Nowadays, the pressure of life is enormous, and many people have long forgotten their original intention in this place, and they choose all kinds of accusations when they encounter all kinds of disappointments. The most common dispute is between a stay-at-home mother and a father who supports the financial resources.
From ancient times to the present, there are countless such examples. No matter how capable you are, you always tolerate your wife humbly. From strangeness to familiarity, two people decided to support each other until they were old, so everything would be closely related to each other. If family is a symbol of a person's success, then a happy marriage is his success.
Cao Wangde, the world glass king, is worth a lot. However, I always cherish my illiterate and uneducated wife and write most of my property in her name, giving her the greatest sense of security. At that time, an interview asked Cao Wangde that he was now worth a lot, and his wife was illiterate, which could no longer set off his strength. He also gave all his property to his wife, so he was not afraid of the opposite. Cao said that in those years when he was not rich, his wife took care of several older children at home and died for several parents. Now that you have made a fortune and look down on your wife, there will be retribution. Marriage is the feng shui of your career. If his wife leaves, he will lose all his property.
Fang, a generation of famous soldiers, fought side by side with Li Shiming in history, conquered the north and quelled the rebellion of all parties. According to classic records, Fang is a powerful person with high IQ and leadership. At that time, in the heyday of the Tang Dynasty, he worshipped the Prime Minister, ranking only below the emperor, but he was such a vicious man who was afraid of his wife.
According to legend, one day after going to court, the discoverer followed him all the time until he entered the harem and never moved. I thought he had something confidential to report. Unexpectedly, because his words annoyed his wife, he was afraid to go home, and he specially asked Li Shimin for an imperial edict to protect himself.
Marriage is a place to talk about feelings, not reason. In fact, in the position of Cao or Fang, it is very easy to change wives. But they all chose to give in to save their marriage and family. Reason is everyone's rule, but not all marriages are reasonable. Just because someone touched a certain point in you, you began to make up your mind to spend your life together.
When encountering hardships, my father will blame my mother. He will deny her sacrifices and efforts for all the hardships of this family and even verbally violence her, blaming all the unhappiness and problems on her.
In fact, he forgot the original intention of being with his mother at the beginning, and also forgot that her mother was willing to be a full-time mother because she chose you and gave up a lot of things voluntarily to protect your family and children. The separation of most families is also a misunderstanding of the nature of marriage, leading a very chaotic life, paying attention to giving where it should be reasonable and paying attention to material things when it should be emotional. In the end, both sides lost. In fact, marriage is more caring, less preaching and more concessions. Everything is not that bad.