Everyone has to go through a lot of things in his life. Only in this way can we grow up slowly. The more we know, if everything is arranged in his life, it's just that his body is running and he has no intention to interpret it. Since he is alive, he will live a wonderful life, right? Why are there so many disappointments in life?
Life is very tiring and hard, because the society is unfair. Living is helpless and sad. If you want to cry and find something to do, it will not be boring, because life is like this. No one's life is smooth sailing. As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about everything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be miracles in the next second, and life will inevitably fall and wait. Look up bravely. The sun is always after the storm! I'll give you an opinion. Do you think so? 1. Look at the world with your heart. Not everyone in this world is going well, just look at how to solve it yourself. For example, when you are walking, you are hit by someone and someone apologizes to you. Sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect the person who hit you to feel worse than you. Think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day?" 2. If you think that you are in a bad mood, you don't have to think about it. If you still think about it, let yourself get busy, let yourself have no leisure to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, don't fall in love with bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe the fresh air in the morning, relax yourself and imagine yourself as a happy little angel ... 3. 4. Move some key joints and muscles of the body. When doing it, the speed should be even and slow, and the movement does not need to have a certain format. Just feel the joints loose and the muscles relax. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, and say "relax" in your mind every time you exhale. 6. Focus on some everyday items. For example, look at a flower, a candle or anything soft and beautiful, and carefully observe its nuances. Light some spices and suck its fragrance slightly. 7. Close your eyes and try to imagine some quiet and beautiful scenery, such as blue sea water, golden beaches, white clouds, high mountains and flowing water. 8. Do some favorite activities that have nothing to do with the current specific matters. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening to music and watching TV. 9. Life is easy, life is easy, but life is not easy. Don't worry, there are almost as many people in this society as you, but they all live happily. Not everyone can succeed. As long as you work hard at everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter what your life is like, I believe it will be wonderful. Come on! Finally, I wish you a happy life every day! ! ! You can think about it this way: there is no absolute in life, only relative; Let it be, not deliberately; Everything follows the fate, and it comes naturally; Refer to the constellation, don't be obsessed. There is a saying that "one life, two luck, three geomantic omen, four products, five studies", the change and development of life depends largely on one's own grasp. Remember, one's life is inviolable by nature, and one's life is adjusted by two, three, four, five; The second luck refers to following people and meeting noble people. Third, feng shui is the most important, and the yin house and the yang house need to be adjusted; The fourth is to accumulate yin and yang, and the Buddha, Taoist and immortal cross over; Fifth, reading is Confucianism, and the book has its own transshipment classics. You try to think about life in this way: remember that life is only "more" and not "most". If you reflect on life, you will know a lot-life is short, and there are many reasons for people's life. Family, classmates, colleagues, lovers, couples, comrades-in-arms, nobles, villains, enemies, benefactors ... first adjust your mentality; There are many important moments in a person's life, such as growing pains, confusion in entering a higher school, blurred emotions, difficulties in job hunting, joy of success, lessons of failure, first-time parenthood, growth of children, last wishes before bed, expectations after life ... So people should adjust their mentality. Think about what people live for. No matter why people live, they have their own reasons. Each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and each has its own needs. Over time, the demand is self-evident. Right or wrong, there is no absolute. At this time, right and wrong. Some right and wrong, later generations comment. Face life and be realistic. Let nature take its course and follow the trend. For example, love-there are three causes of love, one is the material basis; The second is the spiritual foundation; The third is sexual relations. If you have one of these three, you can have love. The role of material life makes you secure; The role of spiritual life gives you support; The function of sex life makes you happy. Similarly, when one of the three is seriously missing, then love will also be lost. The same is true for marriage and family. However, marriage and love are not exactly the same after all. When there is no money as the foundation, marriage will soon be in crisis or even die, while love may continue for a while, but there will be cracks and uniqueness. If it cannot be changed, it will eventually die. This can be found on the basis of philosophy and reality. People don't need to deceive themselves, they must be objective and face the reality. This is the helplessness of life. How many roads you have traveled in life, how many choices you have; How many things you experience in life, how many choices you have; This is life. Take advantage of the trend and be yourself; Regardless of the wind and rain, don't be others. I am myself. There is only "more" in life, not "the most". Try to be what you think is perfect. People should strive to fulfill all kinds of wishes in their life. Their own, parents', lovers', friends', bosses' and colleagues' … fulfilling their wishes and their own wishes constitute the road of life. Keep a state of mind and be indifferent to peace. Have no desire, no desire, and enjoy yourself. How to understand if you want nothing? Take advantage of the trend and be happy naturally. Go against the trend, and you will lose more. If you want to be smart, control your desires. Enough is enough, and you are superior. If you say something ugly, everyone has it. If success is said, it is rare. World competition, survival of the fittest. Things outside the body are short-lived. If you want to be long-term, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's sexuality. Buddhism and Taoism are wise, warning all beings: the source of pain, the beginning of desire. It's really hard to have nothing to want. If it's easy, how can it be superior? A person's life, but a lot. Facing helplessness, believe or not? Believe in weakness, do not believe in self-deception. After a long drought, there is little dew, and there is no reason to know it in other places. On the moonlit night, the gold list is not named. Life is so helpless, I always feel unfulfilled, and I don't know where to go. Life has to go, how can we not be depressed? If you can enter an empty door, you may be depressed. A person's life is unpredictable; There is no fixed number of joys and sorrows; Juvenile abandonment, betrayal in middle age and loneliness in old age are three sorrows; If you are alive all your life, you will suffer from loss; Just fell into the world, crying and seeking; Childhood joy, compared to worry; Teenagers try to be brave, and when they are frustrated, they will