of work. I was considered to be fishing in troubled waters, but she was promoted. Is it really because I am incompetent?
I couldn't sleep that night ... It took me a long time to figure it out:
The boss is so busy that he can't see what every employee is doing. If I can't communicate with my boss efficiently, I can't reflect my labor achievements and I can't think about the results, I'm probably an irrelevant person in the eyes of my boss!
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The core of expressive ability is actually thinking and method. For example, in the last report, my classmate's roommate used a shelving method: shelving problems, that is, problem-cause-solution.
Only by mastering such concrete methods can we convey the most valuable information in the most concise language and become an efficient expresser.
As long as you can find a suitable training method and learn to express it, it is not difficult.