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Because of their young age, poor psychological adaptability and endurance, children are easily affected by accidents in all aspects of life, leading to fright and fever. When a child is frightened, it is easy to wake up at night. Adults should take good care of their children. The following small series will share with you the ways to solve children's fears.
Methods/steps
Gentle language soothes.
Mother's friendly language is very useful when the baby is frightened. Whisper "Baby is not afraid, Mom and Dad will always be around to protect you" in your child's ear, so that the child will feel safe and stop crying slowly.
Gentle physical comfort.
While soothing the child with words, you should also touch the skin, such as stroking or patting the back along the baby's hair with your hand, or sticking your face to the child's face. The physical contact of relatives can quickly make the baby feel safe and comforted to the greatest extent.
Distract the child.
Hold the baby in a strange posture, such as letting the baby lie face down on your arm and holding his face in the palm of your hand; You can also gently shake your left hand and gently touch your baby's back with your right hand. You can also find some toys with special sounds to divert your baby's attention, so that your baby feels very strange and will slowly forget the frightened things just now.
Soft music.
If the baby is frightened, he can play the music he usually likes to listen to, such as nursery rhymes, piano music, saxophone and so on. It can adjust the baby's nervous mood and reduce the adverse effects caused by fright.
The encouragement of small partners.
Although the comfort of parents is very important, sometimes letting children's good friends and partners comfort can also play an unexpected role. Little friends can encourage frightened children and say something like "you can do it, don't be afraid, we will play together", and the effect is good.
Chinese medicine treatment.
If the above methods have little effect, you can try to use Chinese medicine for treatment, which has little effect on children's health. You should go to a regular pediatric clinic of traditional Chinese medicine.
Collect some methods to scare people. I wonder if I can help you:
1. Operation time: after sunset, when the moon is about to rise. In the countryside, both chickens and cats have to sleep. Then put the child to bed. After the child goes to bed, do the following things:
First, wrap the shoes that children wear when they are frightened with yellow paper and put them under (or beside) the pillow.
Second, find a used stamp and a used bowl.
Third, after the stamps are lit with matches, they should be put into the bowl. It should be noted that in this process, the child's nickname should be constantly called. For example, if the child's name is Beibei, it should be called "Beibei, come back quickly". It is so simple and effective. It is required that there should not be too noisy sound during the operation, otherwise it will affect the recovery of the child.
2. Take the clothes that children often wear and shout a few names in places that may be scared, such as: "* *, come home with your mother, come quickly".
3. Take a bowl and put 78% water in it. Put a sewing needle in the water. After the baby falls asleep at night, put the bowl on the bedside and say to the baby, "Grandma Shui will be very happy when the baby is afraid, and will be very sleepy when she is not afraid."
4. After the baby falls asleep at night, take off the shoes worn by the baby and put them upside down beside the baby's bed.
The old man said that the mother's hair can catch the shock best. After the child falls asleep, the mother wraps the hair tips three times from left to right, and then wraps them three times from right to left. The dog is afraid, the cat is afraid, and mother will help you catch the shock. Are you ready? All right. " Look around, take a breath on the child's head after reading it, and then spit it out. Read for three days.
This is the way my daughter uses it. I don't know if it's really good, just use it. Just try it.
6. "God is at the head of the bed, and God is at the end of the bed. My child has lost his soul. You can help me find the far one, help me find the near one, and bring back the near one. * * (the child's name) is back! * * (the child's name) is back! " Read it so many times before going to bed every night, and you will find that the child is much better.
Scientific solution
Don't be quiet at home without a sound, so children are easily frightened. They can often play some soft music, talk to their children softly and slowly, and watch more pictures. And children will gradually tolerate external stimuli. When children get older, they get scared easily. Parents should do the following: first, allow their children to be afraid, never laugh at their children as "cowards", but do everything possible to eliminate their fears. For example, children are scared when they see black shadows at night, and naturally tell them that this is the shadow of trees, just like the shadow of people. Don't push children to places of fear; Don't say, "Don't be afraid, son! , rushed over! If you go, you won't see anything terrible. " Second, we should consciously let children gain useful experience in daily life. For example, if a child is afraid of crabs, he might as well teach him how to catch crabs. As long as he catches both sides of the crab, he won't be caught by the crab. Some children are afraid of cats. Parents can tell them that cats won't bite as long as they don't pull their tails. Are they afraid of dogs? It likes to run and chase, so we just don't go near it. "Third, parents' role models are also very important. Parents themselves should not be afraid of everything for no reason. Everything was unexpected. For example, when it thundered, my mother cried first. Don't make a fuss about a trifle. For example, parents sometimes accidentally cut their hands and quietly put some mercuric chloride on them. Children don't care at all when they see their mothers, so they are not afraid of similar things. Fourth, parents should have a deep understanding of the reasons for their children's fear. Some children are afraid to take a bath because they are often scolded loudly by their parents. Some children are scalded in the bath, and he is afraid of taking a bath. When parents encounter unexpected things, they should tell their children the truth and make it clear that everything should be careful and there is nothing to be afraid of. Comfort language, hold the child tightly when he is afraid; Children are afraid to slide, so they should slide down first with their children in their arms. If the child is afraid of thunder, hold the child quietly and tell him, "Mom knows you are afraid of thunder. Thunder is just a sound and won't hurt you.