However, this fatalistic view has long belonged to the decadent concept of the old times. No one in this world is better off than others. The reason why fate is different is just the stereotype people get from the surface. There are many essential things that affect a person's success and wealth. Only by seeing these clearly can we know why others have a so-called "rich life" and we don't. Today, let's take a look at five characteristics that people with rich lives will show in their lives.
I. Capacity
As the saying goes, "Don't work in porcelain without Jin Gangzuan", there are many doorways to get wealth in this world, but some people are at a loss for these doorways. Although some people know, they don't have the strength to push the door open. Only those who can push open the door can get the favor of wealth.
The reason why some people don't know how to do it, some people know how to do it, and some people are very effective is because the difference lies in their respective abilities. Without ability, they have no spirit of success. Therefore, they only think about three meals a day. For them, wealth is just a dream. If someone advises him to make a fortune, he will say, "If you make a fortune, others will have a rich life." Such people, it is not that fate does not care for them, but that they are useless, how can they blame fate.
Compared with this kind of incompetent people, some people with little ability just live a moist life. Although they dream of wealth, there is no such thing as "Jin Gangzuan". Only those who have the ability to match can hold wealth in their hands. They are rich not because of their natural life, but because of their acquired ability.
Second, family background.
A good family environment can make a person take fewer detours. If there is so-called fate, this is probably the most important influence. But not a rich man, born in a rich family, not a poor family, and future generations will definitely not be enterprising. We look at a person's family background to see what qualities and temperament the family has brought him, rather than how much wealth or shortcuts the family has given him. That's all that matters.
In the famous "Chu-Han struggle" in history, Liu Bang, the idle protagonist, and Xiang Yu, an aristocrat from Chu, seem to have a wide family background, but in the end Liu Bang was able to laugh at the end because of his experience of being born at the grassroots level, so Liu Bang would be more comfortable than Xiang Yu. At the "Hongmen Banquet", in order to save his life, Liu Bang was able to leave without saying goodbye and never followed any etiquette pedantically.
At the gates of Xingyang, Liu Bang wanted to drink his father's broth in order to let Xiang Yu know that he could ignore any criticism in order to defend the city. Xiang Yu finally had a chance to make a comeback in Wujiang Estuary, but due to the pressure of his birth, he felt ashamed to face his elders in Jiangdong, and finally ended his life by himself. Therefore, although Xiang Yu was born easily to become famous, his thoughts were not firm because he lacked the power of poverty.
Third, timely.
Zhu Yuanzhang was able to establish his own Ming Dynasty in the troubled times at the end of Yuan Dynasty, and Liu Bei was able to stand in the Three Kingdoms in the troubled times at the end of Han Dynasty. If these two men were in peace and prosperity, then Zhu Yuanzhang's greatest achievement was to be a landlord, and Liu Bei was ultimately a businessman selling straw sandals.
Therefore, for a person, being able to grasp the fortune is also an important feature leading to wealth. When others are at a loss, Chen Sheng and Guangwu can shout "princes will be better", so that the control of the world is not something that others can do with a shout.
Fourth, make friends with noble people.
Some people, after years of hard work, still have no results, but if they are hinted by experts, they will have a clear sense of "seeing the moon through the clouds" and naturally find their own way of life. Therefore, people who are willing to make more friends in life have a much greater chance of meeting noble people than others. If you just close the door and build a car behind closed doors, even with the help of the noble A Xing, you will never be found out. Therefore, a successful person must be a person who is good at managing interpersonal relationships.
Five, like learning
As the saying goes, "There are two fortunes, three geomantics, four virtues and five studies in your life", and reading is the most fulfilling way to change your life. After all, burning incense and worshipping Buddha is illusory, and sometimes doing good deeds may not be rewarded. The feng shui of ancestral graves or houses is even more nonsense. Only by studying can you make a little effort, make a little progress, learn a little harvest, study a little, and learn slowly, and finally you can change from quantitative change to qualitative change, so that your life will be rich after all.