The research results of happy education won the National Outstanding Political Research Achievement Award. All-China Federation of Trade Unions, China Political Research Association and other relevant organizations recommended his and his unit's achievements in happiness education and happiness management. The "Selected Works of Learning Loose-leaf" published by the Propaganda Department of the Communist Party of China distributed the "Eight Questions of Happiness" by him and three other experts to the whole country. Xinhua News Agency, People's Daily, Hunan Daily, Hunan Satellite TV and other central and local mainstream media have reported his situation many times.
Selected Works of Liu Kuaile Studies
(A) the basic concept of happiness
1. Meaning of happiness.
There is no fixed definition of happiness, and different people will have different understandings.
Our understanding is that happiness means feeling happy, happiness means having happiness, and happiness is a dynamic reflection from objective to subjective.
Marxist view of happiness is the unity of objective happiness and subjective happiness, personal happiness and social happiness.
2. The essence of happiness.
Harmony and balance are the essence of happiness. Without harmony and balance, there is no happiness. It is reflected in the harmonious balance between people and between people and nature.
-the harmony of mankind. Man's own balance includes physiological balance and psychological balance. The satisfaction of eating, drinking and sleeping is a physiological balance. What is psychological balance? For example, through hard work, our ordinary working class will earn tens of thousands of yuan every year. This goal is realistic and achievable, and we will be very happy when it is achieved at the end of the year. If our expectation is 50,000 yuan and the actual income is 70,000 yuan, we will be happier, meet the balance and exceed the balance. And if our goal is to buy a BMW by the end of the year and earn 500 thousand, or even 1 10 thousand, but only earn 50 thousand by the end of the year, then we may be miserable. This is imbalance, and our desires are inconsistent with reality. So what is happiness? Happiness is the satisfaction you expect. The higher the expectation, the lower the satisfaction, and you are negative happiness; The lower the expectation, the higher the satisfaction, and the happier you will be.
-harmony between people. For example, the harmonious balance between husband and wife is greater, the harmonious balance between relatives is greater, the harmonious balance between colleagues is greater, and the harmonious balance between strangers is greater. With a harmonious and balanced relationship, everyone will be happy, otherwise it will inevitably be unhappy.
-Harmony between man and nature. There can be no happiness without harmony between man and nature. For a simple example, if all the trees in our city are cut down, everyone will be very dissatisfied with the government. Why? Because the natural environment has been destroyed, people and nature are not harmonious, and everyone's expectations for the quality of life are not met and they feel unhappy.
3. The source of happiness.
Philosophically, happiness is a world view; In psychology, happiness is a state of mind; From the ecological analysis, happiness is a kind of balance. What if we analyze it ethically? Obviously, happiness is both a private virtue and a public virtue. The so-called private virtue means that happiness is meaningful and valuable; The so-called public morality means that happiness should be based on morality and ethics, and one's own happiness cannot be based on the suffering of others. There is no doubt that happiness has a realm, and the highest realm is creation and dedication. Therefore, love is the real source of happiness. And this kind of love also includes loving yourself, loving others and loving nature. It is difficult for a person to be happy without love in his eyes, heart and behavior.
American experts have studied it for more than ten years and concluded that people who do good deeds often live 43% longer than those who don't. Therefore, if you extend a warm hand to those people and things that can be seen and heard and need help, you will be happy.
4. The elements of happiness.
The elements of happiness refer to the main factors that produce happiness. Happiness is composed of many factors, but generally speaking, there are only two aspects, one is objective and the other is subjective. Specifically, there are mainly the following aspects:
One is physical and mental health. The result of a questionnaire survey shows that 77.2% people think that physical and mental health is the first factor of happiness in life, which shows that physical and mental health plays an important role in everyone's life. The popular metaphor in today's society is that money, power and beauty are all O, and only health is the front 1. Without this 1, no matter how many zeros follow, it is still O. It is also deeply felt that health may be bought for money when you are young, but you can't buy health with money when you are old.
