I can't write an article, but I am writing like him. Learn to learn, imitate, as long as you can learn to imitate, it is progress.
Is there a fate? He said there was a "destiny". There is an old saying: "One life, two luck and three feng shui", and the first one is "life". As soon as you were born, the recombination of your parents' genes has already determined the composition of all your genes. These genes will play a greater role in your future growth environment than we thought. With the development of science, people find that many things have been decided at birth, but we still don't know what determines what. Psychologist Eric Bourne believes that before the age of seven, each of us will form a plan on how to live this life, which involves how to do one thing and how to establish a relationship, and then store it in our subconscious. This is called "Life Script". Can't obviously realize, can only passively accept, passive execution. The Monkey King jumped out of the stone, and other ordinary people were born by their parents, who gave them their fate and refused to admit it.
Knowing destiny, what is "I"? I am very young. Just because I'm small doesn't mean I'm not. Small as it is, it is powerful, and powerful means energy. In the big environment and high probability, your controllable power is very small and insignificant. But as long as you work hard, identify one thing, identify a possible probability, go all out and die, you may get what you want, and your small ability may be amplified into nuclear energy. This is the role of people.
Manage fate. Can fate be managed? The answer is definitely "yes". First, know who you are first. Four taels or half a catty? Neither arrogant nor inferior. I don't know what potential I have. What should I do? He said "sow widely and reap little", which I understood as "trial and error". Try sports, literature, business and writing. The cost of trial and error is not big, and the loss of failure will be huge. Just face up to your abilities and play them normally. I remembered his nine-character mantra "Don't worry, don't be afraid, shameless". Second, do your best to dig wells and springs, and don't give up easily. Things, one after another, one after another. Third, don't gamble. Many times, do your best and leave it to fate. Know what to do and what not to do, distinguish when to do what and who to do what, and judge the right time, place and person. Put all your eggs in one basket without analysis and judgment, and nine times out of ten you will lose.