[Ma Baonan]
What kind of existence do you think Ma Baonan is? We can find the answer by analyzing the family background and the nature of this person.
Some horse-haired men, tracing back to their roots, have traces to follow.
In the past family life, his mother occupied his whole life. When the mother in the family is at the two extremes of strength or weakness, it is easy to arouse men's desire for protection or attachment. When they encounter problems, it is often their mother who will deal with them at the first time. Therefore, for a long time, they have formed a loyal dog model, because their mother gave them a sense of belonging and security.
Many times, both men and women. The point that the other party attracts you and fascinates you makes you fall asleep, all kinds of stubbornness and all kinds of irrational loss. At this time, it is useless to accuse the other party of low morality and character problems. To some extent, a person has completely lost in the track of choosing a spouse. In fact, he is not innocent, and there is a high probability that it is caused by his own sin.
For example, a horse-haired man with a virgin woman, an anxious woman with a evasive man, and a submissive woman with a ruffian man. An immature person doesn't know how to meet his hidden human needs, and naturally he doesn't know how to go deep into each other's hearts. He will only be blinded by the superficial aura and characteristics.
Who you meet, who makes you miserable, and who you pester are all caused by your own greed and self-righteousness. It's your own sin that makes each other taste. Only when you are aware of some repeated bad luck and deeply aware of the emotions hidden under bad luck can you be transformed.
When you find the answer, you can know why his mother can control him effectively. Why does he trust his mother unconditionally and attach himself to her? Only if you can effectively replace each other's mother and give safer behavior feedback can you become his new belonging.