The second is affection. The questionnaire survey shows that 100% people think that family affection is also an important part of people's happiness, and only 73.5% people list family affection as the first choice of life happiness factors, second only to physical and mental health options. When encountering difficulties, 82.7% people first ask their relatives for help. In the emotional column, people prefer family, followed by love, friendship, kindness and sympathy. According to relevant research, family and physical health account for more than 50% of the sum of many happiness factors. Even some authoritative organizations believe that the importance of family ties exceeds 90%. He said that a successful and beautiful person outside will be unhappy if his family life is unhappy and his children fail to live up to expectations. This also reflects from another side that family affection plays an important role in the happiness of life. Especially for China, a country that attaches importance to the tradition of family ties, family ties are undoubtedly more important and irreplaceable. It can even be said that there is no happiness without affection.
The third is self-realization. According to the classification of happiness needs, self-realization belongs to a higher level of happiness, which permeates the happiness of psychological needs, truth needs and even ethical needs. The questionnaire shows that 3 1% people list self-realization as the first choice for happy work. Moreover, with the development and progress of economy and society, more and more people regard self-realization as an important content of happiness. The more educated people are, the more willing they are to pursue self-realization.
The fourth is economic income. The questionnaire survey shows that 64% people regard increasing economic income as their first choice for happiness in life, and more than 95% people think that happiness is related to economic income. Among the reasons for unhappiness, 28.6% people think that low economic income is the first factor. However, among those who earn more than 5,000 yuan a month, they think that happiness has little to do with money, and from the comparison of questionnaires, their happiness index is not higher than that of those who earn 3,000-5,000 yuan a month. Specifically, 66.67% of people with a monthly income of 5,000 yuan are happier, and 77.6700% of people with a monthly income of 3,000-5,000 yuan feel happier. Therefore, considering all kinds of situations, economic income is related to life happiness, but it is not positively related regularly, especially after the economic income reaches a certain level, it may even be irrelevant.
Fifth, friendship, popularity and a good social environment. From the questionnaire survey, most people think that a good interpersonal environment and a relaxed and harmonious social environment are also important conditions for a happy life. Since ancient times, China has enjoyed the happiness of "friends come from afar", "meeting an old friend in another country" and "all rivers run into the sea".
Of course, there are other aspects of happiness in life.
(The above data comes from the happiness questionnaire survey of Hunan Geological Union in 2009. )
(B) the basic relationship of happiness
1. Happiness and work.
Gorky once said that when work becomes an interest, work is heaven, and when work is only a task, work is hell. Obviously, if you want to work happily and turn your work into happiness, you must really love your job and make it a real interest. Only the perfect combination of interest and self-worth can you get happiness and create happiness in your work. Therefore, smart people regard work as entertainment, while stupid people regard entertainment as work.
Especially in today's society, work is not only a means of survival, but also a way of life and the meaning of life. Work is an important stage of self-realization and an important way to get happiness. Even for many people, work is happiness. In short, only by truly understanding the meaning of work can we really get the greatest happiness.
Work is not only an important guarantee for our survival and life, but also an important platform for us to realize ourselves. Questionnaire analysis shows that in the questionnaire of "The Meaning of Work", 64% people listed life security as the first choice, almost all people thought that work was an important means of self-realization, and the number of people who took it as the first choice was as high as 3 1%.
In reality, work is not only for life, but also for life. We feel more and more that work is becoming the lifestyle of more people. When some old comrades around them are about to retire, they always love and miss their work more and do everything more seriously and responsibly. Almost all people will shed sincere tears when they bid farewell to their jobs. To be sure, most of them are not for money or power, but because they will lose the best platform to realize their self-worth, the collective life to struggle with their comrades, the motivation and passion to work hard for their careers, and the full happy experience at work. What does it mean to say goodbye to work? It is impossible for people who have never been laid off, unemployed or retired to imagine and experience it. Therefore, every friend who is still working and has a job must have the spirit of "10,000 years is too long to seize the day", cherish his existing job and do everything at hand carefully, so that he will not bid farewell to his work and retire. It will be a lifelong regret that he has not cherished it because he has not worked hard. If you don't get the job you love for the time being, then fall in love with the job you have got; If you lose the job you once loved, please fall in love with the new job immediately; Love what you have now is better than miss what you have lost.
2. Happiness and success.
Happiness is a science as well as an art. If you don't understand the scientific meaning of happiness, it is difficult to find happiness. For example, for a long time, we regarded wealth and success as happiness, and as a result, we desperately pursued wealth and success, even at the expense of happiness and life.
Successful people are not necessarily happy, but happy people must succeed, because happiness itself is the greatest success. What's more, true happiness greatly promotes success in the traditional sense.
