The ten taboos for daughters to visit graves are: pregnant women are not allowed to go to graves, married daughters are not allowed to go to graves, women are not allowed to go to graves when they are menstruating, women who are too young should not go to graves, and they should not wear bright red and green clothes. Outsiders should not participate in ancestor worship. When visiting the graves, you should pay attention to your own luck. Pay attention to seniority when visiting the graves. Burn paper before going to the graves. Burn paper before leaving. Make circles when burning paper.
1. Pregnant women are not allowed to visit graves
Pregnant women are not allowed to visit graves because the yin energy in the graveyard is very strong. If pregnant women go to graves, it may cause harm to the fetus in their belly. Discomfort is what young people need to know most among the ten taboos of visiting graves and burning paper.
2. Married daughters are not allowed to visit graves
As the saying goes: "A married daughter throws out water." Married daughters should not return to their parents' home to visit graves. The husband's family should worship the ancestral graves of the husband's family, but cannot return to the natal family to worship the ancestral graves of the natal family. This is because in people's traditional concept, a daughter is already part of the husband's family when she gets married. She cannot return to her natal family to worship the ancestors. It is not good for the feng shui of my mother's family.
3. Women are not allowed to visit graves when they are menstruating
If a female friend’s aunt comes, she must not go to the grave, because menstrual blood has the effect of warding off evil spirits. If her aunt comes, she will not go to the grave. Visiting the grave will disturb the ancestors in the cemetery.
4. It is not appropriate to visit graves if you are too young
No matter where the custom is, it is not appropriate for daughters to visit graves if they are too young. Generally speaking, if a child is under six years old, no matter whether he is a man or a woman, he should not be allowed to attend the activities of visiting the graves of ancestors. Because children are too young, their yang energy is weak, and as the cemetery is a place with strong yin energy, it is easy for children to see some unclean things, and it is easy for some negative aura to surround the child.
5. It is not advisable to wear bright red or green clothes
You should dress neatly when visiting the graves to show courtesy and respect for your ancestors. It is not advisable to wear bright red or green clothes, which are not in harmony with the atmosphere of visiting graves. It is suitable to wear dark and black clothes for solemnity, as well as plain or white clothes.
6. It is not appropriate for outsiders to participate in visiting graves to worship ancestors
It is not appropriate to participate in visiting graves as an outsider, as it can easily lead to unnecessary trouble. Because they are not a family, each has different blessings, which may cause chaos in the aura, leading to disharmony and bad luck.
7. You should pay attention to your luck when visiting the graves
Before going to the graves to worship ancestors, you can first check whether your forehead has a dark complexion. If there is, it means that your fortune is low. Try to avoid it that day. It is advisable to visit the grave.
8. Pay attention to seniority when visiting graves to pay homage
Visiting to graves to pay homage should be done in order. The order is: father, mother, eldest son, eldest daughter, second son, second daughter, etc.
9. Burn paper before leaving.
When going to the grave to burn paper, many tributes will be burned. At this time, those who go to the grave to burn paper must wait until all the paper is burned. Don't leave until you are done to avoid causing unnecessary fires.
10. Draw a circle when burning paper
When not burning paper in the cemetery, when burning paper in the open space, you must first draw a circle on the ground, and then leave an opening in the direction where the ancestors are buried. When burning paper, ancestors would come from the direction of the opening to get paper money.
The above content needs to be combined with the actual situation and is for reference only.