In every family, the wife’s ideas and personality affect the life of the entire family. It can be said like this: If a family has a good wife, three generations will benefit!
A good wife is an indispensable and important person in the family. In the family, she can be filial to her parents, guide her husband to be kind to others, and educate her children to be diligent. Only in this way can the family atmosphere be warm and beautiful, and the family environment be orderly.
Ang Lee, the well-known international director, held a very simple wedding in New York after falling in love with Lin Huijia for five years. Li An's parents came from Tainan and sat in front of a bed made of bright red sheets, kowtowing and kneeling.
On the wedding day, Li's mother held Lin Huijia's hand and burst into tears: "The Li family is sorry for letting you get married in such a shabby way!" Lin Huijia replied firmly: "I don't care about superficial things, as long as we are two people A good relationship is more important than anything else."
Although Lian was very poor at the time, his wife recognized him as her lifelong partner. As the famous writer San Mao once said: If you don't like something, a multi-millionaire won't marry; if you like something, a billionaire will marry too.
But if the person you meet is you, just enough money for food is enough, and you can eat less in the future. This is probably the true meaning of understanding and love.
In order for Li An to realize his dream at home and rely on his wife's salary for six years, Lin Huijia did not complain at all. Instead, she comforted her husband and provided unconditional support. In the end, Li An lived up to his wife's expectations and finally became famous.
Just like Ang Lee thanked his wife when he won the Oscar: Without your support, I would not be where I am today.
A wife is always an important role beside a man. When you are down and out, I am willing to be your kapok tree, share cold waves, wind and thunder, and thunderbolts with you, and be your solid support.
After you succeed, I will never be a climbing flower, using your high branches to show off myself, nor will I belittle myself. I will still have an independent personality and a strong self.
A good wife also affects the growth of children and grandchildren. In a family, the mother is the core. Being a mother has a long way to go, the picture must be big, and the vision must be broad.
Jia Mu in "A Dream of Red Mansions" has become a style. Her wisdom, elegance, tolerance and kindness exude infinite charm. In ancient times when it was believed that "a woman's lack of talent is a virtue", Jia's mother was like a breath of fresh air, but encouraged women to read more books.
When she took Grandma Liu to visit Lin Daiyu’s room, Grandma Liu “saw a pen and inkstone on the table under the window, and saw bookshelf full of books,” thinking it was Jia Baoyu’s room.
But Mother Jia pointed to Lin Daiyu with a smile and said, "This is my granddaughter's house." She didn't mean to show off, but she really loved reading.
Before Jia Yuanchun entered the palace, Jia's mother personally taught her knowledge, and therefore she was selected into the palace and promoted step by step from female historian to concubine. For the remaining three springs, I stayed with Jia Mu all the year round, "reading together".
As a result, all of them are quite talented. He loves chess in the spring, is good at painting in the spring, and is proficient in calligraphy in the spring.
It is Jia Mu’s open-minded and generous educational attitude that enables her granddaughters and grandsons to be virtuous and talented, with a rich and sufficient spiritual life.
In addition to reading and writing, Jia Mu also set an example in every aspect of life, teaching both by example and words.
From the daughter of a marquis in one of the four major families, to the eldest daughter-in-law of Duke Rong, after her husband's early death, she shouldered heavy responsibilities and gradually became the old lady of the family.
What is even more commendable is that such an old-style woman who came out of the feudal social system, although not very literate, has her own mature concept of education and is very capable.
Mothers are the shapers of children’s souls. They inherit everything from their mothers through the influence of their ears and eyes. It can be seen that a high-quality wife can influence the growth of three generations of a family.
Women are an important part of a family, the most important feng shui of the family, and a measure of the happiness of the family.
Whether a family is peaceful, safe, secure, and quiet depends entirely on whether there is a good woman in the house, and behind those successful men there is a good wife, who silently supports her husband's career.