Because happy people must be optimistic and confident. Optimistic and confident people often observe, think and solve problems from the positive side. Numerous facts have proved that success belongs to optimistic and enterprising people.
Because happy people must be people who cherish life. They know how to treat themselves well, arrange their life and work scientifically, pay attention to exercise, have a cheerful mood when things happen, will not get angry for no reason, and adhere to a healthy and regular lifestyle, so they have good physical quality, successful physical conditions and "capital" for struggle.
Because happy people must be kind to others. They know how to be tolerant, tolerant, sincere, caring, kind and helpful, so they can establish good relationships and have good personality charm. Such people are naturally more likable, more able to get help and support from others, and have more, better, faster and greater opportunities and conditions for success.
A truly happy person must be a person who loves dreams, is honest and trustworthy, knows how to be grateful, is United and friendly, strives for self-improvement, is good at borrowing money, and has a high moral character. Just think, if such people can't get the priority of success, who is qualified to succeed first?
3. Happiness and money.
We have more money, but our happiness has not increased as we imagined in advance. Why? This is indeed a major social problem that has attracted more and more attention. And it has become a global problem-the paradox of happiness.
According to quite a few studies, generally speaking, the rich are happier than those who have no money, and people in countries with high per capita income are also slightly happier. But you are not satisfied with money. For example, Singapore's per capita income is 82.4 times that of India, and it is also 16.4 times according to purchasing power, but the people's happiness level in these two countries is similar, and both are much higher than that in Japan with higher per capita income. The per capita real income of the United States (that is, excluding the price increase factor) has increased by more than 1.5 times since the 1940s, but the happiness level has not changed. The proportion of people who think they are happy fluctuates around 30%, and there is no upward trend. The per capita happiness level fluctuates around 72%. Japan's per capita real income has increased a lot in recent decades, but the per capita happiness level fluctuates around 59%, with no upward trend. In China, the situation is similar. Our overall income level has generally improved, but the improvement of happiness index is still not satisfactory. (Data from Huang Youguang's "Economy and Happiness")
Why is this happening? This is related to people's view of happiness and the essential attribute of happiness. For example, from the adaptability and comparison of happiness, we can also explain the phenomenon of "happiness paradox". The adaptability of happiness means that once happiness is satisfied, this sense of satisfaction will lose its original attraction, which is determined by people's innate physiological immune system and also conforms to the principle of diminishing marginal benefits in economics. At the same time, sometimes happiness is comparative, not only with one's own past, but also with others. Although a person's income has increased, others have increased more than him, and he may not be very happy. Moreover, there is a phenomenon that people tend to think that the increase of other people's income is always more ideal than their own, which may also be the reason why the increase of happiness is not obvious or even decreased.
In addition, people's happiness is a complex and changeable induction. With the increase of money and wealth, the contradictions in health, mental stress, social environment, fair order, interpersonal relationship and family affection are more prominent. Many problems, such as depression, violence and abnormal death, occur frequently all over the world, which leads to the harmonious imbalance needed for happiness, including the impact and challenge of the harmonious relationship between man and nature, which naturally restricts the improvement of people's happiness level.
To increase our sense of happiness, we should establish a correct view of happiness while pursuing wealth scientifically, and actively adjust the comprehensive balance between objective and external conditions. We should pay attention to adjusting our mentality and realize inner harmony and balance.
Since money doesn't mean happiness, why does everyone try their best to make money?
Some scholars have found that, first of all, people have not really accepted the scientific concept of happiness that "money is not equal to happiness", or at least they will be skeptical, and even think that there is no money to talk about happiness.
Even if people understand that "money is not equal to happiness", they may still try their best to make money. Some experts think: firstly, with the economic growth, people may raise their expectations of income level. When the income level is very low, absolute income is very important; The higher the income level, the more important the relative income becomes. So people will try their best to make money like a competition. The second is the limitation of personal choice trend. A person generally chooses to make more money and seldom chooses to make less money and spend less money. Earning more money may mean more production and more pollution, but as individuals, they often don't think about it. The consequence is that individuals develop, but the harmonious balance of society is damaged. There may be biological reasons for people to make money irrationally. For a long time, human beings and other species are facing the pressure of material shortage, and one of human instincts is to have the ability to accumulate material, just like ants and squirrels accumulate food. In the monetary society, this instinct is to make money desperately, which Keynes called "animal nature". But when there is basically no shortage of materials, we will not hesitate to destroy the relationship between relatives and friends and endanger the society to make money desperately. Even if we have money, we won't have long-term happiness.
