There are contradictions between people because they are too greedy, too narrow-minded and too caring, so they will amplify the contradictions. Between her and me, we never care too much. It doesn't matter about the interests, so there will be no contradiction because the mother-in-law has given more benefits and is more partial to whom. Because we all know in our hearts that in the eyes of mother-in-law, daughters-in-law are all the same, and no one is good or bad.
We are about the same age and live very close, but there are few contradictions. After they are busy with their family affairs every day, they will chat with each other about what happens every day. We talk about our husbands and mother-in-law. We have no negative psychology, but we are grateful to them. Because there is no mother-in-law, there will be no present husband, no present husband and no such lovely child, so no matter what grievances we suffer, as long as we are together, talk to each other and comfort each other, everything will become clear.
When we are free, we will go shopping together. When you meet something you like, you will buy some for each other, not to please each other, but to treat each other as good friends. Sometimes she buys some food for my children, and sometimes I buy some toys for her children. I think being kind to people is mutual. When you are tired of shopping, you will go to a restaurant to eat together, and neither of you will care about paying the bill. Always order whatever you want to eat, and when you are full, everyone will scramble to pay the bill. No one wants to take advantage of anyone, and they are always afraid that the other party will suffer.
When the other party is in financial difficulties, we will take the initiative to help and ask for nothing in return. Because everyone is a family, we will solve problems together. As long as we are able to help, we will never delay. There is no need to fly separately when disaster strikes. Besides, who doesn't have a problem? The worse luck now, the better another time. Today, she was in trouble, and I helped her. Tomorrow, if I have difficulties, she will help me in turn. People are mutual, and they will get as much as they pay. Don't be afraid of losing. Failure is a kind of happiness. What's more, people who are really kind to her won't let you suffer.
When we all have children and their children go to kindergarten, we will discuss going out to work together. Because it is impossible to rely on my husband alone at home, it is very tired. So, with the same dream and goal, we go out to look for a job together. After work, we pay special attention to our responsibilities. At work, we go to work seriously and go home together after work, talking and laughing. We feel that this kind of life is very fulfilling, and we don't have to stay at home and teach our children like traditional women. We go out and integrate into this society to help our husband share the pressure. We hummed to work together and counted the money happily when we got paid. It feels so good!
Therefore, not all sisters-in-law will have contradictions and can't get along. As long as you are bigger, not greedy, and think more about each other, you will get along well!