1, it is a social normal for people to walk with tea.
2, relying on the sky will collapse, relying on the ground will crack, and asking for help is not as good as asking for yourself.
3, free is always the most expensive, wool is on sheep.
4. If young people don't work hard, old people will be sad.
5. Getting rich can solve most problems in life.
6. Don't persuade others to be generous if you don't know that others are suffering.
7, human nature can not be delved into, I am afraid that you will be chilling.
8. Don't confide in your heart easily, and don't let your youth feed the dog.
9. The biggest difference between people lies in the cognitive gap.
10, the tide turns, and 20 years later, he becomes a hero again.
1 1, keep a normal mind when doing things. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.
12, "Ugly people should read more books" is true.
13, like, fit, together are three things.
14, ability determines the circle, the circle determines the class, and the class determines the fate.
15, learn to praise others, praise others can never be too much.
16, gregarious is not a necessity in life, and similar souls can go further.
17, blind effort = no effort.
18, a bosom friend is enough in life.
19, don't worry about the past, don't worry about the future, cherish the present.
20, be a kind person, anyone can be your noble.
2 1, if you are lonely, please work harder.
22. No matter how clever a person is, he is stupid, and it is a blessing to suffer.
What is precious is not the experience, but the reflection and summary after your experience.
24. It is most worthwhile to spend money to invest in yourself.
25. The real strong man is not the one who has no tears, but the one who still runs with tears.
26, the gun hits the first bird, and everything is not strong.
27. Be a man, so that we can meet again in the future.
28. Never trust those successful people who say: My success can be replicated.
29. Follow the right boss in the workplace and find the right partner in life.
30. If you don't suffer from mental activity, you will suffer from moving bricks in the future.
3 1, WeChat find someone to chat directly, don't ask "Are you there?" .
32. Don't send blessings in groups. If you care about him, send them in private.
Never speak ill of others behind their backs.
34. Nothing is difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb.
35. Life is like a playground. The first half is more imposing; The second half is better than health.
Life is a journey. It took us several cycles to complete the journey. Besides, it's a short journey, so I might as well be bold. I might as well love someone boldly, climb a mountain and pursue a dream … There are many things I don't understand. But I believe in one thing. God sent us into this world to work miracles.
-"Big Fish Begonia"
I am @ Sister Dan, a cool young man who has experienced human changes and matured prematurely.
Welcome to share the clips around you and interpret human feelings.
1, don't blame yourself for all your failures.
You can't handle many things, not because you have no talent, but because you don't have enough connections and power. Because of the asymmetry and non-communication of information, many things may not be realized by channels even if they are thoughtful and capable.
2. Never be a good person. You are not a god, there is no need to touch the world. Once you do a good deed, you will be praised, twice you will be nodded, and after three times you will be taken for granted, and even some due rights may be deprived. The world needs good people, not good people. I hope all your kindness will be equally respected and rewarded.
3, learn to lock yourself in your heart, don't be a little trouble and can't help telling others. Without reservation, you are like running naked out of the country, and you can see everything in other people's eyes. When you lose the mystery, you will also lose the expectations and surprises of others.
4. Good-looking people bring their own identification attributes and learn to dress themselves up. One is because of self-confidence and the other is because of temperament. For others, your external quality determines whether they are willing to understand your heart.
No matter what job you are looking for, following the right leader is the key. The quality of leaders indirectly determines your development space. Although personal strength is the core competitiveness, a good leader will give full play to your strength.
6. No matter how good the truth is, inaction is nonsense. Useful truth is based on action. Those who just learn without using it will soon forget what they have learned.
7. Those who always want to get benefits from you, please leave as soon as possible. What he wants is not you, but the value in you. Once he gets it, you will be abandoned immediately.
8, people are very strange, the more you have no bottom line, the more he will trample on your bottom line; But the higher your bottom line is, the less he dares to cross it. Therefore, being a good man with thorns, the more correct your attitude, the less likely you are to be bullied.
9. There are many good people in the world, but there are also many bad people.
Children's World: He is crying, don't bully him.
Adult's world: he is so timid and strange.
At work, don't confide in anyone, and don't expose your weaknesses in front of everyone casually, because you don't know who is the villain with a mask on his face and a butcher knife in his hand.
The words "10" and "ba" are naturally used to connect "no".
In adult social interaction, use weak words to deny it. When you ask others for help, but others are hesitant and timid, it is better to find another way.
1 1, stay away from humble people. No matter what the other person says, it must be sour. This kind of person must be inconsiderate, because his best skill is not to give charcoal in the snow, but to add fuel to the fire and make it worse. And this kind of person will block all your opportunities.
12, and people tear X, we should pay attention to ways and means. For example, to belittle something related to each other is to belittle each other. It is worse to belittle each other's family than to belittle each other.
13, the worse people mix, the more they like to hurt the people they love. Incompetent parents will blame their children, and incompetent husbands will hurt their wives. Because they have no power against their superiors.