4. Happiness and emotion.
There is no happiness without feelings, because in a sense, happiness is a positive and optimistic mood. From the emotional point of view, the elements of happiness can include family joy, love, friendship, kindness, sympathy and so on. In short, happiness permeates many emotional experiences.
If we want to be truly happy, we must take good care of our emotional experience. Always be a person with true feelings and feelings, a person with affection and righteousness. First, we should talk about friendship. We should be kind to others, all comrades and people around us, especially our clients, especially the disadvantaged groups, employees in difficulty and those in urgent need of help, and be sincere and dedicated. Second, be sure to tell the truth. Emotions should come from the heart, from the heart, and never deceive others' feelings and defile your own. You can't be heartless or promiscuous. This affectionate place must be sincere. Where you shouldn't be sentimental, you should "lead an honest and clean life", cherish your feelings as gold, and consciously be a person with true feelings but never abuse them. Third, be sure to tell the truth. Friendship or true feelings, the key is to put it into practice. Only by turning the heart into action is the truly valuable truth. Even in every word and deed, every move should be moved by emotion and actually done.
Modern communication is getting more and more developed, but our feelings are getting more and more alienated. Although we often have parties, parties and get-togethers, we are always afraid to talk to strangers. No wonder some people say that carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is the carnival of one person.
Loneliness or loneliness is actually the inevitable result of lack of true feelings, loss of feelings, love, friendship, affection, kindness and other feelings.
5. Happiness and morality.
Consumption brings happiness, and creation also brings happiness; Enjoying the present brings temporary happiness, but giving can bring long-term happiness. Make more contributions and be grateful to the society. This is a happy road, a happy sunshine avenue.
Dedication is not only a value, but also a world outlook and a view of happiness. If you want to be happy continuously, you must keep giving. Because selflessly forgetting my happiness is the highest level of happiness.
The benevolent loves others. A happy person must be a kind person, a kind person, a kind person. Happiness belongs to those who love. As long as we give love, it is possible to gain more and more selfless love. Being loved is a pleasure, and self-love is a responsibility. So we should also learn to love ourselves, including ourselves, the people we love and our families. This kind of love is responsible for yourself, for your loved ones and for your family. Always remember to be a moral person, a principled person and a disciplined person, who can stand criticism and even criticism, praise and even flattery, loneliness and the bottom line.
Confucius' happiness ultimately comes from his own "virtue" and his love and pursuit of "virtue". In the universal world of "lust is not conducive to morality", Confucius found that only "goodness" can bring happiness to people all their lives.
On one occasion, Luz asked Confucius, "Do gentlemen also have troubles?"
Confucius said, "No. Because the gentleman's way of practice enjoys the process of practice before it is completed; Wait until the road is finally completed and enjoy the fruits of practice. Therefore, a gentleman enjoys the blessing of his life and has no worries for a day. The villain is not. When he can't get what he wants, he is worried about not getting it; When I finally achieved my goal, I was afraid that I would lose everything. Therefore, the villain has a lifetime of worries, and there is no day of joy. "
6. Happiness and criticism.
It is human nature to like praise. But wise people know better: criticism is also a rare opportunity and a "nutrition" for rapid growth.
According to my observation for many years, criticism is nothing more than the following three situations:
First, you are really wrong, and the leader criticizes you realistically. If you can accept it with an open mind, reflect deeply and improve it immediately, it will undoubtedly be of great benefit to your growth and progress. Your efforts to improve your attitude satisfy the leaders; Second, your improvement actions have improved yourself; Third, your improvement results make the leaders happier.
Second, there is nothing wrong with you. The leader made a mistake and criticized you, but it was not intentional. It may be caused by his incomplete understanding of the situation. If you don't explain or complain at this time, treat it correctly with an attitude of encouragement, and do better in the future work. Once the leader finds out that he has made a mistake, he will look at you with new eyes, appreciate you and reuse you twice.
Third, you are excellent, and the leaders criticize you severely. However, this is intentional. Because, he decided to reuse you immediately and boldly promote you to an important position that makes others jealous. To this end, he once again specially tested you to see your endurance and ideological realm. If you treat the second case the same way, you will be reused immediately. If you can't stand the test, this history will never be known, and you will miss the most rare opportunity in your life.
