In fact, any happiness, passion, addiction, or euphoria comes at a price. It's much better, and it costs a lot. I should seriously think about it. I hope I can have a healthy body, a relaxed and smooth social career, a warm and harmonious family, and a really beautiful wife and children in the future. I still hope that's it. Let's have fun, and we can't get any more fun. You can only choose one of the two. In short, masturbation is much more enjoyable, and happiness in reality is less < P >. This is definitely not empty talk, and the facts in the future prove everything.
causes of masturbation
in fact, people's sexual desire is not easy to orgasm without any stimulation, and they will not be interested in masturbation without orgasm. Usually there are hands. People who are addicted to sex generally have the habit of watching "erotic videos" and "erotic images". Under the sensory stimulation, self-cooperation masturbates to reach orgasm and excitement, and finally the impulse is unbearable and masturbates.
Therefore, the direct cause of hand adultery is not "sexual desire", but "urge desire".
Understanding the meaning of sexual behavior
Nowadays, the concept of "sexual behavior" has been distorted and misunderstood by many people. The essence of sexual behavior is actually a link in the process of biological reproduction. The exact name of the sexual organ is called "genitalia", which, as the name implies, exists for the reproduction of offspring.
The function of "sexual desire" is to promote reproduction. It can be said that sexual desire can promote the attraction and physiological needs of the opposite sex, thus creating opportunities for reproduction.
However, the pursuit of sexual pleasure only deviates from the fundamental purpose of "reproduction" and only pursues physical pleasure, which becomes "obscenity". There is a difference between "lewdness" and "sex". "lewdness" means that there will be no substantial benefits, and the only thing that people want is a "cool" and the price they pay for it is their real energy and vitality.
Among the behaviors that consume vitality, sexual behavior is the most severe. Think about it carefully, one kind of energy that can breed new life is destined to be different from others, and the cost of releasing it can be imagined. Moreover, vitality and energy cannot be equated with < P > nutrition. Vitality and energy are the timetable to support life to aging and death, and no force can fundamentally stop it. Tonics can increase nutrition, but they can't stop aging. Old people can't be young again with nutrition.
Normal sex between men and women (without safety measures) is accomplished by the cooperation of two living beings. It includes the mutual giving of energy and the exchange of nutrients between the two sides, thus achieving physiological balance. But even so, if the physiological balance is also broken without restraint, that is, as mentioned earlier, there will be no substantial benefits if it deviates from the fundamental principle of "reproduction".
Masturbation is very different from pure sexual behavior. Because there is no personal cooperation from the opposite sex, you can't get the energy and nutrition in return at all, and you just let it go unilaterally. It's like spending money without buying anything, and you can only lose money. Do it once and lose it once.
At present, many people hold a view that masturbation will not be a problem as long as it is moderate. This view is actually to admit that masturbation is useless, but not to give up masturbation. In fact, this view does not make sense. This so-called "moderation" concept is nothing more than minimizing the harm, but it does not eliminate the harm. This is equivalent to smoking less when taking drugs. As I said before, masturbation is an act of losing money. Doing more and doing less is just a matter of < P > matching more and losing less. Throwing all your reproductive energy to the ground is similar to planting seeds in cement, but I'm afraid I won't get any harvest when my seeds are used up. Although energy can be regenerated to a certain extent, it will become more and more difficult as the body ages. Otherwise, wouldn't everyone be able to regain their youth by resting?
Symptoms and hazards of masturbation
Masturbation first occurred in childhood or adolescence. Because life is on the uphill road of growth and development during this period, it is the most vigorous period, and it is full of innate energy, even if it is in a short period of time, it will not be immediately
to see adverse reactions. Otherwise, everyone can find the harm as early as possible and consciously cut it off. The insidious nature of masturbation lies in this. The harm of masturbation is gradually revealed after long-term accumulation, which means that once you see obvious bad symptoms, < P > often means that you have lost a lot, and it is impossible to try to recover in a short time.
Here's a brief list of the adverse reactions of masturbation, most of which are common among masturbators.
The early feelings of masturbators are physical weakness, mental fatigue and laziness.
gray hair gradually began to appear. At the initial stage, it first appeared in the whirlpool of the brain above the head, and then gradually spread around. (Usually, white hair will appear within 5 years of habitual masturbation, but the phenomenon of individual hand-prostitutes is not obvious) At the same time, scalp oil < P > is secreted vigorously, and dandruff is thickened. Long-term development gradually turns into hair loss, also starting from the top of the head. (Usually habitual masturbation will appear within 1 years, and the phenomenon of individual masturbators is not obvious. )
Premature ejaculation is usually characterized by shorter and shorter masturbation time, which ends soon from the beginning of masturbation to the completion of ejaculation. (Generally, sexual habits will show up in about 5 years. )
abnormal prostate. Usually masturbation takes about 1 years to experience obvious manifestations, such as urinary bifurcation (it can't be said that all urinary bifurcation is related to masturbation and prostate, but long-term masturbation habits generally have this symptom)
Long-term sweating in genital areas. Long-term wet sweat in underwear is sticky and greasy, and it breeds sludge and bean dregs-like dirt. Sweat is a smelly smell.
it is accompanied by bad breath, and the teeth are yellow and not white. Perennial habitual masturbators even have dental caries, and most of them are in the upper teeth.
oral ulcer is very easy, and the basic tongue will develop into oral ulcer or even autogenous if it is slightly scarred.
