When talking to others, say less about these three things about yourself
How you speak will determine the kind of life you will have. People who can control their mouths often have the most Blessing.
A truly powerful person knows how to be silent at the right time and understands the truth that talking too much will lead to mistakes
When talking to others, talk less about these three things about yourself, and you will be more and more blessed. many.
Inner Secret
If you tell the wind your secret, don’t blame the wind for bringing it to the whole forest.
This is how people are, there are some sufferings and secrets that only you are destined to know.
Sometimes, what you think is a secret is just a source of conversation for others.
During the reign of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, there was a prime minister named Li Linfu. He sounded nice on the surface, but he had evil intentions behind his back.
Once, colleague Li Shizhi chatted with him.
While speaking, Li Shizhi showed his desire to make meritorious deeds, so Li Linfu took the opportunity to say:
"Huashan produces a large amount of gold. If it can be mined, it can greatly increase the national wealth. But the emperor I don’t know yet.”
On the surface, Li Linfu gave Li Shizhi a chance, but in fact he had a secret.
Li Shizhi didn't pay attention and thought it was a good opportunity, so he told Emperor Xuanzong the news in detail.
Unexpectedly, Li Linfu had already prepared his words:
"I have known this for a long time. Huashan Mountain is a place where feng shui is concentrated. How can we mine it at will? If anyone wants to mine it, Most people have bad intentions."
After hearing these words, Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty thought deeply and became more and more alienated from Li Shizhi.
Some people are like this. They greet you with a smile on the surface, but stab you in the back, leaving you inexplicably dumb.
Therefore, never tell secrets to people who smile on their faces and hide knives in their sleeves, otherwise you will be asking for trouble.
People's hearts are fickle and we cannot change it, but the best way to make yourself less troubled is to pay attention to your words and deeds.
Trivial complaints
Everyone in the world is suffering, and no one’s life is easy.
Life is not easy, life is difficult, every family has hard-to-recite sutras, and everyone has bitter tears.
People who always complain are full of negative energy, and over time, people around them will stay away.
Lu Xun’s Sister Xianglin is a complainer.
She told everyone she met that her son had been snatched away by a wolf. People sympathized with her at first, but gradually they despised her and ridiculed her.
And in the end she ended up being hated by everyone, and died tragically.
Past Achievements
As the saying goes: A wise man should not remember his past merits, and a good man should not mention his former courage.
Real winners do not brag about their past achievements. They always maintain a humble attitude and an ambition to never give up.
There was such a photo, which unexpectedly made Liu Xianlin, an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering, an "Internet celebrity"
In order to make a report in the second-class seat of the high-speed rail, the 78-year-old Academician Liu Xianlin, who is very old, is still writing non-stop.
Some sharp-eyed netizens also noticed that Mr. Liu was wearing a pair of old leather shoes, which were very simple. They couldn't help but sigh: This is another worldly master like a sweeping monk.
In fact, as one of the first academicians of the Chinese Academy of Engineering, Liu Xianlin has many privileges, but Academician Liu just immerses himself in research and is very low-key and humble.
All the things that we think can be used to show off are not worth mentioning here.
As the saying goes: "Those who see themselves are not clear, those who are self-righteous are not manifest, those who cut down on themselves have no merit, and those who are proud of themselves will not grow."
Some people are aloof, arrogant, and panic-stricken. In this life, some people have nothing but pretentiousness. Little do they know that what bows their head is the ear of rice and what raises its head is the tares.
Keeping secrets in your heart will urge you to grow;
Giving up unnecessary complaints will make your mind clearer;
Not talking about your past achievements in front of others will make you You see yourself clearly.
Only by not thinking about the past, not being afraid of the future, and looking to the future can we reach new heights in life.
Light up "Looking", I hope you will be a sober person and love yourself well on the long road of life.