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As the saying goes, "when men are older, women are older." Marriage is a growing stage that every man has to go through.
Now that you are married, you must have a house to live in, which is the necessary basic condition for building a love harbor.
Children who grew up in the countryside have seen the spectacular sight of "building a house".
In the early years, houses in rural areas were all built of wood and stone.
"Building a house" means erecting a wooden frame that has been built. The frame of the house assembled by the carpenter is laid flat and erected to become the prototype of a habitable house.
Because it is very heavy, it needs a lot of lean men to pull together to succeed.
I have to say that the scene is really spectacular.
The shouts of reunification, coupled with cheers from the side, really resounded through the valley.
It will take more than an hour just to do such a thing. The most important thing is to put this wooden frame into the planned foundation smoothly.
After this great event is finished, it is necessary to have a meal and rest, and then the masons and carpenters are busy.
It takes time and energy to build a good house.
Therefore, there are many folk sayings about building houses.
For example, this sentence: "I live in a load-bearing house, and it is difficult to prosper when my family is ruined." What is a load-bearing house?
As everyone knows, here is all the ugliness of human nature! What the hell is going on? Listen to the following detailed breakdown:
Building houses in rural areas are mostly dense, so it is convenient to visit neighbors.
But there is also a very real problem: fighting for the edge.
I am a native of the countryside and have seen too many disputes. In retrospect, most of them are because of trivial matters.
For example, just because the two houses next door are adjacent, they need to dig drains, but no one wants their territory to be dug an inch more, so they will fight and hurt their health.
Based on this, if someone's house is built higher than others, it will directly offend neighbors and feel bullied, even the roof is lower than others.
The so-called "carrying room" refers to a lonely house in a private house, which is taller than all the houses around it and has a feeling of standing out from the crowd. From a distance, it looks like a person carrying courage, hence the name.
This form of existence is also called "sedan chair room" in other places, and its meaning is similar.
Therefore, there is a strange phenomenon in many rural areas: when building a house, red bricks are exposed and not capped.
The purpose is to continue to expand on it one day, provided that the houses built by others are taller than themselves.
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As can be seen from this proverb, what is expressed in it is the worldly wisdom, and the heart of comparison is particularly serious. This is a very inferior social phenomenon.
Of course, it also highlights the ugly side of human nature I always feel that others are not as good as myself, and I don't want others to be better than myself. This psychology of comparison and jealousy is distorted and ugly.
As for the second half of the sentence: "The family is broken and cannot prosper" is a summary of human nature.
Once you are taken care of by someone with ulterior motives, you will always be stumped in your life. This kind of destruction is much more, which is naturally not conducive to a calm and harmonious life.
Living in such an environment for a long time is really hard to prosper.
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