Don't wait for understanding for fear of being misunderstood by others. Now life is independent and everything exists. The willow in the owner's house is short, so there is no need to explain to passers-by that it could have grown taller, while the locust tree in the west is taller, and there is no need to explain to neighbors that it has no intention of monopolizing Feng Shui.
If you do something new and everyone understands it immediately, it is not new; A brilliant idea, which everyone immediately understood, was not brilliant. An undisputed act is definitely not a creation, and an undisputed character is definitely not a creator.
Any real creator is a departure from the original model, a breakthrough in social adaptation and a challenge to people's habits. If we eagerly expect everyone to understand, the purity of creation will be greatly reduced, and mediocrity beckons ahead.
Looking back, even our parents may not understand the decent things we have done in this life. Our parents created us, but they could not understand us. This is evolution.
Life is not only addition, but also weight loss and detoxification in interpersonal communication in order to go on easily. Many people around us are really blocked by the accumulated interpersonal fat layer, and everyone can hear their gasps of satisfaction and fatigue.
Expect peaks and heights, and peaks and tops are just a narrow foothold. You can't rush, you can only go straight, and you can only enjoy the pleasure of overlooking for a while. How can you stop and sit for a long time? Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. I feel unprecedented loneliness and fear. The truly warm beauty in the world is clinging to the earth and lurking in the deep valley. The height above everything finally constitutes self-mockery.
I have seen its hunger and teasing, so I hurried to test the steep slope down the mountain. Life is really hard. You can't find anything until you reach the top of the mountain, and you can't catch anything when you reach the top of the mountain. It seems destined to go uphill and downhill all the time.
Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance. Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not greasy voice, a calmness that no longer needs to observe other people's words and feelings, an atmosphere that finally no longer appeals to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the hubbub, a indifference that washes away extremes, a massiness that does not need to be kept secret, and a height that looks far but not steep.
I have always believed that in a certain period, in a certain society, even if all young people and old people are possessed, as long as middle-aged people are not absurd, things will not go wrong.
When people reach middle age, the fruits of youth life become so full, the noisy collision of youth becomes elegant, and even heavy social responsibilities may be dissolved into daily life.
It is a tragedy that many middle-aged people in China do not know how to stand on their own feet when they reach the age of self-reliance.
I expect instructions from my superiors, opinions from the masses and opinions from my family every day before I can take every step-this is a sign that I have not been weaned mentally.
The most terrible thing is that no one is weaned, and there is not so much good milk in the society, so they began to collectively suck all kinds of fake and shoddy drinks. Above a loud and neat sucking sound are wrinkled faces that don't look old.
The most common problem of middle-aged people is to pin all their hopes on old age.
Today's frugality, unsmiling, and submission to humiliation are all striving for an elderly person with dignity, wealth and freedom.
However, we have seen countless times that a timid middle-aged person cannot reach a happy old age. Just like a river, the turbid upper section cannot bring the clear lower section.
Accustomed to depression, you can only continue to be depressed; People who are used to being mean can only remain mean. Moreover, due to exhaustion of physical strength and loss of friends in old age, depression can only be more depressed and meanness can only be more humble.
Only when you set up an independent mast in middle age, raise high white sails and sing loud songs, will there be good winds to cheer you up, and flocks of seagulls will guide you and find a quiet harbor to meet you for you to choose carefully.
The persistence of middle-aged people should rise from viewpoint to personality, which is beyond words. In front of the eyes of middle-aged people, a lot of confrontation disappeared, and so did the opponents of earlier years. Yesterday's enemies did not hate, but more cared for people of all ages.
Please don't underestimate the word "care". At least half of the charm of middle-aged people is related to this.
The main feature of middle-aged people's insanity is forgetting their age. On the one hand, they want others to care about themselves like young people, and on the other hand, they want others to respect themselves like old people. Obviously, it is impossible for a great man to make a decision on any slightly bigger problem. He often talks with the leaders, and what happened is far apart, so he dare not take any responsibility.
At home, they reprimanded their children like urchins quarreling, without any kindness and solemnity of their fathers; For their wives, they will also easily pour out their spiritual garbage to brew pain, completely forgetting that they are the pillar of this emotional building that was finally established; Even for elderly parents, they will be willful, angry and unfairly hurt their already weak bodies.
A philosopher in the west said that only the old people who have experienced vicissitudes will understand the real philosophy of life. In the same sentence, the mouth of the old man is one hundred times heavier than that of the young man. I can't completely agree with this.
Philosophy is born in the process of two opposite forces, so it is more popular in middle age. All the outstanding philosophers in the world completed their ideological system in middle age, which is evidence.
Old age is a poetic era. This statement is not flattering the elders.
Middle age is too practical and busy to be a poem as a whole. Youth is often poeticized, but the poems of youth are too passionate and lack artistic conception. According to my standards, poetry without artistic conception is not good.
Only in old age, the heavy mission is unloaded, the joys and sorrows of life are understood, the world of mortals has moved away, the quiet environment around and the slow pace of life add up to form a slight harmony of summary and induction, and the artistic conception of poetry appears.
Looking forward to the peak and height, the peak is only a narrow foothold. Can't rush, can't go straight, just enjoy the pleasure of looking down for a while. How can you stop and sit for a long time? Nothing in the world is difficult for one who sets his mind to it. I feel unprecedented loneliness and fear. The truly warm beauty in the world is clinging to the earth and lurking in the deep valley.
The height above everything finally constitutes self-mockery. I have seen its ridicule, so I quickly went to test the steep slope down the mountain. Life is really hard. You can't find anything until you reach the peak, and you can't catch anything until you reach the peak. It seems destined to go uphill and downhill all the time.