Therefore, only by facing criticism happily and positively can we learn to grow faster in criticism.
7. Happiness and frustration.
The experience of countless successful people at home and abroad tells us that the edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold. Suffering is often the best wealth. As long as you are not afraid of difficulties, especially "love" painful and painful experiences and experiences, it is not only experience, but also exercise, not only exercise, but also tempering, not only exercise, but also experience.
Mencius has long said: If Heaven wants to demote itself, it must first suffer its ambition, work its bones and muscles, starve its skin, empty its body, and mess with its actions, so it can't be patient.
Gao, a talented musician who graduated from Tsinghua, also said: Password sets are hard to remember and easy to forget; The love we talked about is hard to remember and easy to forget; Travel experiences are hard to remember and easy to forget; The twists and turns of life are hard to remember and easy to forget.
Happiness comes from comparison, and life comes from experience. Only those who have experienced hardships will cherish happiness more, know how to be happy, and know how to care for and help others. So frustration is a passbook, and misfortune is also a blessing. Yesterday's suffering is tomorrow's most precious wealth. This is a real golden advice.
At present, young people who are still embarrassed in life or unsatisfied in work should be happy instead of pessimistic. Because happiness is comparative, today's happiness is compared with yesterday's hardships. In other words, the harder you worked yesterday, the better you may feel today. Therefore, today's poverty and hardship are God's special tests and rewards for us, because not everyone can realize its great value. Once you can face it with a critical eye, a positive attitude and actions, it will be a great asset in your life. Your persistence today is to create greater success and happiness tomorrow. According to the comparative characteristics of happiness, you will probably become the happiest person. Even today, as long as you have a correct view of happiness, you will certainly have a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction that people around you don't have, because you can face poverty and hardship positively and optimistically, which is beyond anyone's ability. This is the potential of a great man and the characteristic of happiness and success.
Liu Kuaile Quotations
1. The world is as beautiful as your heart is.
2. Pain is imaginary, happiness is found.
You can't be happy without money, and you can't be happy with money.
4. With the Peach Blossom Garden in my heart, infinite scenery is in front of me.
Happiness is a process and the scenery on the road is the most beautiful.
6. Only when you face life with a smile can you have a happy life.
7. There is no fixed pattern of happiness. Everyone has his own happiness.
8. Hatred is the seed of pain, and kindness is the soil of happiness.
Happiness is not anyone's patent, but everyone's right.
10. Happiness is not the absence of tears, but a smile with tears.
1 1. Happiness is a state of mind, which determines the state.
12. Successful people are not necessarily happy, but happy people will succeed, because happiness itself is the greatest success.
13. Happiness is the greatest success, and sharing is the greatest happiness.
14. Happiness changes fate, and gratitude makes happiness.
15. If you have an ideal in your heart, no matter how bitter it is, it is also fun.
16. Cry first, then laugh. Normal life, laugh first, then cry.
17. Pear blossoms are the most beautiful with rain, but they are not charming without tears.
18. Confidence is the greatest charm, and a smile is the best business card.
19. Happiness is the reward of reason, and pain is the punishment of impulse.
20. Small links generate great productivity, 100- 1=0.
2 1. Where your time is, your space is there.
22. It's better to do a little thing than talk a lot.
23. Books are the ladder of human progress, and practice is the elevator of human progress.
24. Small goals are used to achieve, and the results achieved are called success; The big goal is to pursue, and the process of pursuing is called happiness.
25. Fools only start from scratch, and wise men always stand on the shoulders of giants.
26. Happy people always want more people to be happy, and successful people always want more people to succeed.
27. The horizon determines the world, and the realm determines the horizon.
28. Happiness belongs to those who have love, and success belongs to those who have a heart.
29. Excellence is a habit and success is a state.
30. Opportunities are unequal, and good character leads to good opportunities.
3 1. There is nothing abandoned in the world, the key is positioning. Correct positioning is value, and wrong positioning is rubbish.
