The newly-built house, you can see the graves on both sides when you leave the gate. How about consulting a Feng Shui master? Do you have a chart?
The grave is the house of the dead, and the dead have their own laws of the world. Generally speaking, if you don't offend her, she will never dare to live here across the border. It is impossible to move casually. There are several points: first, we must adjust our mentality, don't be afraid, and don't listen to others casually; Secondly, don't destroy the tomb mound, burn some paper money when necessary, in order to achieve psychological stability and natural peace; Third, if conditions permit, you can choose to move slowly and choose a place that makes you feel comfortable. I wonder if the above points are possible?