My husband lost hundreds of thousands in gambling. Wife ran away with another man, blame the wife or the husband?

Both of them have a bad life. It is illegal for a husband to lose money by gambling. Naturally, there are mistakes first. It is also illegal for a wife to elope with others during the marriage, which violates the marriage law. Even if she talks about marriage with others, she must divorce first. Both people should reflect on their mistakes. After all, life goes on, don't pay more on the wrong road.