No matter how the world changes, we must believe that somewhere in a corner, there is always someone who secretly likes you, pampers you in your favorite way, and gives you the romance you most expect. Care, give you warmth, and even give you everything you want.
Before that, we must be patient, learn to wait, and learn to enjoy this unguarded time. Although it is a bit bitter and a bit torturous, it doesn’t matter. The best will definitely appear in the end. .
Choose the right direction and stick to it, and you will eventually reap happiness.
The greatest wisdom in life is not management, but being good at choosing.
These words that a man says casually are actually evidence that he secretly likes you. First, I am ready to buy a house. In fact, his house has nothing to do with you, but he wants to listen to your suggestions and is willing to accept your opinions. This is the key. After all, buying a house is such a big matter, and the person who can make the decision must be the most important person in his heart. important presence.
Second, I picked up the car. Give you broader care and pampering, take you to all the places you want to go, protect you from wind and rain, and give you the preference and only thing you want. The co-pilot is the exclusive one he has prepared for you.
Third, I graduated. Wherever you are, he is far away. In fact, it doesn't matter where a man works or settles. The most important thing is that his heart is where you are. The person he thinks of when he graduates is not himself, but you. This is evidence that he secretly likes you.
Strive to overcome your own preferences and control your selfishness. Such a man actually likes you secretly. Don't miss it easily.
These casual words a man says are actually evidence that he secretly likes you.
01 Am I ready to buy a house?
The size of the house does not matter, but the amount of laughter inside. This is what happiness looks like.
When a man takes the initiative to tell you "I bought a house", he is not telling you that he has a fixed asset, nor is he telling you that he is more capable than you in society, nor is he even showing off to you. I want you to know that his happiness is half that of yours. Why do you say this?
A house pays attention to Feng Shui, but all Feng Shui involves the harmony of Yin and Yang. So if the owner of the house is only a man, it will be a little too Yangy; if there is only a woman, it will be a little too Yin. Sheng, so it can be said that only the nest built by a man and a woman together can be regarded as a happy home.
A girl encountered such a problem. Her male colleague suddenly told her one day that I was going to buy a house. He wanted to get her advice, such as the size of the house, the apartment type, the location, and the loan. It's still full payment and so on, but the girl didn't react. She replied casually to him, it's not something to give casual advice on these things. You'd better ask your family or girlfriend.
These words made the boy particularly embarrassed. Even the female colleague beside him couldn't stand it anymore and quietly told the girl that he was confessing his love and was well prepared. How could you do this? What's the answer?
The girl was also very direct, telling her female colleague: She should not just suggest something as big as buying a house, absolutely not.
In fact, if a man takes the initiative to discuss buying a house with you and seems to attach great importance to your opinion, it can only mean that he secretly likes you and he hopes to use this tangible way to prove it to you. After all, who doesn’t like a safe nest? Probably only those who don't love are not interested.
Love can make people very romantic, but not loving can make people very realistic.
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I picked up the car
What does it mean when a man picks up the car?
When a man takes the initiative to tell you that he is going to pick up the car, he actually wants to tell you that his co-pilot can come and take a seat, and you happen to be the co-pilot in his mind. Of course, if you It's okay to want to be a driver, but the prerequisite is, how are your driving skills? Wouldn't it scare him into a puddle of mud?
Many men compare cars to girlfriends, daughter-in-law, wives, etc. Their level of love for cars is completely comparable to the attitude of love, so when he picks up a car, it is equivalent to loving you deeply. Through this level, It implies that he wants to see what your attitude is like, whether you are bored or prepared.
A man who loves you wants to sacrifice everything he owns for you in order to protect you from wind and rain, so the car he brings can help him pamper you better. With care, consideration and warmth, some things that he can't do, the car can do for him, such as traveling, going to the suburbs, going to the desert, going wherever he wants to go, etc. In other words, the car becomes a man who loves you. long legs.
Although he loved you before, his abilities were limited. He still loves you now, but he has better abilities. He and his car can do things you think of and things you can’t think of. Made possible for you.
03 Have I graduated?
When men and women in a normal relationship mention graduation, it means greetings and politeness at best, and it is just a courtesy at best, but I secretly like it. If your man tells you that he has graduated, it often means that he wants to get closer to you.
This is closer, what does it mean?
The so-called closer actually means that he will be biased in his choice of workplace. If you understand this hint and give him the right response, then he will know what he wants, for example, Go to work in your city; keep the same pace as your work, work in your hometown, etc. He will be inclined to any work style that has a certain overlap with yours.
People learn to be moved when they should be moved, and learn to be rational when they should be rational, which is the best attitude towards life.
Isn’t it a profound irony that you are often emotional when you should be rational, and you are constantly rational when you should be emotional?
Telling you proactively? I graduated? Such a man must have had some ambiguity with you before, but has not confessed it yet. He will not tell you until the time is right and it is time to break the relationship with you. In saying this, there is only one purpose, that is, your casual response may change his life.
If he goes to your city to work and live, but you are not together, then this kind of embarrassment must be a lifelong tangle.
If he maintains a long-distance relationship with you and you have agreed to his love, then this helplessness will also become a kind of pain in the future.
If you happen to be in love with each other and achieve good results, many years later, when you look back on this beautiful past, it will surely be a very precious memory.