It is easy to sweat, and the sweat secretion in midsummer or high temperature environment is obviously more than others. In addition, people who masturbate for a long time will have a little exercise, such as going upstairs, and they will have a state of breathing and fatigue.
the interval between stools becomes longer.
In addition, the face of the long-term hand-molester is abnormal. Or pale, or gloomy. The figure is also abnormal, either thin or puffy.
there are individual phenomena. If you start habitual masturbation at an early age, then when you are young, your ears will grow slowly, which shows that the proportion of your ears to your head is slightly different from that of normal people. The ears are obviously small.
The above are only physiological manifestations, besides, hand-lasciviousness can also lead to personality changes.
Long-term habitual hand-adultery leads to kidney essence deficiency, from which the personality gradually changes into introversion, lack of vitality, even withdrawn, and social fear. Psychological state and personality are actually related to the internal organs, so it is difficult to adjust personality out of thin air. It is not easy to make a person with kidney deficiency brave.
Furthermore, habitual masturbators often have poor field, which may be related to the dissipation of their own essence. The so-called "field" refers to a potential charm. For example, a beautiful and really healthy girl will feel comfortable just standing beside her. A good person will feel relaxed in contact with him even if his appearance is not outstanding. And a long-term habitual prostitute will feel unnatural when others get close to her, and will feel embarrassed when interacting with her < P >. Often marginalized in social situations. Only after a long period of masturbation can people feel this.
As a result, habitual masturbation has developed for a long time, and she has entered youth. She looks young
with white hair and even hair loss, bad breath and yellow teeth. Physical weakness and incompetence. Depressed and withdrawn in character, unsociable, cowardly and even obscene. In this state, if you want to stand on your own feet in society, the pressure is great. Even the regular marriage and love will be greatly hindered. Therefore, although masturbators have a strong sexual desire, they are very lewd and love beautiful women in their minds. But in reality, it is difficult to get the favor of the right woman. Its own quality determines that there is almost no
opportunity. Even masturbators themselves simply lack the confidence and courage to get in touch with their favorite women. Moreover, personality and physical condition naturally lead to a career that will not go smoothly. Therefore, the adulterer starts masturbating when he depends on his parents' life, but < P > he will see bitter results when he leaves his parents to support the world alone.
in addition to the above, there is another phenomenon, the basis of which is still unclear, but the phenomenon exists. In an environment where masturbation often occurs, such as at home,
pay attention to the status of family members, such as health, career status, harmony and so on. In the environment where sexual intercourse often happens, it is often full of disharmony. This may be the so-called "Feng Shui" has gone bad. People who have
experienced masturbation for a long time can understand it by themselves. Here, I don't want to talk about whether this phenomenon is based on or not. In short, I will talk about it by implementing my feelings.
It can be seen that the harm of hand prostitution is real, but the most fatal shortcoming of young people is their lack of experience. People who have no experience may not fully believe it, but the consequences have to be borne whether they like it or not.
Self-help measures for long-term prostitutes. Get rid of masturbation, restore your health and return to happiness early.
Let's talk about how to quit masturbation and recover. Many people who are used to masturbation feel that it is difficult to quit masturbation, and they repeatedly quit and commit crimes. I made up my mind, but I gave up everything with passion.
indeed, it is very difficult to give up masturbation, which is as difficult as giving up drugs. It is a great test of people's perseverance. Mainly rely on their own restraint and confidence. But we can't help but talk about some direct reasons for repeated offenses.
Actually, as mentioned earlier, many masturbators have the habit of watching "aphrodisiac videos" and "aphrodisiac images". From this, sensory stimulation is obtained, thus giving birth to hand-whoring. However, many people who consciously want to give up their hands and commit adultery still don't have the habit of
abandoning watching "erotic videos" and "erotic images". This is difficult to grasp. It can be said that it is difficult to quit masturbation without the "urge video". No wonder your sexual desire, only blame can not be separated from urge.
