Han Han said: "Sometimes feelings are just a matter of one person and have nothing to do with anyone. If you love or don't love, you can only end it on your own."
I deeply believe that we can Because if you love someone, you will be humbled to the point of dust, or if you don’t love someone anymore, you can ignore the old feelings and turn around and leave. Who is not a self-aware person?
This phenomenon is particularly obvious in the relationship between men and women. Just like what we see in the relationship between husband and wife: some families are happy and happy, and some families have constant conflicts. Both husband and wife always interpret the joys and sorrows of marriage in their own way.
But, do you know? A woman is the feng shui of a family. How a woman lives affects the life cycle of a family to a great extent.
Our common understanding is that women are afraid of hardship and tiredness, and material things will make them snobbish and picky about men.
But is this really the case? I don't think so. Because since they choose to be together, they must have a foundation of love. If you feel that a woman's nature is different from what you expected before, then perhaps a big reason is that the man's attitude affects the woman's behavior.
Why do you say that? And look down, you may have the answer you want. Women who are accustomed to be gentle
If a man always obeys a woman's words in most situations, then this does not mean that the man is weak, but that he knows how to cherish the woman.
With such care from a man, women will naturally become gentle, not only towards men, but also more friendly towards the people around them.
Because women get the care they deserve from men, their hearts will be filled with love, and they will naturally show their tenderness to the outside world.
Women are not men’s exclusive possessions, nor can they be called upon or called away. We often hear about men’s domestic violence against women. Not only do they not cherish women, but their behavior is so bad. Will the final result be happy? The answer is obvious. A woman who is angry is a fierce woman
What is a fierce woman like? I think a casual remark or an inconspicuous thing can be the trigger for them to act up and quarrel with you.
They are not born like this, but the despair they develop after living with men. I wonder if you know this:
Some men always look like successful people and have a successful career outside, but they are always disrespectful to women at home. He even blames women for the unhappiness he encounters outside and takes it out on women. Let me ask you this: Which woman would tolerate such a man indefinitely? A pampered woman is virtuous
"There are three thousand things in the weak water, but only one scoop can be taken."
This old saying is suitable to be used at any time. It also expresses a man’s special love for a woman. I think this is probably the ideal state of happiness.
If you see a man doting on a woman, then most of the women you come into contact with are also virtuous and pragmatic.
Perhaps, the love or love we are looking forward to is romantic and long-lasting. But after all, this is just a longing. If we really settle down in real life, what we will experience is a life of daily necessities such as rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. In short, men and women live together. Do you agree?
Therefore, if you want a woman in your family to be virtuous and run the house, the man must make corresponding efforts. Women are suitable to be held in the palm of your hand and placed in your heart. Only in this way can a relationship reflect its valuable value. Women who are cold are irritable
What is the most hurtful thing in the relationship between men and women? It is neither an unlimited quarrel nor a petty conflict, but a "cold violence" that turns a blind eye.
Why do you say that? Because a man's silence is a sign of his indifference towards a woman, as if he is asking her to leave him in disguise.
Women’s hearts are extremely sensitive and lack love. If men cannot give women the warmth they deserve, most women will vent their dissatisfaction by losing their temper, and men will not respond. , forming a vicious circle, and women can only feel cold in the end.
This is not a happy ending, but since men don’t cherish it, why should women deceive themselves?
Write at the end:
The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love also loves you.
Topic: What do you think is the most ideal state in the relationship between men and women?