Man's first feng shui: cultivate a pair of discerning eyes. There is a saying that life is not a lack of beauty, but a lack of eyes to find beauty.
We often talk about the geomantic omen of houses, which sounds mysterious. But in my opinion, it's not just the house: a person with beautiful eyes can make you live comfortably in this place. People live comfortably and laugh a lot, so life is naturally lucky.
Raising a pair of eyes that discover beauty is the best feng shui.
Man's second feng shui: to raise a kind-hearted Buddhist is called "going against the sky", which is actually what we often say.
There are always some people in life, often with the help of noble people, and the return is good. We attribute them to "good luck", but we never associate their "good luck" with kindness. Good people are also kind. If a person is kind to others, others will naturally come back to be kind to you. This is a truth that everyone knows, but most people do not want to believe it.
In A Dream of Red Mansions, although Wang Xifeng is "too smart to calculate Qingqing's life and death", she sincerely helps Granny Liu who came to Jiafu twice for a windfall. Just because of this seemingly insignificant kindness, it brought a glimmer of hope for her later fate. When Jia Fu was copied, Wang Xifeng was jailed, and her only daughter was about to fall into Yanhua Lane, Grandma Liu came to her rescue in time and married her grandson, with a good result.
Why should people have a kind heart? Writer Liang once said: "Kindness is not something deliberately shown to others. It is a pleasant and natural thing, just like sometimes, kindness is for peace of mind. "
Raising kindness is the best "geomantic treasure" to protect a person.
People's Third Feng Shui: Raising a Plain Mouth China people attach great importance to the art of speaking. As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June.
Speaking sincerely and appropriately is a sign of high emotional intelligence. Such people are often more popular and the roads are smoother. And a person's emotional intelligence depends on his accomplishment. Someone once said that Bo Huang must be the top three in EQ. But his high EQ is not glib, not lip service, but an appropriate response and sincere respect for others.
Once, Bo Huang won the Performing Arts Award, and a reporter asked a rather provocative question: Do you think you can replace Ge You? Bo Huang said proudly, "This era will not stop you from shining, but you can't hide anyone's brilliance. He was an epoch-making filmmaker. At that time, China's films were like that. We are just some younger generations who continue to move forward and dare not make mistakes for this. "
When Bo Huang first came into public view, many people laughed at his appearance, but later he conquered people with superb acting skills and witty charm. After fame and fortune, instead of expanding, he became more humble.
He has a famous "fourth place theory", saying that the best state of life is the fourth place: the best state in the world, which is destined to attract attention, stressful and not too comfortable. Shining on the runway can turn the whole life into a runway, and everyone is watching you, which becomes a very annoying thing; Second, you still want to be the first; Third, we also have this mentality. Being the fourth in the world, you have a certain height and a lot less pressure. You can have respect, and you don't have to be restless day and night.
Behind the witty words is a heart that is open to others and to oneself.
Keeping a vegetarian mouth is a person's best feng shui.