The following is a detailed description of how to give up masturbation and rebuild yourself. There are five steps here. It can be said that if all of them are done, there is no problem for recovering your body as soon as possible. If you can't, you can only blame yourself for being greedy and desperate.
first, from now on, it is very necessary and must be done to destroy all the bad videos and all the aphrodisiacs around you. Don't be reluctant, these things do harm to people, just like drugs, which can make people pay a heavy price in excitement. Stay away from bad websites, which can ensure to reduce the probability of a considerable part of hand prostitution.
Second, do not have erotic thoughts at ordinary times. Due to the influence of long-term acceptance of bad images, there must be many passionate fragments deposited in your mind. Plus the self-fantasy plot, not to mention watching bad videos, you can < P > get yourself excited by casually recalling a paragraph at ordinary times. Therefore, even if you don't give vent to sex, it will also be harmful to the health of the reproductive system. Failure to meet after orgasm will seriously increase the burden on genitals. Long-term hand-prostitutes will also have a deep understanding of this. After < P > entering the excited state, they will not release it for some reason, so usually there will be obvious pain and swelling in the waist and lower abdomen the next day. Moreover, as long as a small amount of fluid is secreted after erection, there will be a sense of fatigue immediately in the state of essence < P >. Therefore, at ordinary times, it is necessary to ensure that once there is a lust in your mind, you should consciously transfer it and cut it off, so as to ensure that there will be no secretion, otherwise it will not play a maintenance role.
Third,
Ensure your normal work and rest, especially at night, and try to sleep around 1 o'clock (22 o'clock). Don't stay up late unless there is a special task to be postponed. Try to fall asleep as soon as possible after going to bed, don't be paranoid, and don't touch sensitive parts with your hands. If you feel that it is difficult to fall asleep (people with kidney deficiency often suffer from insomnia), you can appropriately increase the amount of activities during the day, and you don't have to exercise deliberately. You can just walk for a long time, and scalding your feet with hot water before going to bed at night is conducive to falling asleep as soon as possible.
fourth, calm your mind, don't be greedy for speed, don't be greedy for more, in short, don't be greedy. A course that goes deep into nature is the best.
Fifth, to solve the current physical problems is to seek medical treatment. This is the fastest and most symptomatic recovery method. If you feel embarrassed, you can find an excuse, such as long-term hand. Prostitutes often have white hair; Hair loss; Bad breath; Surface reactions such as mental fatigue. Therefore, it is entirely possible to treat these symptoms as an excuse to go to Chinese medicine. An important feature of Chinese medicine is that the root cause can be found through an entry point. Usually, experienced Chinese medicine practitioners can accurately tell other symptoms that patients have a deep understanding by observing the basic state of patients, and simply taking the pulse and looking at the tongue. (Usually, doctors don't say anything about masturbation, but if the patient is very young, I think the doctor knows better.) A doctor with this ability is good. You don't have to care too much about the specific background of doctors. There is a saying that you don't want a "famous doctor" but a "famous doctor" (if doctors just ask patients how they feel,
their methods are questionable, just suggestions)
Therefore, it is usually not expensive for doctors to diagnose and guide the preparation of drugs suitable for you. And it won't be very frequent. You can take it for a while with one dose.
If you remember the prescription, you will save money if you go to the pharmacy to get the medicine and take it. This is more conducive to recovery as soon as possible. If it is fast, it will have an effect in a few months. Never use tonics indiscriminately, it is almost impossible to recover by tonics, and < P > it is not symptomatic, and side effects are inevitable. And the cost is not low, in contrast, the right medicine is the most cost-effective. It is also not recommended to consult online, and it is necessary to communicate face to face with the doctor. You might as well go to the community Chinese medicine clinic < P > near where you live. (Usually, such community clinics have a formal system, and relatively large hospitals are not very busy, so they can fully communicate with doctors, and it does not prevent them from going to see the same doctor repeatedly, so it is beneficial for patients to go to
for diagnosis first, and then to fill the prescription and pay the bill with their families. Moreover, some doctors in such community clinics are re-employed by experienced retired doctors with good quality. It's just a suggestion)
It can be said that there is no problem in restoring your body by doing the above. However, the premise of everything is that we must completely get rid of our hands and lewd behavior, otherwise everything will be impossible.
People must cherish their own blessings. Everyone's innate blessings are different, and they are all human beings. Some of them were born in rich families and have no worries about food and clothing. And some people who have worked hard all their lives to earn money may not be able to afford a house. People with
are plain but have beautiful partners. And some people seem to have a bright future, but suddenly they are in trouble. Such examples abound. This is the difference between the blessings. There is no shortage of confident people in the world, but there are not many people who are really satisfied with this life.
this is a fact that no rhetoric can conceal. This is the blessing. People have knowledge, culture, ability and good fortune. People who are blessed with great rewards have done great deeds in their last lives, and perhaps even if they act recklessly in this life, they will not lose < P >. And people with small blessings may pay only one small mistake.