Maybe in a love relationship, if one party cheats, the other party will be very painful, but it will soon get out of the shadows. But in marriage, if one party cheats, it may become a very painful thing in their life and they will never get out. For one party, the most unforgivable thing in marriage is cheating. Even if you don't divorce for your children and family, you'll never get back to the beginning. Therefore, we should always remind ourselves to respect self-love and be loyal to marriage.
2. Laziness, profligacy and failure.
Although in marriage, most people are not very diligent, but in their eyes, people who only know that they don't care about their families are not allowed, just like a widely circulated black sheep, which is a disaster for boys. Girls who don't know how to take care of their families only know how to spend money and how to squander it. Sooner or later, such a girl will make boys feel chilling about you. They will gradually lose confidence in you and give up on you.
3. Especially unfilial to parents.
Filial piety is the first priority for boys. What boys want most when they bring their wives into the house is that they can be filial to their parents, treat them as if they were their own, and treat them well. If there is a conflict between the girl and her husband's family, even if it is the fault of her husband's family, the boy will lose his trust in his wife, subconsciously think that he is not filial, and then gradually lose his tolerance and love for the girl. Before you marry a boy, you must be filial to your parents and be kind to them at home.
In a relationship, love must be run by two people, and everyone has to pay. If only one person pays silently, everyone will be tired. Love is mutual, not only one person will be happy if he changes. In marriage, only two people support each other and accompany each other can be happy and beautiful. Finally, I hope everyone has a happy marriage.