When I talk about those born in the 1960s, I feel sour.
When I was a child, my family was poor, and there were a large group of brothers and sisters who did not have enough food or clothing. They had to herd sheep, collect firewood, and cut grass.
The conditions for going to school were poor. I had to lie down on a wooden board when writing. I never learned anything outside of class except for squeezing in class. Catching lice, squeezing worms, kicking shuttlecocks, and playing tops are not as much fun as going to school. During the busy farming season, there are few classes, so the team must work hard, such as gleaning wheat ears, plucking rice seedlings, digging garbage, and digging in the ground. Children are treated like adults.
We went to school with dozens of people, but in the end few of them got good grades, and there was no way out if they wanted to work. I have no choice but to go home and plant the land. Talking about marriage with a matchmaker means nothing. It is cleaner than talking about naked marriage!
The idea of ????preferring sons over daughters is very important. If you don’t give birth to a son, you will not get it. If you give birth to a girl, you will hide it. You will hide here and there to have a child. The Family Planning Office arrests her every day, the loudspeaker sounds like an alarm, she goes to great lengths to have a baby, she is pampered and pampered like an ancestor, she pays fines every year, and the list is unclear.
I am looking forward to a good next year this year. I have grown up year by year. I have entered junior high school and advanced to high school. It is a good time for the children to take the college entrance examination. The road is wide. One and two books are not online, and there are still three books. This book is expanded again. If the fine for over-students is not paid off, where will the college tuition be paid? There are old debts and new debts, and no matter how difficult it is, I have to go to school. My parents are so tired that they can finally provide a college student.
When looking for a partner in a city job, it is impossible to negotiate a house without it. Just as housing prices are rising rapidly, those born in the 1960s begin to worry every night. They are reluctant to spend a penny. They are saving for a down payment for their son. When can I save it? Hundreds of thousands? I had no choice but to go to the bank for a loan.
Not only the down payment is taken, but also the bride price is behind. I'm over fifty, I'm sick all over, I have to go out to earn money, I don't go home all year round, my elderly parents are abandoned at home, no one cares about my parents' illness, and my neighbors say I'm unfilial.
When I go home for a few days to celebrate the New Year, I take the old man to see his doctor, as well as the old relatives and young family members. I want to take gifts and see them again. I need to be frugal and live hard. Money is indispensable for favors and gifts.
Seeing that his son is in his thirties, his wife is still missing. He has difficulty raising his head when speaking in front of others. He is so worried that he can’t sleep every night. He makes phone calls, sends WeChat messages, asks matchmakers for various things, and is willing to spend more money. Buy a house and a car. One match after another, girls pick boys, and they don’t care about having a house or a car, and they also need a eldest aunt.
The most difficult thing is for the two children. Not to mention the heavy burden, the beautiful girl is looking for a partner, but the two brothers are not available. The situation is really changing, women are superior to men, and the daughters are all little cotton-padded jackets, and the sons are both. The mountain that presses the head. When the two met each other, they burst into tears without saying a word. Two houses and two cars cost millions at least. They squeezed the bones and sucked the marrow dry, and they were left alone until they were old.
It is extremely difficult to get married, and then you have to take care of your grandson. It is difficult for the couple to live in two places. They are not used to city life. They are responsible for eating, drinking and urination. The wife is still arrogant. Having children is a heavy burden. You still have to pay more.
For those born in the 1960s, think about how many more years you have left. Life is not easy, and your wife loves each other. It is best to worry less about leisure and be happy every year.