14, don't vent your emotions in your circle of friends, especially when your emotions are out of control. Careless will offend a group of people. It will also make onlookers think that you are incompetent and have no quality.
15, don't show off how good you are. On the one hand, it is easy to make others feel defensive, on the other hand, it is easy to attract many things that they don't need to do. Smart people know how to create an image of "stupid but hardworking" for others.
16, in interpersonal communication, don't compromise yourself to please others. The more you cater, the less people will take you seriously. The best thing is to improve yourself, become an excellent person in your field, and let others revolve around you, not around others.
17, the closer, the more attention should be paid. When we enter the society, we must learn the thinking of social people, pay more attention to everything, and we must not have the heart of harming others and preventing others.
When I just graduated, my classmates cheated me out of everything, and I didn't have enough to eat. I chewed steamed bread for more than a month. This experience tells me that students should be careful if they think badly.
18. Read more books if you have nothing to do. The world is punishing people who don't read. All the principles and laws can actually be found in books, and all the knowledge can also be found in books. In fact, our world has always been the externalization of knowledge in books.
19. Output/capacity balance is one of the most common principles in the world. If you violate this principle, you can do nothing well.
The output is what you want, such as goals and income; Productivity is the asset or resource you invest.
Most people forget this truth. They want to achieve their goals but don't want to make corresponding efforts. They want to increase their income but don't want to spend time enhancing their value.
To put it bluntly, this is the truth. Only when there is input can there be output, and the balance between short-term interests and long-term interests is the most ideal state (you should know how to enjoy it, but you should also take into account long-term goals).
20. People's behavior is always repetitive, so Excellence is not a single behavior, but a habit-Aristotle.
Excellent people are not gifted, but after deliberate practice, they form habits and become a part of the subconscious. Therefore, the author of Deliberate Practice says that genius is the product of deliberate practice.
2 1, before the age of 30, try to add it. You don't know how many possibilities you have, and you don't know what opportunities fate will give you, so how can you know until you try? -white
22. The biggest difference between the poor and the rich is that the poor keep buying debts and the rich keep buying assets, so the assets of the poor are decreasing and the assets of the rich are increasing.
Rich dad and poor dad said that assets are things that can put money in your pocket, and liabilities are things that take money out of your pocket. The first step of change is to distinguish between assets and liabilities, and then keep buying assets.
Don't waste time on things that can be solved with money. Money can be gained through value exchange, but time is gone after it.
25. No matter how good the relationship is, you must be careful when it comes to money. Make it clear, you must make it clear. Don't feel embarrassed, or you will suffer. When I first graduated, I trusted so-called friends too much. As a result, I was cheated of 3000 yuan.
26. Learn to forget the negation of others. No matter how well you do, it is normal for a group of people to deny you. You can't please everyone. Just be yourself, this is the best way to repay them.
27. Chu Quotations: When you enter an industry, don't worry about making money, first learn to make yourself valuable. No industry can make money easily. Can't earn money, earn knowledge; Can't earn knowledge, earn experience; Can't earn experience, earn experience; If you earn all the above, you won't make any money. There is only one reason why people are confused, that is, they think too much and do too little when they should struggle!
28. When you enter the society, you should learn to practice meditation. After entering society, no one will take the initiative to teach you knowledge. If you don't take the initiative to learn, your competitiveness will be weakened a little. In my spare time, I brush less videos, play less games and read more books to improve my professional ability.
29. Develop living habits as a reward. Four people go to bed early occasionally, and are not disturbed for one night occasionally. They exercise occasionally to help themselves relieve fatigue and eat healthily occasionally.
About self-improvement 0 1. It is impossible to get rich by working. If you want to be rich, you must learn to toss.
Although working in the company seems stable, the salary increase is very low and the development is limited. The best way to increase your income is to be your own boss after mastering the skills and let others work for you.
02. We really can't use the excuse of "youth" several times.
It's normal to make mistakes in your twenties, because we still don't understand many things, but the excuse of "being young" has a time limit. I hope you can learn to grow up quickly and don't make the same mistake again.
It only takes two years to distance yourself from your peers.
I started writing full-time two years ago, and there were many pen pals who started at the same time with me, but they had long since given up the tossing and choosing of their nine-to-five ordinary income.
And in the past two years, both readers and income have been improved several times.
04. Take 40 minutes to learn a skill every day, and you can get started in one month.
You can spare 40 minutes every day and concentrate on learning to write or make videos or other skills. After a month, you don't expect to gain much, but you can certainly master the most basic foundation.
05. If you don't work hard in your twenties, it will be too late to regret after your thirties.
It is too early to try and make mistakes, and it is too early to struggle. In the twenties, because there is no pressure from marriage and children, it is easier to concentrate and work more efficiently.
But after the thirties, there are old people in the world and young people in the world, so they can't devote themselves to hard work. Once they form lazy habits, it will be very painful to correct them.
