I remember reading a sentence before, a good woman is the good feng shui of a family.
Having a good woman at home can not only help her husband handle various family relationships, but also educate the children to be promising. In short, the importance of a good woman in the family is self-evident.
On the contrary, if you marry a bad woman, in addition to her bad conduct, your actions will lead to the decline of the whole family, putting family relationships under tension, unhappy relationships, and poor children. Affected, it may even affect his life's happiness.
So, being able to marry a good woman is very important for a man. This is especially true for middle-aged women.
A middle-aged woman has experienced some ups and downs and has her own personal story. Some women know how to be more considerate of men and can work with men to create a beautiful life.
However, there are also some women who are unpredictable. They think they have met true love just by looking at their appearance. In fact, they are just hidden "lechers" and do not want to live a sincere life with a man. It's just a joke. When you meet such a woman, you should keep your eyes open and don't be blinded by the illusion in front of you.
To be specific, a middle-aged woman who likes to do these three things must be a "lecher" and cannot be married.
1.
Like to participate in various social activities and gatherings
There is nothing wrong with women being kind to themselves, so that they can live a better life, no matter when It should be beautiful.
However, if you meet a middle-aged woman who likes to show off and attend various social events and parties, be careful, because they may not put their focus on you. on the body.
There are some women who like to attract the attention of the opposite sex in various social activities and gatherings. They enjoy having their radiant side recognized by others, and they become ambiguous or even flirtatious when getting along with the opposite sex.
Such a woman will not restrain herself because she is middle-aged, or already has a boyfriend or a family. On the contrary, she will still follow the previous rhythm of whether to go out or follow. Others will continue to date when they date. At this point, she will not restrain herself just because she now has a boyfriend or a partner, but will intensify her efforts.
If you are with such a woman, there may not be any problems at the moment, but the longer the two people get along, the greater the problems will be.
2.
Like to chat with different opposite sexes online
Nowadays, everyone knows that we are in an Internet age, and we can simply use a mobile phone to You can make all kinds of friends, talk about your interests and hobbies, and you can just pass the boring time in your spare time.
However, online chatting must be measured and have a bottom line. It cannot affect your normal life, let alone use it as your daily focus. Sooner or later, if you continue like this, you will get into trouble.
The biggest hobby of some women every day is to make friends with all kinds of people of the opposite sex online, not because they are a little older, but to chat with each other, flirt with each other, and send them beautiful photos of themselves. , and then after chatting for a long time, they would ask each other to meet offline.
The reason why they do this is to say goodbye to their lonely and boring life every day, and to make themselves happier every day through virtual chats online again and again.
If you get along with such a woman, or plan to marry her, you must be prepared for the other person to betray you. Because middle-aged women who like to indulge in the Internet are often not mature enough and will not take the present seriously, and will only get themselves into endless trouble.
3. Only value a man’s appearance and not care about his inner self
For some middle-aged women, they often say that they long for a true relationship of their own, but Their criteria for selecting a mate are often based on a man's appearance and not his inner qualities.
If a woman only values ??a man's appearance and only cares about whether he looks handsome or ugly, she is actually not mature enough on the inside and is definitely a "lecher". She just hopes to enjoy a romantic time with a handsome man, and does not really consider the courage to face difficulties hand in hand with a man.
Once you are with such a woman, everything is beautiful when the two of you are going smoothly, but once the two of you encounter setbacks and difficulties, she will definitely choose to escape. After all, in her heart, a man's appearance is what matters to her, and everything else is secondary.
Moreover, today she will fall in love with this handsome man, and another day she will fall in love with other handsome men. Don’t imagine that she can stay with you until old age. The trick they use best.
After all, when people reach middle age, it is more about finding the best partner who can stay with them for a lifetime on a pragmatic basis.
A person’s appearance is the most unreliable thing. As time goes by, no matter how handsome a man is, he will age, no matter how beautiful a woman is. It is very important to value a person’s appearance. Unreliable things.
Also, if a woman reaches middle age and still cares about whether a man is handsome, it actually means that she is not ready to settle down and live a good life. You really don't need to waste your time on such a woman.
A good marriage can make each other successful, and can make two people feel like a fish in water in a happy relationship, and even feel like a spring breeze.
Among these, it is particularly important to choose what kind of person you want. After all, the kind of person you choose is the kind of life and lifestyle you choose. You must not be careless about this, and you must be cautious, especially for middle-aged women who we call "lechers".
Because, for men, they are no longer young and do not have much time to choose the wrong person. After all, they need to be responsible for their own lives. Being with these "lechers" will not let you Happiness, on the contrary, will bring you endless pain and torture.
In this case, it is better to recognize the true face of the other party as soon as possible. If it is not suitable, say goodbye as soon as possible.