be folded; Young people are confused and emotionally confused; Even if you get married, you will have rice, oil and salt; Middle-aged career, tired and rushing around; For the care of the young and the old, condescending; Seeking wealth in the middle and late, watching flowers in the mirror; At the end of the family, children and grandchildren are unfilial; I am about to die, and my wishes are not fulfilled; After a lifetime, there is a lot of helplessness; If you ask what you are afraid of, you have everything everywhere; If you ask what you are afraid of, you will always encounter fear; In the world of mortals, there is no fear; If you want to get rid of dust, there is nothing in your heart. It is very important to keep a state of mind. Think of others and learn to be content. Let nature take its course, and everything goes with fate. People have worries and joys, and they are extremely happy. Choosing the pursuit is more important than the process. Peace of mind, sit tight. Don't ask for it, just ask for peace of mind. People are better than others, caring for themselves. Be kind to others, and the Buddha will repay the cause and effect. Face helplessness and cheer up. Step outside the circle and look at yourself. Control desire, the immortal is helpless. To do this, luck comes. If so, I feel good. Always, destiny knows it. Every key point in life, that is, everyone's charm, constitutes a fleeting time. At every critical moment, you must grasp your own advantages and charm, so that you are a smart person. -When parents are happy in the world, when children are happy at the beginning of their lives, when they report success in their studies, when they step into social employment, when they are infatuated with their lovers, when they gain the upper hand and honor, when they tie the knot, when they are in the arms of their children for the first time, when children grow up carefree, when they get married and start a family, when they are welcomed to their hometown, when their predecessors queue up in their sickbed, when their children continue to report good news, when they die, they have support, and when they write their wills in calligraphy. Try to grasp yourself. In fact, if you get over it, everything will be clear. If people want to know life, they should adjust their mentality first. First, adjust your mind, then reflect, then be wise, then have no desire, and finally know God's will, reason, humanity and destiny. Why are there so many disappointments in life? When you are mature, you will miss the present confusion and hesitation.
You will miss the youthful and naive yesterday. No one has so many things to do, why can't everything go well?
1. The reason why people suffer is to pursue the wrong things.
2. It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that you are not cultivated enough.
3. If you don't bother yourself, others will never bother you. Because of your own heart, you can't let go.
4. Discipline yourself well and leave others alone.
5. If you don't forgive all beings, you will suffer yourself.
6. Don't say that others are pitiful, and you are even more pitiful. What about practicing by yourself? How much do you know about life?
7. People who have insufficient blessings will often hear right and wrong; People who have enough blessings have never heard of right and wrong.
8. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.
9. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you must let go before you can get real happiness.
1. The world is inherently painful, without exception.
11. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.
12. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.
13. Don't waste your life where you will regret it.
14. When you let go, there will be no worries.
15. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
16, when you know the confusion, it is not pitiful, but when you don't know the confusion, it is the most pitiful.
17. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with low self-esteem can't be saved.
18. You shouldn't always be dissatisfied with others, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer yourself.
19. You should tolerate those people whose opinions are different from yours, which will make life easier. If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you. Learn how to put up with him. You have to learn how to tolerate him.
2. To admit one's greatness is to recognize one's ignorance.
21. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.
22. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.
23. It takes only one word to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be merciful.
24. When you advise others, even the best words are useless if you don't care about others' self-esteem.
25. Don't mix arrogance with your wisdom. Don't make your modesty lack wisdom.
26. There's no need to look back to see who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite him back?
27. Being jealous of others will not add any benefits to yourself. Being jealous of others can't reduce their achievements.
28. Never waste a minute thinking about anyone you don't like.
29. How many people will say the same thing when they leave this world? This world is really helpless and desolate!
3. Love is not a charity, so you can't just give it away. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still persistent and pursuing until they die.
31. Please express your dissatisfaction and grievance with compassion and gentleness, and others will accept it easily.
32. Those who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for an opportunity is a fool.
33. Talking but not doing is not true wisdom.
34. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your own opinions in a hurry.
35. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?
36. We will always think that what we can't get is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, after you get to know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.
37. There is only smoothness in this world, not perfection.
38. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so you should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.
39. The more you pay attention to others, the less you pay attention to yourself. Do you understand? 4. If you want to know about the sword robbery in the world, but listen to the midnight sound of Tumen. Don't just blame yourself for being sick and bringing disaster, but look at how many sentient beings have died by your sword.
41. Hating others is a great loss to yourself.
42. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't know life.
43. People who think they own wealth are actually owned by wealth.
44. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of emotional attachment can you be at ease.
45. Fate is not to muddle along, but to do one's best to listen to destiny.
46, don't be too sure of your opinion, so you will have less regrets.
47. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you.
48. It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.
Author: Little Madman replied to this speech at 19: 42 on December 21, 25
-------------. 5. Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, so that life will be easier.
51. He who lives in the applause of others cannot stand the test.
52. Don't try to guess other people's thoughts. If you don't have the right judgment with wisdom and experience, you will usually make mistakes.
53. To understand a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, so we can know whether he is sincere.
54. The truth of life is just hidden in blandness.
55. People who don't take a bath will not smell fragrant if they wear perfume hard. Fame and honor are