At night 10, I said that my aunt (her mother) had disappeared, and WeChat did not return, and the phone was not answered. I haven't found it for more than half an hour.
She said that not long ago, she and her brother lost their temper and went out. When she came back, her aunt was not in the house. Her brother and husband don't know where she has gone.
I prayed in my heart that menstruation would never do anything stupid. After her husband died, I was afraid I wouldn't be able to recover. After decades together, I suddenly feel that life is like this, but after all, I still have a pair of children.
Yesterday afternoon, my best friend told me that she felt her heart would explode. I comforted her to hold back these days and always pay attention to my aunt. At that time, she said that her aunt was in a trance Recently, she cries after sleeping every day, and everything else looks normal.
My best friend's father (uncle) and aunt used to open a fast food restaurant in Zhongshan. A few days ago, my uncle suddenly fainted while cutting vegetables, saying that there were two layers of cardiac artery bleeding and three layers of cardiac artery bleeding. After the first operation, I went to the ICU for observation. The doctor said the operation was normal, but I never woke up. The doctor said that I should observe his physical indicators and have a second operation, which has been delayed for almost a month.
The burning rate of ICU is there. Every day, more than 10 thousand, my aunt changed hands in fast food restaurants, and my girlfriend took out the savings accumulated from work and the dowry she got married last year, raising tens of thousands of dollars without worry in the New Year. The cost reached 600,000 yuan, and my best friend, my aunt and her brother couldn't survive, so I had to lend money to my uncle to continue living.
Just a few days ago, I received a notice from the hospital that my uncle was dying in ICU. Instead, they breathed a sigh of relief. My relatives no longer have to worry about whether to borrow money to continue living in ICU. My uncle walked peacefully, although he didn't wake up, but there were tears in his eyes.
After going to the hospital for examination, my best friend finally seemed to breathe a sigh of relief. After 50% reimbursement, she still needs to pay about 400,000 yuan. Aunt and her brother's expenses in the hospital during this period are not counted, and at least 65,438+10,000 should be prepared afterwards. Uncle asked their family whether to stay in ICU or go home, and they chose the former.
I stayed at the funeral home for the past two days, but some relatives in her family, especially her uncle, have always disliked that they didn't handle it well, saying that uncle has worked hard all his life and this last journey must be done well. Another relative also said that he wanted his family to choose a big hotel to set up a few tables, and asked the first-class Mr. Feng Shui to have a good look at Feng Shui. Everything in Guangdong pays attention to geomantic omen, especially in Chaoshan area.
My best friends only know how to talk when they are chattering, but none of my relatives are angry with me. How can you afford a higher-level funeral after spending so much money? Those so-called relatives don't happen to themselves, they just know how to point fingers at others. My best friend is a bit headstrong and upset by these things.
Every time, I hold her steady and let her have something to do with her brother or husband. After all, she is a married daughter, but her brother just graduated a year ago, and he doesn't understand and won't do many things. Recently, he suddenly fell to the ground and cried. Aunt always wants something from her, and her husband is also a person who cares nothing. He can't see anything in his eyes, so he must do as she says.
For example, there are other relatives in the uncle's mourning hall. If she is not, they can't even wash a cup or make a cup of tea. There are still many things that my aunt is in a bad spirit and makes her do. Many of those relatives are still fanning the flames even if they don't take practical actions.
Another thing that stunned her yesterday afternoon was that her grandmother in Dongguan actually went back to her hometown! In order to take care of my uncle's funeral, my best friend and her husband both went to Zhongshan. Their 8-month-old daughter can only temporarily bring her family back to Dongguan. Even if the mother-in-law prefers boys to girls, should she help bring her granddaughter at this moment? It is simply that housewives in Guangdong can do this!
Mother-in-law in rural areas will not do this. Even if she doesn't want to see her daughter-in-law, she will worry that she is too old to move. After all, her daughter is married!
Her grandmother gives her 2000 yuan a month for living expenses because she has a daughter. She also said that her travel expenses were all covered, and she went back to her hometown these days!
And her little sister-in-law (mother-in-law's daughter) is not a fuel-efficient lamp. Before her best friend gave birth to a baby and let her mother take care of it, so she encouraged her mother to enjoy her old age and let young people solve their problems. Her best friend asked her for a theory. She also laughed at them for not having children if they couldn't afford a nanny!
These things add up to a middle-aged woman. /kloc-When having dinner around 0/8, she saw that her brother couldn't even help himself to a meal, so she had to let her aunt do it. She could not help losing her temper and ran out by herself. At that time, I made her really unhappy and found a quiet place to cry!
Fortunately, menstruation heard from Uncle menstruation that she had no expectation for life. Only then did she know that she had gone to the river and her uncle told her to go back. My girlfriend went and found that she was still staring at her own shadow by the river and crying. My girlfriend said it was all her fault, which stimulated my aunt She is just too tired to run out!
My best friend used to work in my last company, which made her have no idea of going to work at all. She immediately sent a message to tell her boss that she was going to resign! I especially emphasized to her that we must take good care of my aunt's emotions. I can't help losing my temper, not in front of her. My uncle's funeral will be over in a day or two. After that, I can take my aunt to take care of her 8-month-old daughter. No matter how sad the old man looks at the baby, he will gradually see hope!
I think my best friend has to worry about her livelihood after she resigned. Her husband is also an ordinary migrant worker in Shenzhen, and her brother resigned because of this not long after he worked for her. After losing her father, she found that she could only be the pillar of the family, although she never told me that she just wanted to be a little woman with a safe haven. I find that I can't help crying when I think about her!