06. You should master the same deep skills, and learn if you don't understand them.
For me who didn't have a diploma and skills at the beginning, I have a deep understanding of this. If you know nothing, job-hopping won't help you much. Just a change of scenery. If you want to increase your income, you must have a professional skill.
07. Don't think about who you depend on, you should force yourself to be independent.
Parents, the other half, friends ... these people can rely on it for a while, but not for a lifetime. When they are not at home, many things need to be done by themselves. They should be forced to become independent as soon as possible, whether in study or in life.
08. A house is not a necessity, but you should get rid of the rental life as soon as possible.
I used to think that renting a house all my life was nothing, but the older I get, the more I understand the importance of a house. A house is not only a place to sleep and rest, but also represents a person's financial resources and strength.
My goal now is to buy a house as soon as possible. There are too many restrictions on renting a house.
09. If you don't suffer from mental activity, you will suffer from moving bricks.
In my hometown, many people who don't study hard come out to work as cement workers, logistics porters or bottom sales. Although the salary of college graduates is not much, at least they work in an office and have a more promising career.
10. Go to bed early if you have nothing to do, and earn more money if you have time.
Mr Jiang Yang once said, "Your problem lies in reading too much and thinking too much", which really hit the nail on the head. Nothing, don't think too much, don't hold your mobile phone in the middle of the night, one action is better than ten fantasies.
Two. About life
0 1. May you be busy not only making a living, but also falling in love.
Now many people don't know why they work. If they work just to make money and have no interest, they will be very tired. I hope what you don't like now is to prepare for your future liking.
02. You can cook without ordering takeout, and the fireworks in our life are worth appreciating.
It doesn't matter if the house is simple, it's great to keep it clean and tidy at all times.
The kitchen and bathroom are dirty, the bedroom and living room are messy, and it smells as soon as you enter the door ... this should not be your lifestyle. Clean it up on a sunny afternoon. I like the way you tidy the room with your heart.
04. Recording life can prevent Alzheimer's disease.
Keep a diary, make a video and record your life. When you are over 500, you will find life more and more interesting. The key is that you can prevent Alzheimer's disease by using your brain regularly.
It doesn't matter if you are ugly, but you should always pay attention to your cleanliness when you go out.
06. Learn to be alone, be financially independent, get up early to have breakfast, learn to read books, exercise, and go to bed at night without exceeding 12.
No matter how hard life is, please always keep a positive and optimistic attitude. You must love life before life will love you.
08. After the age of 20, it is recommended that girls apply eye cream and neck cream every day.
I'm really going to cry at the age of 25. I wish someone had told me this when I was 20. Some time ago, I suddenly found that there were actually two more neck lines on my neck! ! I'm scared to buy neck cream!
Girls really need to pay attention. Stick to eye cream and neck cream. You will be grateful to yourself after you are 30 years old! Sisters must listen to me!
09. The pillowcase and quilt cover can be changed more comfortably, and the quality of sleep will be higher. It is important to improve the skin. Wash pillowcases and quilts frequently for oily skin.
10. underwear, socks and clothes should be washed separately, and special laundry detergent can prevent gynecological diseases. This is no joke.
3. About interpersonal communication 0 1. Wechat to find someone to chat directly, don't ask "Are you there?" .
Anyone who asks me "are you there", "hello" and "have something to ask" ... I don't reply now, not because it is cold, but because I don't want to waste these unnecessary time.
When you borrow money, you must keep your eyes open and don't care too much about face.
You don't know what he is doing for people who don't often come and go, whether they are relatives or classmates and friends. Don't lend it out if you can't guarantee that he can repay you on time. If you borrow it, you should be ready to get it back.
03. Always keep the mystery of 10% in front of others.
Don't tell everyone, don't tell your secret to your classmates and friends, because he will let the whole forest know your secret.
04. If you regard your boss as a benefactor, he will only regard you as a tool to make money, and the workplace has only interests but no feelings.
05. If you don't want to help, refuse decisively. Do not hesitate. There is nothing to be embarrassed about refusing this matter.
I used to do this. I am always embarrassed to refuse when others ask me to write something, which leads to my work not being finished on time. In the end, I didn't even say "thank you", and I really felt worthless.
Now someone asks me to write something for free, and I will resolutely refuse. Why spend this effort on something that the other person is unwilling to spend time and money on?
06. Never speak ill of others behind their backs, especially in the bathroom ... because the person squatting in your cubicle is probably the one you said. ...
07. There is no shame in talking about money. When it is necessary for friends to talk about money, they must bring it up to avoid differences in the future.
Ask someone to help you buy things, remember to pay in time, and don't think about taking advantage of anything. Before friends form a partnership, we must talk about work distribution and income sharing, and the finer the better.
08. Stay away from that old man who lusts after your body.
Married men, men who obviously envy your figure, men who don't intend to live with you at all ... these people can stay as far away as possible! Don't waste your feelings!
09. Learn to control your emotions. Don't lose your temper and swear in public.
10. No matter how sinister the society is and how cunning the people are, I hope you can always be kind and gentle and stick to your original heart.