Some people say that the adopted child is not his own flesh and blood, how to take care of it? This is because they don't understand that people's hearts are connected with qi, and the heart is the main body of qi, so emotional ventilation can pass, but friendship can't be taken care of. Therefore, the stepmother can take care of her ex-wife's children, and the ex-wife can also let her children develop. In this way, withers and moths in nature adopt their offspring. In other words, they are not their own children. The burial book is very detailed. Both men and women, whether they are married at home or adopted by others, can protect their elders with feelings, but they have no feelings and no protection for their own children.
The original words about protection in the book of burial.
People suffer from their parents, and their bones are angry and their bodies are yin.
The skeleton of parents is the foundation of children and grandchildren, while the body of children and grandchildren is a branch of parents, which is related to each other from the beginning. Therefore, Cheng Zi said: If the beauty of the earth is evil, the beauty of the earth will make God safe and future generations prosperous. If the roots are cultivated and the leaves are lush, they are natural and evil. Cai Jitong said: Life and death are different paths, and emotion and qi are interlinked. Naturally, they communicate with each other silently. Now you find a protruding bone, stab a stranger's blood drop, and you are close to your own flesh and blood. It's wrong not to infiltrate. Qi will support each other, nothing more than a body, and monks and Taoists are born different. How can there be a shadow? I don't know that the human heart is connected with qi, and the heart is the master of qi. The general principle of emotion is also connected with qi, and righteousness is absolute. So the stepmother can shadow the former mother and son, and the former mother also sends the stepmother, which is the same thing, so there is no doubt.