32. Life is integrated into your career, and you will always be happy and young.
33. If you love your present job, it is better to look forward to the job you love.
34. Work is the greatest happiness, and post is the best platform.
35. Love work should be like falling in love, and work should be like "stealing vegetables".
36. Career is a stimulant for men and a tonic for women.
37. Happiness is productivity, and good things come from a good mood.
38. Overtime is an opportunity and loss is a reward.
39. Winners talk about results, while losers talk about if.
40. The door to success is never closed, but sometimes it is delayed.
4 1. As long as the thinking does not decline, the method is always more difficult than it is; Difficulties are not terrible, what is terrible is fear of difficulties.
42. Motivation determines motivation, and mission determines life.
43. Only when you dream can you have opportunities, and only when you struggle can you have happiness.
44. Don't try to give up easily, don't give up trying easily.
45. Happiness is the simplification of complex things, and success is the repetition of simple things.
46. Frustration is a passbook, and misfortune is also a blessing.
47. It is the short board that determines the barrel, and the long board determines the talent.
48. People are self-aware, that is, they should know their own light.
49. Being talented is like being pregnant. Excellence will be found.
50. If you are not afraid of mediocrity, you are afraid of mediocrity.
5 1. Life is always a live broadcast, and opportunity is a loyal audience.
52. If you don't suffer today, you will suffer tomorrow.
53. Heaven means helping others, while hell means caring for each other.
54. Everyone's shoulders are the wings of others, unless you don't have a dream and don't want to fly.
55. Life will not last forever, but it will bend forever; Life is longer because of detours.
56. I was born to be useful. The key is how I use it.
57. Being positive means doing all the extra things well, while being negative means not doing everything well.
58. I would rather have no perfect result than a perfect if.
59. Success means going all out, and failure means coping with everything.
60. I firmly believe that there will be a bright tomorrow and a happy today.
6 1. If you don't get what you like, like what you have.
62. As long as there is faith in the heart, there is strength at the foot.
63. When life can't make you laugh, try to make yourself laugh.
64. Good men are brought out, and good women are used to it.
65. A good man is like water and a good woman is like water.
66. The simpler and deeper the truth is, the nobler the simple person is.
67. Simplicity is great beauty, and fools are blessed.
68. Happiness is the best teacher for children and the best school for parents.
69. Love is the cornerstone of marriage, and affection is the harbor of happiness.
70. Relatives are friends found in heaven, and friends are relatives found by themselves.
7 1. Harmony is the essence of happiness, and love is the source of happiness.
72. Ruthlessness is not necessarily a true gentleman, but love is true happiness.
73. Sleep when you are tired and laugh when you wake up.
74. Educating children well is the birthright of people, and cultivating future generations is a great cause.
75. Confident people are not afraid of being hurt, and happy people are not perfect.
76. Be a man out of love, do things out of heart, and be an official out of love.
77. Only when the private affairs of the masses are treated as official affairs first will the masses treat official affairs as private affairs.
78. Keeping your mouth shut is not as good as keeping your heart as jade, because your eyes are the window to your soul and will betray your heart.
79. Be careful to sail for a long time. Only kindness can keep the boat afloat for 10 thousand years, because bad intentions will capsize sooner or later.
80. Be kind and true.
8 1. Always remember others' kindness to you and forget your own kindness to others as soon as possible.
82. I often see that others are not pleasing to the eye. In fact, my eyes are not smooth; Often look at other people's low quality, often because of their low level.
83. Appreciating eyes are like sunshine, shining there; A critical eye is like the moon, and the fifteenth day of the first lunar month is different.
84. Never do what others know or think what you can't do.
85. Dedication is the best performance, and action is the best confession.
86. Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes, let alone punish others with your own emotions.
87. Only by letting go of yourself can you win others, and only by letting go of your hands can you have more opportunities.
88. Have more arms to do things and less packaging to be a man.
89. People who can talk are the ones who are good at listening.
90. It's better to be a person with bearing and temperature than to envy a person with high manners.
9 1. Kindness is the eternal fashion, and honesty is the best fashion; Kindness is an eternal brand, and honesty is an eternal quality.
92. The best sunshine is appreciation, and the best feng shui is gratitude.
93. Happiness means that your body has no obstacles, but you have no worries.
94. Making money is the horizon, and spending money is the realm.
95. Smart people know how to calculate, and stupid people are good at calculating.
96. Communication is heard, and right and wrong are spoken.
97. People's desires are the same, but the difference is their attitude towards them.
98. Face the world optimistically, live in the present and know how to let go.
99. Cherish life, love life and live in friendship.
100. Be content, enjoy it and help others.