First, in marriage, we should put ourselves in each other's shoes and think more about each other. Chen Yu is actually very good. When he divorced Zhong, he was willing to give Zhong half of his house, which showed that he was really nice. It is really rare to know how many men want to let women leave home clean and give nothing to women when they are divorced. However, Chen Yu's mouth is really heartless. Obviously, she is considerate of each other and has done so many things silently, but what she said really needs to be typed.
Second, we should actively communicate in marriage and eliminate misunderstandings. Chen Yu regards marriage as a harbor, so as soon as he comes back, he hides in his own harbor and lives in his own world. After a day's work, he felt very tired, so he just needed to rest in his cabin. As for his wife, he doesn't seem to care about anything or whether she is in a good mood. When they encounter anything, they will only bear it silently, but they will not say anything that warms their wives' hearts. This is also the reason why their marriage was once popular.
Third, marriage should be each other's port. Marriage should strive to become the other's port, think about solving problems for the other half, and make the partner feel that marriage is a harbor. Only in this way can we put each other in our hearts, and only such a marriage is a harbor. In the final analysis, marriage is to run the same enterprise, instead of lying with Ge You when you get married, refusing to communicate, having no sense of ceremony, and taking each other's contribution for granted. Such a marriage will be divorced sooner or later.
Therefore, marriage is actually not a person's safe haven. Only by working hard can we find the most comfortable way to get along here and slowly turn marriage into a harbor for each other. Only the marriage with each other in mind is the best safe haven.